Iikiti. Ezi bhola zincinci zeenwele (okanye ezingenaboya, ukuba yenye ongenayo, njengeSphynx) ethi xa ujonge nje enye ivuse amandla ethu okukhusela. Isimo sakhe sesenjana: njengoko yonke into intsha kuye, kufuneka wenze uphando kwaye uphonononge yonke ikona yekhaya, Kwaye kwakhona.
Ukusuka kwiinyanga ezi-2 ubudala ukuya malunga nonyaka, uyakuthanda ukwenza ububi phantsi kwamehlo omkhathaleli wakhe; ngamanye amaxesha akukho lula ukuyilawula. Ke, Ungayiqeqesha njani ikati?
Ezinoboya zi… zingummangaliso 🙂. Zibaleka zisuka apha ziye phaya, zinyuka phezu kwetafile, isofa,… kulungile, naphina apho zinokufikelela khona. Bangalahla izinto ("bengaqondanga" ukufumana ingqwalaselo), bakrwebe apho bekungafanelekanga ... Ndithe: kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ikhaya linokuba kwisiphithiphithi. Kodwa yonke into inesisombululo. Ngapha koko, kufuneka ube nomonde kakhulu kwaye ubeke imida, kanye njengokuba utata enokwenza nomntwana wakhe. Kufuneka uqine kodwa ungabi ndlongondlongoNgaphandle koko siza kuphelela ekufumaneni ikati eyoyikisayo.
Enye into ekufuneka uyikhumbule kukuba kunzima kwikati ukuyeka ukukhwela phezu kwetafile okanye ebhedini xa inikwe imvume yokwenza njalo ngaphambili. Ayenzeki 🙂, kodwa ewe loo nto singagcina ixesha elininzi ukuba asimvumeli ukuba ayenze kwasekuqaleni.
Ngokubhekisele kwiiseshini zomdlalo, ezi ziya kubakho mihla le. Yonke imihla siya kudlala nayo ubuncinci imizuzu engama-30 ukuya kwengama-40 (yahlulwe yaziiseshoni ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-4 zemizuzu eli-10), uhlala ubeka into yokudlala (isilwanyana esifakiwe, intambo, ibhokisi) phakathi kwezandla zethu naye ukuze afunde ukuba umzimba wethu awunakukrwatshwa okanye ukulunywa. Ke, siya kuqinisekisa ukuba uzolile kwaye ufika ebusuku udiniwe, ufuna ukulala (kwaye ungahambi ujikeleze indlu).
Ukukhulisa ikati kuthatha ixesha kwaye kufuna umonde omkhulu, kodwa ekugqibeleni umsebenzi uvelisa isiqhamo.
Ukuziphatha kweekati kuyafana kuleyo yenkawu, enobubi kunye ne-cheeky. Ndibe ngutitshala ombi kwaye bayenzile into abayifunayo.
Kunzima ukuxelela ikati ukuba ingayi endaweni okanye ingakrazuli umhombiso eludongeni ... kwaye ndikumamele, ngokuqinisekileyo ayinakwenzeka, kodwa ukulawula i-9, ndiphelelwe ngumonde ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndamkele ukonakala kwesibambiso kunye nokukhusela into ebalulekileyo kum, ukuyigcina okanye ukuvala iingcango.
Ndijonge kwicala elilungileyo, kwaye ndiyacinga, ewe, kuyonwabisa ukubabona begxuma bebaleka bonwabile.
Ngamanye amaxesha basusa izinto kuwe ukuze bazileqe kwaye bazibambe, bafuna ukuba udlale nabo kwaye leyo yindlela yabo yokubuza kuwe. Okanye xa uvula idrowa okanye ikhabhathi kwaye babeke u-3 okanye u-4, ngokufanayo, bayathanda ukudlala ikati kunye nempuku. Kwaye ubakhuphele ngaphandle kwigumbi i-odyssey iphela, uthatha u-1 kwaye ungene ngo-3, banethuba elimnandi lokukuphepha!
Nangona ngamanye amaxesha ukungayikhumbuli i-pillería yayo kungakhokelela ekubeni ufumane zonke i-crepes oziphekileyo zisasazekile endlwini ...
Ukuthetha into kuye, ndiza kuthi ekuqaleni babenezinto ezichasene naye, kwakubonakala ngathi intombi yam yayingalunganga (wangena kwigumbi elinamakati amaninzi ukuze amkele enye kwaye emva kwethutyana amehlo akhe abomvu, aba manzi kwaye adumbile) kwaye ngaphandle Nangona kunjalo, ngoku ngamanye amaxesha ulala nabo, ubazalisa ngokubanga kwaye akukho nto konke konke.
Umyeni wam wayengazithandi iikati, kwaye emva kwethutyana, akayazi kodwa uyabona ukuba uzithanda kakhulu, ngenxa yendlela abakhathalele ngayo nendlela abampompa ngayo, ude wafundisa enye ukuba ibethe inyawo! 🙂
Ngaba banokuba nembonakalo efihlakeleyo ekuqhathanisayo kwaye uwele emazantsi wamehlo abo amangalisayo?
Kunokwenzeka ukuba imalunga noku, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo 🙂. Bakrelekrele kakhulu kwaye bayayazi indlela yokufumana into abayifunayo. Kwaye ungabaxhathisa njani? Ayikwazi.