Ngokubanzi, ikati esele ingumama iya kuba ngumzali obalaseleyo kubantwana bayo. Kuluvuyo lokwenene ukumbona enyamekela amantshontsho, ezigcina zicocekile, zondlekile kwaye zikhuselekile engqeleni. Kodwa ngubani onokungakwazi ukunceda uboya bakhe? Ngokuqinisekileyo andinakumvumela ukuba enze wonke umsebenzi eyedwa, kwaye nawe awungekhe, akunjalo?
Ke ngoko, usenokuzibuza ukuba uyikhathalele njani ikati esele ineekati. Yintoni anokuyenza umntu ngenzala yakhe, kunye neenjana zakhe? Ngethamsanqa, kuninzi.
Ngexesha lokukhulelwa
Ikati ikhulelwe malunga neentsuku ezingama-65 okanye njalo (ubuncinci kufuneka ihlale ama-64, kwaye ubuninzi ingama-67). Ngelo xesha uyakufuna uthotho lokhathalelo ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle, ukuqala ngokutya. Nje ukuba sazi ukuba ulindele iikati, Kufuneka sitshintshe indlela atya ngayo kwaye siqale simnike ukutya kweekati kunye neekati zokonga, kuba ziqulathe uxinzelelo oluphezulu lwezakhamzimba oluya kuba yimfuneko kakhulu ekuncanciseni.
Kodwa kwakhona, kufuneka siqiniseke ukuba uhlala kwikhaya elikhuselekileyo nelithuleyo, ngaphandle kwengxolo nokothuka. Ukuba sifuna yonke into ihambe kakuhle, ukuzola, umonde kunye nentlonipho ziya kuba zezethu. Kananjalo kufuneka simyeke athathe isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukwenza ndlwana yakhe phi, kwaye angayitshintshi ngaphandle kokuba ukwindawo eyingozi (enje ngekhitshi okanye igumbi lokuhlamba impahla).
Ngexesha lokuhanjiswa
Kangangoko kunokwenzeka, asizukungenelela. Kufuneka nje sijonge ukuba i-placenta iyagxothwa na ikati nganye ezelwe, kwaye encinci iyahamba emva kokuzalwa. Kwimeko apho oku kungenjalo, siya kuyithatha kwaye senze ngokungathi sifuna ukuyicoca kakuhle, ngononophelo, ngelaphu, siphulula umqolo. Kukwabaluleke kakhulu ukuvuthela umoya emiphungeni, oya kuba lilizwi lomlomo. Ngamanye amaxesha eli lelona nyathelo linokunceda ikati ukuba liphile.
Ukuba i-placenta ilahlekile okanye ukuba ikati ibonakala ibuthathaka kakhulu kwaye sikrokrela ukuba inekatana ngaphakathi, thetha nogqirha wezilwanyana ngokukhawuleza okukhulu
Emva kokuzalwa
Ikati ngethuku eyaziyo indlela yokunyamekela amantshontsho ayo. Kodwa Ukuba sisihlandlo sokuqala, iingxaki zinokuvela, njengentshontsho elingatyi kakhulu okanye umama alilele. Ukuba le yinto eyenzekileyo kuthi, sinokuyinyamekela ngokulandela oku isikhokelo. Ukongeza, kuya kufuneka siyazi into eyenzekileyo, kuba uboya bunokubandezeleka sisifo sokukrala kwebele, esisifo sokudumba kwebele.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Kuya kufuneka ujonge ukukhutshwa kwilungu lobufazi lekati. Kwiintsuku ezili-10 zokuqala, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba udlulise ukukhutshwa ngegazi elincinci elimnyama; kodwa ukuba emva kwelo xesha liyaqhubeka ukwenza njalo kwaye / okanye liqala ukuba nevumba elibi, kuya kufuneka uye kugqirha wezilwanyana njengoko kunokuba sisifo.
Siyathemba ukuba eli nqaku beliluncedo kuwe 🙂.