Kukho abo bacinga ukuba ukuba nekati enye kungaphezulu kokwaneleyo, kwaye kunjalo. Kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba kukho abantu abangakhathazeki ngokuba ngaphezulu kwesinye, okanye ngaphezulu kwesibini, okanye ... ewe, ukuphela koku kubalwa kukuwe, kuba nguwe kuphela owaziyo ukuba ungagcina. Akufuneki sizise ikati elitsha ekhaya ngenxa yentlungu, kodwa kunoko kubalulekile ukuba sicinge malunga nokuba singakwazi na ukuyinyamekela ngokuchanekileyo.
Kubo bonke abo bacinga ube nekati yesithathu okanye nangaphezuluEmva koko ndiza kukunika iingcebiso ukuze ukuhlala kunye kube mnandi kuwo onke amalungu osapho (kwaye hayi nje inyamakazi).
Into yokuqala yokucinga ngayo kukuba iikati zizilwanyana ezihlala kakhulu, kwaye xa kufika ikati elitsha baya kukuxelela kwangoko. Siza kubona indlela uzikhuhla ngayo yonke into acinga ukuba yeyakhe: ibhedi, iindonga, iingcango, ... Le yinto yabo yendalo, kwaye kufuneka sibayeke bayenze, njengoko ingeyongxaki. Nangona kunjalo, zikhona iikati ezihlala zifumana lonke uhoyo lomntu obakhathaleleyo kwaye, ukuba babelane ngothando olo, banokuqala bachame kwitreyi okanye babonakalise Ubundlongondlongo kwilungu elitsha. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, oku kulandelayo kuyacetyiswa kakhulu:
- Beka itreyi yenkunkuma kwikati nganye, susa isitulo kunye nomchamo yonke imihla, kwaye uyicoce kube kanye ngeveki ubuncinci. Ukuba uneekati, kukhethwa ukuba ube netreyi eyongezelelweyo.
- Xa iikati ziyokuzikhulula kwigumbi lokuhlambela labucala banokuziva bengakhuselekanga kakhulu njengoko bengenako ukuzikhusela. Kule nto, kubalulekile ukwenza usapho, kokubini umntu kunye nesini, bakuqonde oko ikati akufuneki iphazanyiswe ngaloo mizuzu.
- Chitha ixesha kunye nabo: dlala imidlalo, bayeke babukele iTV kunye nawe, okanye ulale ecaleni kwakho ngelixa ufunda incwadi.
- Okokugqibela, ukuba ubona ukuba kukho umntu othile wesini oziva engonwabanga komnye kwaye awazi ukuba wenzeni ukuze badibane, ungathandabuzi ukusebenzisa iimveliso eziqulathe i-feline pheromones okanye udibane ne-ethologist.
Umfanekiso - xosema
Ikati nganye yahlukile, kwaye nganye kuzo, ngomonde omncinci nothando oluninzi bonke baya kuhlala kakuhle.