Ikati inomdla kakhulu, kwaye kuba injalo, ngamanye amaxesha ingena kwindawo apho inokuba semngciphekweni. Ukuyigcina ekhaya ke kufuna ukuthatha uthotho lwamanyathelo okhuseleko Injongo yakhe kukukhusela umhlobo wethu esimthandayo kodwa ngaphandle kokumvimba.
Nokuba uboya buzolile kakhulu okanye ukuba ngokuchaseneyo unovalo, kuya kufuneka sazi indlela yokugcina ikati kude nengozi. Kukho iimeko ezahlukeneyo oza kuzifumana ebomini bakho bonke, kwaye ezinye zazo zinokuba zonakalisayo kunezinye.
Zeziphi iingozi ezikhoyo ekhaya?
Ikati ehlala ekhaya iya kuchitha imizuzu eliqela ngosuku iphonononga indawo yayo iphindaphindwe. Njengabantu asifezekanga. Ithetha ntoni le nto? Ewe, akukhathaleki ukuba sinememori elungileyo kangakanani, ngamanye amaxesha singashiya izinto ezinokuba yingozi phezu kwetafile, enye ifanitshala okanye umgangatho inokuba ikati ifuna ukuwudlala, ezinje ngeentambo, ngeentolo, ngeebhola ezincinci, okanye nangantoni na enokuphakanyiswa yikati. Zonke ezi zinto kufuneka sizigcine kwidrowa ukuze kungabikho ngxaki. Ukongeza, akufuneki zibekho izityalo eziyityhefu akukho mveliso ityhefu ezandleni zakho.
Kodwa asinakulibala malunga neentambo. Siphila kwihlabathi eliqhubekayo lobuchwephesha, kwaye kunjalo, amakhaya ethu azele ziintambo. Ikhompyuter, umabonwakude, imicrowave, ... phantse yonke into esiyisebenzisa mihla le ekhaya isombane. Abo bethu bahlala neefonts Kufuneka sisonge ucingo ngento ethile, njengemibhobho yedriphu esetyenziselwa ukulungisa umhlaba okanye ikhadibhodi.
Kwaye kuthekani ngeefestile? Ifestile evuliweyo, ngakumbi ukuba uhlala kumgangatho wesibini (okanye ngaphezulu) inokuba ngumahluko phakathi kokuba nekati ephilayo kunye nekati efileyo. Ndiyaxolisa ukuyithetha ngoluhlobo, kodwa yinyani ebuhlungu. Zininzi iikati ezine Isifo sengqondo sekati yeparachute, kwaye ufumane ubunzima ngenxa yoko. Kwiimeko ezinzima, ukwaphuka kwakho kuya kuthatha iiveki ezimbalwa ukuba ziphilise, kodwa kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, ubomi bakho bunokuba sengozini. Kunjalo ngoba Ngaphambi kokuthatha isilwanyana siye endlwini kufuneka sikhusele zonke iifestile ngomnatha okhuselayo weekati esiya kuyifumana siyithengisa kuyo nayiphi na ivenkile yezilwanyana zasekhaya.
Kwaye phesheya?
Indawo yasezidolophini
Xa uhlala esixekweni okanye kwidolophu enabantu abaninzi, akufuneki uyivumele ikati ukuba iphume phandle, kuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba ayizukuphila ngaphezulu kweminyaka eyi-1 okanye yesi-2. Iingozi zininzi kwaye zahlukile: iimoto, abantu ababi abaphatha izilwanyana ngokuzibulala, iityhefu, izifo, ... Umngcipheko wokuphulukana kunye / okanye ukufa uphezulu kangangokuba, ndiyanyanzelisa, ukuba ufuna inja yakho enoboya, ungamvumeli aphume endlwini phantsi kwayo nayiphi na imeko.
Indawo yasemaphandleni
Xa uhlala emaphandleni, ngaphandle kwedolophu okanye kwilali, ikati ingadlala ubomi bekati; Ngamanye amagama, ungahamba uye kubethwa ngumoya kuba iingozi oza kudibana nazo zincinci. Zincinci, kodwa ziyingozi: iityhefu, abantu ababi (abazingeli), izinja okanye ezinye izilwanyana ezinkulu.
Kuzo zonke ezi zizathu, kufuneka siyikhuphe kuphela xa sisazi ukuba sikwindawo ekhuselekileyo. Kwaye nangona kunjalo, ukuba sinokuthandabuza kuya kuhlala kulunge ukufundisa hamba ngeentambo zokubopha kwipuppy, okanye uthenge istroller (esingadlali) sezilwanyana ezincinci, ezinokuthi zifane nomphathi wamavili.
Amava am
Ndihlala phantse emaphethelweni edolophu enabemi abamalunga ne-4 lamawaka. Isitalato ibisesinye sezona zithuleyo, kodwa kumaxesha akutshanje, ukukhula kwabantu kuyanda njengoko kudlula iimoto ezininzi; azininzi, kodwa zenzeka kakhulu kunangaphambili. NgoDisemba 2017 babaleka ngaphezulu kweekati zam, ku-Bicho, i-panther eyayineenyanga ezisibhozo ubudala ngelo xesha.
Nangona kumthathe malunga nenyanga ukuba ahambe kakuhle kwakhona, oko kukuthi, yayingeyonto imbi kangangokuba angabinako ukuziphilisa, indenze ndaphinda ndacinga ukuba ndingazivumeli iikati zam ziphume xa ndifumana inkululeko. Uyabona, elinye lamaphupha am kukuhamba ndiye kuhlala kwindlu yelizwe. Kude kube ngalamzuzu ndiqinisekile ukuba ndizakuziyeka iikati zam, ezihlanu, ziphume ziye phandle, kuba umbono endinawo yayikukuthenga enye eyayinecebo elibiyelweyo. Kodwa emva kwento eyenzekileyo, ndiye ndazikhusela kakhulu.
Ndiyazi ukuba xa usuku lufikile kuya kuthatha kakhulu ukuba bahlengahlengise, kodwa xa sishukuma ngekhe baphinde babone umphandle. Ukulungelwa kwakho. Ndifuna baphile yonke le minyaka bazakuyiphila, bafe ngenxa yokwaluphala hayi imoto okanye enye into. Kuko konke oku, ndicela ukuba ngaphambi kokuba umyeke umhlobo wakho ahambe, cinga ngako, ucamngce ngayo. Vavanya izinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga, kwaye ucinge ukuba "ngokuchasene" nomntu omnye unokuthatha ikati yakho kuwe.
Ndiyathemba ukuba eli nqaku beliluncedo kuwe 🙂.