Ngokubanzi, ukuba ikati isempilweni, iya kuzala amantshontsho ekati ngokulinganayo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuvela iziganeko ezingalindelekanga ezinokuthi zibeke ubomi babo emngciphekweni. Kwaye kungenxa yokuba ukuqhomfa okuzenzekelayo kunokwenzeka nokuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle ngenkangeleko.
Ngoko ke, Siza kuwuphendula umbuzo wakho malunga nendlela yokwazi ukuba ikati yam ikhuphe isisu, ngale ndlela unokuthatha amanyathelo afanelekileyo ukumnceda woyise.
Zintoni oonobangela bokuqhomfa kwiikati?
Zininzi izinto ezibangela isisu, ezahlulwe ngokwexesha lokumitha:
- Inqanaba lokuqala: akukho zimpawu. Kwenzeka nje ukuba kukho ukubuyisela kwakhona umbungu. Ihlala ididekile nokukhulelwa kwengqondo.
- Inqanaba eliphakathi: ukusukela kwiintsuku ezingama-30 emva kokwabelana ngesondo, ukuba isisu siyenzeka siyabona ukuba kukho ukulahleka kwegazi okanye izicwili.
- Inqanaba lokugqibela: ikati ihlala ifika ingenazimpawu ekupheleni kokukhulelwa, kodwa amantshontsho asazalwa.
Ngaphandle koku, zinokuhlelwa ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni ziyosulela na, zichaphazela umama, iplacenta kunye / okanye inzala; okanye ezingosuleliyo, umzekelo, unyango lwangaphambili, iimpazamo zemfuza, njl.
Uza kuyibona nini ugqirha wezilwanyana?
Ikati sisilwanyana esikulungeleyo ukwazi ukuba masenze njani xa sikhupha isisu, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha siya kufuna uncedo lwethu. Lo nto, siza kumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuba uyavela:
- Umkhuhlane
- Ukopha
- Ukungakhathali
- Ubuthathaka
- Ukukhutshwa kwilungu lobufazi
- Ukubekwa wedwa
- Ukungabikho komdla kwindlwane
Okanye naluphi na uphawu olusenza sikrokre ukuba aluhambi kakuhle. Thina, njengabakhathaleli bakhe, kufuneka simazi, sazi indlela asabela ngayo xa eziva kakubi, kwaye enze ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuba asiyenzi ngale ndlela, singaphulukana nayo, kwaye yile nto kanye esingayifuniyo.
Ke ngoko, akufuneki sithandabuze ukubonisana neengcali onke amathandabuzo avelayo, nokuba sicinga ukuba abalulekanga, kuba ayabalulekile.