Iikati zinendlela ekhethekileyo yokuhamba. Kude kube kutshanje bekukholelwa ukuba bayenzile njengezona zilwanyana zinemilenze emine, kodwa inyani kukuba besingalunganga. Kwaye kakhulu. Kodwa ayisiyonto incinci, kuba bambalwa kakhulu abenza okufanayo. Ngapha koko, ziinkamela, iindlulamthi, kunye neekati kuphela.
Kodwa, Zihamba njani iikati?
Bahamba njani?
Kunqabile ukuba sive iinyawo zabahlobo bethu. Ngapha koko, ndinokuxelela ukuba mna ngokwam ndiyaqonda kuphela ukuba bayasondela ... xa besondele. Ewe, bahamba ngokugqibeleleyo kangangokuba unokubava kuphela xa bedlala ithegi. Oku kukhethekileyo yinto eza kuluncedo xa isiza kungabonwa, kuba yenza ukuzingela kube lula kakhulu. Nokuba sidlala naye apho kufuneka ayibambe khona le nto yokudlala, siza kubona ukuba uyibonisa njani indlela aziphethe ngayo: ukujonga okungagungqiyo, umzimba oguqulweyo, ukungashukumi umsila wakhe, kwaye xa esiva ukuba umzuzu ufikile, Uhlaselo olungenangxolo.
Iikati, xa zihamba, Xhasa ubunzima bomzimba kwiminwe yesandla, hayi esandleni uqobo. Ukongeza, enkosi kwiipads kunye neenzipho zayo, ezinokurhoxiswa (Oko kukuthi, zihlala zifihliwe de isilwanyana sithathe isigqibo sokuzisusa), ukuthula kuqinisekisiwe.
Ngendlela, ubusazi ukuba iikati zihamba ngendlela egqibeleleyo? Ewe, ukulandelelana kokuhamba kwemilenze yayo kulandelayo: umlenze wasekhohlo ngasemva, umlenze wangaphambili wasekhohlo, umlenze wasekunene ongasemva, umlenze wokuqala wasekunene. Oku kuthetha ukuba okomzuzwana imilenze kwelinye icala ihlala imisiwe emoyeni. Kodwa kuninzi: ngemilenze yabo yangasemva banyathela phantse kwindawo enye apho umlenze wabo wangaphambili ushiye uphawu, ngokutsho kombhali uWendy Christensen.
Iikati ziqala nini ukuhamba?
Ukubona ikati ibhabha emhlabeni yinto enyibilikisa intliziyo yakho. Ukwenzela yena, ngamava okufunda ngaphandle kokuwa, kodwa asizukuyikhanyela: Kumnandi kakhulu ukumbona efunda. Ngaphezu kwesihlandlo esinye usenza sincume, kwaye sinokude silingeke ukuba simncede kancinci ngokumbamba.
Kodwa intshontsho lekati, njengathi sonke esizalwe sinamalungu omzimba, kufuneka lifunde ukuzihambela lodwa ngokuzama nokwenza iimpazamo. Kwaye oku kuyakhawuleza: ngeenyanga ezimbini uya kuba sele ekhule ngokwaneleyo ukuba abe nakho, kungekuphela ukuhamba, kodwa nokubaleka. Makhe sibone ukuba ufunda njani:
- Iiveki ezi-0 ukuya kwezi-2: uzalwe ekwazi ukukhasa, ngethuku elimsulwa. Yindlela ekufuneka esondele ngayo kunina, anokuselwa kuyo ubisi, kwaye afudumale.
- Iiveki ezi-2-3: kancinci kancinci imilenze iyomelela, ke iqala ukuncika kwimilenze yangasemva xa, umzekelo, ikwibhokisi okanye kwindawo ezele ukuphakama emhlabeni.
- Iiveki ezi-4-6: kule minyaka kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ahambe. Kodwa iyakhubeka kwaye iwe ngamanye amaxesha, kuba umsila, osebenza njengephini lokulawula, awukakhuli ngokupheleleyo kwaye awukakulungeli ukulungelelaniswa.
- Iiveki ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-7: xa intshontsho lekati limalunga nenyanga enesiqingatha, uya kwazi ukuhamba phantse ngekati yabantu abadala.
- Iiveki ezi-8-10: ufunda ukutsiba kunye nokunyuka, kodwa okwangoku akayazi indlela yokuhla eyedwa. Esi sisakhono oza kusifunda ngokuhamba kwexesha; kwaye ke, kukho iikati zabantu abadala - ezenziwe ekhaya, ezingazange ziphume ngaphandle- ezinokufuna uncedo lokwehla.
- Ukuqala kwiiveki ezili-11: umzimba wakho, njengoko ukhula, uya kuzenza ngokugqibeleleyo izakhono zawo, zonke ezo, zokuhamba, ukutsiba, ukunyuka, njl.
Ngaba banokuhlala ngaphandle kwemilenze? Ukuchithwa kwamalungu kuchaphazela njani iikati?
Sonke siyayazi indlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukuba, kwimeko yethu, imilenze, kunye neekati, imilenze ukuze sikwazi ukuhamba, sisuke kwenye indawo siye kwenye okanye sizikhusele. Kodwa inyani kukuba ukuba umntu wethu othandekayo unesifo okanye ufumene ingozi ebuhlungu, ugqirha wezilwanyana usenokuthi asixelele ukuba kungcono ukunqunyulwa mhlawumbi umlenze, okanye ezinye, okanye zonke, okanye umsila. Ukuphendula kwethu kuhlala kuyinto exhalabisayo: ngaba inokuhlala ngaphandle kwemilenze okanye ngaphandle komsila?
Inyani yile iikati zinengqondo yokuziqhelanisa, kwaye kuba zikhathalele umzuzu wangoku, kulula kakhulu kubo ukuba baqhele imeko yabo entsha. Ngapha koko, makhe sijonge indlela ukunqunyulwa kwalo naliphi na elinye lamalungu alo kunokuyichaphazela ngayo indlela yakho:
Cola
Umsila, njengoko besitshilo ngaphambili, sisixhobo somzimba wakho, esikuncedayo- kunye nendlebe yakho - ukugcina ibhalansi kunye nokutshintsha indawo xa utsibela xa kukho imfuneko. Unokucinga ukuba ikati eshiyekileyo ngaphandle kwayo iya kuba nzima, kwaye kunokuba njalo ekuqaleni kodwa uyakuyiqhela, ndiyaphinda, indlebe yenye yoxanduva lokulinganisa. Kwakhona, zininzi iikati ezizalwe ngaphandle kwayo, kwaye akukho ngxaki 🙂.
Iipaw
Imilenze sisifundo esinzima ngakumbi. Ukuba unqunyulwe inye kuphela, uya kufunda ukuhamba ngokulula njengoko ubuyisa ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kwakho.
Kwimeko apho kukho ezimbini okanye nangaphezulu, eso silwanyana siza kuxhomekeka kakhulu- ngakumbi-kuthi, kuba siya kufuna uncedo ukusondela kulowo usondlayo kunye nomseli, ibhedi, ibhokisi yesanti, njl. Singathetha kugqirha wezilwanyana malunga nokubeka i-prosthesis yeekati, ukuze isilwanyana siqhubeke nokuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo.
Uyithintela njani ikati ekulahlekelweni yimilenze yayo?
Ikati sisilwanyana esinomdla kakhulu, kwaye ayiqhelekanga ukuba ibe neengozi. Kodwa ezo ngozi zinokuphetshwa ngokulula ukubeka ukhuseleko ekhaya, ezinje ngeminatha kwiifestile ukuze zingatsiba, zigcina iglasi, izinto zodongwe kunye ne-porcelain zigcinwe kakuhle, kwaye ngamafutshane, ziqinisekisa ukuba akukho bungozi kuye.
Ngokwenyani, kubalulekile ukuyeka ukucinga ukuba ikati ayizukutsiba ukusuka kumgangatho wesine okanye wesihlanu (umzekelo), kuba iya kuthi xa ibona intaka okanye into ebambe umdla wayo. Kwaye iinethi zitshiphu kakhulu: malunga ne-euro ezilishumi unokukhusela ubomi besilwanyana sakho, cinga ngaso. I-euro ezilishumi ngokutshintshiselana ngobomi.
Ndiyathemba ukuba eli nqaku beliluncedo kuwe.