Ukuthetha ngesi sihloko akukho lula, kodwa kwibhlog enje kufuneka uthethe ngayo yonke into enxulumene neekati: ezilungileyo, ezinomdla, kodwa ezimbi. Ukufa kukuphela kobomi, kwaye kuya kuphela ukufikelela kuthi sonke. Abethu abanoboya baphila iminyaka engaphantsi kakhulu kunaleyo siyenzayo, isizathu esingaphezulu ngokwaneleyo sokubabonisa indlela esibathanda ngayo yonke imihla.
Ngokuhamba kweminyaka sizakubona ukuba bayaluphala, abasenamdla wokudlala njengangaphambili. Kodwa kufuneka sazi ukuba ngenye imini siza kuchonga ezinye iinkcukacha eziza kusixelela ukuba, ngelishwa, isiphelo sayo sikufuphi. Fumana ukuba wazi njani ukuba ikati izakufa.
Jonga ukuba uyatya kwaye uyasela
Ikati esempilweni iyakutya amaxesha ama-4-5 ngemini kwaye isele iityuwa ezincinci zamanzi. Ukuba sele iza kufa siza kubona ukuba umondliyo kunye nomntu oselayo bahlala bezele. Njengomphumo wokuphelelwa ngumdla wokutya, uyakusebenzisa ibhokisi yakhe yenkunkuma kancinci kwaye, ukongeza, uboya bunokuzikhulula apho kufanele khona ngenxa yokuphulukana nolawulo kumjelo wakhe wokuchama.
Sondela kuye kwaye unuke
Ivumba elibi luphawu lokuba akukho namnye kuthi ofuna ukuluqaphela kwiikati zethu. Bubungqina bokuba isilwanyana sifikelele esiphelweni sobomi baso. Kungenxa yokuba Xa amalungu eyeka ukusebenza, iityhefu ziyaqokelelana, zibangele ivumba lazo.
Jonga ukuba ufuna ukuba yedwa
Ikati efayo khangela ukuba wedwa ukwazi ukuzola. Inokufihlwa phantsi kwefanitshala okanye phantsi kwebhedi, okanye kwenye indawo ngaphandle.
Jonga ingxaki yokuphefumla
Ikati esempilweni ithatha umoya phakathi kwama-20 nama-30 ngomzuzu. Xa intliziyo iba buthathaka, imiphunga ayisebenzi kakuhle kungoko ioksijini encinci ifakwa kwigazi.. Into eyenzayo kukuba ekuqaleni isilwanyana kufuneka sithathe umoya rhoqo, kwaye ke ukuphefumla kuhamba kancinci kwaye kunzima ngakumbi njengoko imiphunga igcwalisa ulwelo.
Ukuba ukhe wazibona naziphi na kwezi mpawu kwikati yakho, okanye ukuba ukrokrela ukuba iyagula, musa ukuthandabuza: ndimse kugqirha wezilwanyana ngokukhawuleza okukhulu