Ukufumana ikati eyonwabileyo akubizi mali ininzi ukuba siyayifuna kwaye sifuna ukuba yabelane ngobomi bayo nathi. Ngale nto, kufuneka siyamkele kwaye (ewe, nayo) sifuna uxanduva lokuyinyamekela.
Kodwa, Sifanele senze ntoni ukuze sonwabe?
Ikati ayisiyo fad (okanye ayifanelanga ukuba njalo)
Ukuba nesilwanyana akufuneki kube sisimbo okanye isimbo. Uya kuba nawe kuba ugqibe njalo, Ukusukela kwimzuzu wokuqala isilwanyana, kule meko ikati, ingena endlwini, iya kuxhomekeka kuwe ukwanelisa zonke iimfuno zayo, ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasengqondweni, ebomini bayo bonke, ezinokuhlala malunga neminyaka engama-20.
Kuyinyani ukuba awunakuze uyazi into eza kwenzeka kuthi ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-20, kodwa ukuba sifuna ikati kufuneka sikulungele ukuthatha umngcipheko kunye / okanye iingxaki ezinokuvela.
Ukunyamekela ikati, ngaphezulu kokuyondla
Ukuba nekati akuyi kufuna kuphela ukuyondla, ukuyinika amanzi kunye nophahla ukuzikhusela. Kuhlala kucingwa ukuba esi silwanyana sifuna oko kuphela, kodwa akunjalo. Ikati inokuxhomekeka okanye ixhomekeke emntwini ngaphandle kwenja, umahluko wokuba ukuba wenzakalisa umntu osisilwanyana, kuya kukuhlawula ngakumbi ukuphinda bakuthembe. Le yinto ekufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo ngaphambi kokuba uyamkele okanye uyifumane.
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwekati lomntu bubudlelwane obulinganayo. Ukuba umphethe kakuhle, ngothando, iya kuba yilento akunike yona. Ngaloo ndlela yonke imihla kufuneka umgcine unaye, oko kukuthi, mange, umange, udlale naye ixesha elifutshane lemizuzu emi-5 yonke imihla, kwaye uthethe naye (Ewe, ungathetha naye. Isenokungakuqondi nge-100%, kodwa ngokujonga ulwimi lomzimba wakho nokumamela ilizwi lakho, kancinci kancinci uyakuyazi into ofuna ukuyithetha kuye).
Kuphela emva koko unokuba yikati eyonwabileyo.