Mhlawumbi uvile nge Isifo sikaNowa, sisifo esihlasela abantu abaninzi nangakumbi. Ingxaki enkulu kakhulu, hayi kubo kuphela kodwa nakwabo boboya, kuba ukunqongophala kococeko kungakhokelela kwizifo kubo bobabini.
Kodwa, yintoni le ngxaki iphakathi? oko kukuthi, Ungayichonga njani? Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba ungenza ntoni ukunceda, ndiza kukuxelela ngako apha ngezantsi.
Yintoni na?
UNowa Syndrome kukuphazamiseka kwengqondo oko Inokuqokelela kwezilwanyana ngendlela engalawulekiyo, nokuba ziikati, izinja, iintaka, ... nantoni na. Umntu ochaphazelekayo unokuziva ezixabisa, kodwa xa egula akawuqondi umonakalo-ngakumbi ngokweemvakalelo-ukuba ubangela ukuba bavalelwe kwisithuba esiya sincipha ngakumbi kwaye bekwimeko enzima kakhulu.
Zithini iimpawu?
Iimpawu zesi sifo zezi zilandelayo:
- Ukuqokelelwa kwenani elikhulu lezilwanyana ngokunyanzelwa nangokungaqhelekanga.
- Ukungakwazi ukugcina izilwanyana kakuhle.
- Ukuphikwa kwengxaki.
- Izilwanyana ezinoboya kunye nabantu bayasokola.
Unganceda njani?
Ukuba uyazi ngetyala le-Noah Syndrome, into ekufuneka uyenzile yile Nxibelelana noMkhuseli Wezilwanyana (hayi indlu yenja). Yena, kunye nekhansile yengingqi, bebeya kuba noxanduva lokufunda eli tyala, bazakuzama ukufikelela kwisivumelwano nomntu ochaphazelekayo ukuze izilwanyana zithathwe ngezona ndlela zoxolo kwaye, ukuba kukho imfuneko, zifayilishe okufanelekileyo isikhalazo.
Izilwanyana azizizo izinto. Akufanele baphathwe njengezinto. Xa sithatha ikhaya elinye kufuneka sinoxanduva kunye naye, siqinisekise ukuba unakho konke akufunayo (amanzi, ukutya, uthando, indawo ecocekileyo nekhuselekileyo yokuhlala), kunye nonyango lwezilwanyana. Ulonwabo lwabo luya kuxhomekeka kuyo ... kananjalo, ngandlela thile, nakuthi.