Iikati ngokubanzi zizilwanyana ezinoxolo kunye nomlinganiswa ozolileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha Baziva bekhathazekile kakhulu, kwaye kulapho bathi bashiye intlalontle ecaleni ukubonisa elinye icala labo.
Kubalulekile ukuba silwazi ulwimi lomzimba woboya ukuthintela isilwanyana ekufikeleleni kuloo meko. Fumanisa ukuba ungaxela njani ukuba ikati yam inomsindo.
Las iimpawu Oku kuyakubonisa ukuba ikati iqala ukuziva ingonwabanga zezi zilandelayo:
- Buyisa iindlebe zakho: iya kuba yenye yezinto zokuqala ozenzayo. Uya kubabuyisela umva nanini na xa eziva esongelwa, okanye nanini na xa esoyika. Kwakhona xa sele eza kuhlasela. Okwangoku eyona nto intle ukuyenza kukungamnaki, oko kukuthi, asizukujonga kuye okanye sithethe naye, kwaye asizukumphulula.
- Vula umlomo wakho ubonise amazinyo akhoIifrakhsi zinamazipho azo abukhali njengesixhobo sokuzikhusela, kodwa ngakumbi amazinyo, anokwenza umonakalo omkhulu. Ukuba indoda yakho enoboya ikubonisa amazinyo, hlala kude nayo. Lindela ukuba ihlise umoya.
- Arch umva wakho: Kwimeko apho uziva ngenene ukuba ubomi bakho busemngciphekweni, okanye xa umntu omdala edlala nenjana engakushiyi wedwa, unokuwubamba umqolo wakho kwaye ubethe uboya beli candelo lomzimba ubonakale umkhulu.
- Ukugquma: ukugquma, kwiimeko ezininzi, sisilumkiso nje. Yindlela yakhe yokuthi "Ndiziva ndingonwabanga, hlala kude." Ukuba asiwukhathaleli lo mqondiso, emva koko sinokugqibela ngokukrwela okanye ukulunywa.
Ikati enomsindo sisilwanyana esingaziva sikhululekile, kwaye ukuba asinandawo yokubalekela. Kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba ikati akufuneki ishiywe yodwa inosana okanye umntwana omncinci, kuba banokuphelisa ukwenzakalisana ngokungazi ngentsingiselo yolwimi lomzimba kuzo zombini iintlobo (i-feline kunye nomntu).
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