Singathanda ukuba abahlobo bethu baphile ixesha elide, kodwa siyazi ukuba ngelishwa akunjalo. Zikhula ngokukhawuleza okukhulu, ukuze zithandeke ngakumbi xa kunokwenzeka, siyonwabele inkampani yazo, kodwa kungekudala baya kuguga. Nangona kusaziwa ukuba babudala obuphakathi kweminyaka eli-10 ubudala, enyanisweni kukho abathile abaqala kwangoko kwaye abanye kamva, kuxhomekeka ikakhulu kugqatso nakwimpilo yabo.
Siyazi ukuba umhla uya kuza xa ungasayi kuphinda usebenze njengangaphambili, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba wazi uyikhathalele njani ikati endala Ukuze ndiqhubeke ndonwabile ecaleni kwakho.
Ukondla ikati endala
Ukutyhubela iminyaka, usenokuphulukana namazinyo, ngenxa yoko awusayi kuphinda ukwazi ukuhlafuna njengokuba wawusemncinci. Xa oko kusenzeka, Kuyacetyiswa ukuba uqhubeke ukumnika ukutya okumanzi, njengoko oku kuya kwenza kube lula kakhulu ukuba uyitye. Ukongeza, olu hlobo lokutya lunuka ngakumbi, ke uya kutsala umdla kulo kwaye uya kukutya konke ngaphandle kokuthandabuza.
Ukunyamekela iinwele zakho
Ikati sisilwanyana esicoceke kakhulu esichitha ixesha laso ukuzilungisa. Nangona kunjalo, njengokuba esiya ekhula, kancinci kancinci uya ezilungisa, kwaye neenwele zakhe ziya kuphulukana nokukhanya kwazo. Ukuyiphepha, kufuneka simkhathalele, ukuxukuxa yonke imihla kwaye wosula ngelaphu okanye itawuli encinci efakwe emanzini afudumeleyo ukususa ubumdaka kanye ngenyanga.
Utyelelo kugqirha wezilwanyana
Njengoko kusenzeka nakubantu, ngokuhamba kweminyaka umzimba ubuthathaka. Izifo ezinje ngeswekile, umhlaza, iingxaki zezintso, isifo samathambo, phakathi kwezinye, zinokuchaphazela abahlobo bethu. Ke ngoko, ibalulekile yiya kugqirha wezilwanyana kanye ngonyaka uphononongo olupheleleyo. Ngale ndlela, nayiphi na ingxaki inokufunyanwa ngexesha.
Ngezi ngcebiso, ikati yakho, nokuba indala, iya kuqhubeka ukonwaba kakhulu, ngokuqinisekileyo 🙂.
Olona nyango lusemgangathweni "lokondla" ikati endala luthando, ukumnika lonke uthando aluvayo ngaye. Ndineekati kwaye ndiyazithanda ukuba zinomsindo. Zizilwanyana ezincinci ezinomdla kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha zithandwa kakhulu.
Kuyinyani kakhulu 🙂