Ngamanye amaxesha akukho lula nje ekuqaleni ukujonga ukuba ikati yindoda okanye ibhinqa, ngakumbi ukuba lusana. Kungenzeka nokuba usapho lungacaci ngalo de uboya bufike kwiinyanga ezininzi ubudala.
Ndazi njani ukuba ikati yam yindoda okanye ibhinqa? Ukuba unemibuzo, sinethemba lokuyiphendula yonke apha Noti Gatos 🙂.
Ukuba uboya bakho busemncinci kakhulu, indlela ekhawulezayo yokuxela kukujonga kumalungu akho esini. Kwimeko yokuba yindoda, phakathi kwendundu kunye nelungu lobudoda kuyakubakho ukwahlukana okuncinci, kulapho amasende aya kubekwa khona (ukuba akakho); Kwelinye icala, ukuba ngowasetyhini, ngezantsi nje kwe-anus uya kubona ukuvulwa okuthe nkqo.
Kodwa ngaphandle kokubona amalungu akhe obuni kufuneka sijonge umzimba wakhe kunye nebala lakhe, kuba oku kunxulunyaniswa nesini sesilwanyana. Iikati zamadoda zinomzimba owomeleleyo, onemisipha kunye nomzimba omde, okhuselwe yingubo enokuba bomvu okanye mnyama, kubandakanya ukungcola okune-blonde, cream kunye grey, okanye bicolor. Kwelinye icala, abantu basetyhini banokuba yi-tricolor (ufudo okanye ii-hawksbill). Singaqhubeka ke ngoko ukuba namathandabuzo amaninzi ukuba ingaba ikati ibimhlophe, imnyama okanye iorenji, kodwa ukuba iyi-tricolor sinokuqiniseka ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba yeyabasetyhini.
Nangona ayisiyonto ekucetyiswa kakhulu ukulungisa, Ndikucebisa ngokujonga ikati ngokwayo, ndibona indlela eziphatha ngayo. Kuyinyani ukuba xa zincinci, zombini inkunzi nemazi zingumoya ovuthuzayo, kodwa kukho iinkcukacha ezincinci ezizahlula. Abafazi bathanda ukuba ngabasetyhini kakhulu kwindlela abahamba ngayo, xa besondela kuwe becela ukutotelwa; Baye bathambekele ekugcinweni ngakumbi kwaye, ukuba ndingatsho njalo, ndineentloni ngakumbi. Amantshontsho ekati adla ngokuba nesibindi.
Ngaba ukwazile ukufumanisa ukuba ikati lakho liyindoda okanye libhinqa?