Umsila wekati kunye nolwimi lomzimba

Ulwimi lomzimba lweekati lubanzi. Ikati yethu unxibelelana nomzimba uphelaUkucacisa intshukumo nganye yabo ayisiyonto ilula kwaye amaxesha amaninzi iyimfihlakalo. Ngaphambili besithumela indlela yokutolika ulwimi lomzimba weendlebe kunye ezahlukeneyo Iintsingiselo zemeows, ngoku siza kutolika intsingiselo yeentshukumo ezahlukeneyo zomsila.

Eyona misebenzi iphambili yomsila wekati kukugcina ibhalansi kwaye ikwazi ukwenza iintshukumo ezichanekileyo. Yi njengomqolo owandisiweyo oququzelela nayiphi na intshukumo; njengokubaleka, ukuxhuma, ukunyuka, njl. Ukongeza kwimisebenzi yemoto, ikwaluphawu lokuziphatha kwesilwanyana sasekhaya.

Ngokwezifundo ze-ethologists, ikati iyakwazi dlulisa imiqondiso elishumi elinambini eyahlukileyo ngomsila:

• Umsila phezulu: Wonwabile.
• Umsila ophantsi: Unosizi okanye ubonakalisa ukuzithoba kwakhe.
• Ukuhamba okukhawulezayo: Kuthetha ukuba unomsindo.
• Ukuhamba kancinci kunye nokuhamba kakuhle: Ujolise okanye ugxile kwinto etsala umdla wakho.
• Umsila oqinileyo: Unomdla / unomdla ngento ethile.
• Ufakwe umsila kwaye ugobile: Woyika.
• Umsila phakathi kwemilenze: Uyacaphuka okanye uyoyika.
• Ukuhamba kwemisila ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye: Unomsindo kwaye usibonisa ukungoneliseki kwakhe.
• Ukuma ngokuthe tye ngencam ecaleni: Veza umdla.
• Ukuma nkqo kwaye kungqongqo ngencam ehamba ecaleni: Ibonisa ukuba ayonwabanga okanye iyacaphuka.
• Izinwele zomsila: Veza umsindo.
• Umsila oxwesileyo: Kukhululekile kwaye uzive ukhuselekile.

Akululanga ukuchonga zonke iintshukumo zomsila kwaye akukho mfuneko yokujolisa kwinqanaba elinye lomzimba wesilwanyana, njengoko besitshilo ngaphambili unxibelelana nomzimba uphela, kufuneka ube nomonde kwaye ujonge yonke into abayenzayo kwaye kancinci kancinci siza kuchonga imeko yabo.

Qonda ikati yakho ngcono ngomsila wayo

Emva koko siza kunika iinkcukacha kancinci kwimpawu ezenziwa yikati yakho kuwe ngomsila wayo kunye nendlela onokuyiqonda ngcono ngokuyijonga. Umsila wekati uphawula ezinye zezona mpawu zibalaseleyo zolwimi, kufuneka nje uziqonde. Umsila wekati unxibelelana kakhulu, enkosi ngendlela ekuhamba ngayo. 

Khawufane ucinge ngazo zonke iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuhamba kwemisila ozibonileyo- inokuhamba inyuke inyuke, isuka ngapha nangapha, ihambe kancinci okanye ngokukhawuleza, igubungele ngeenxa zonke kuwe, inkunkuma, kunye nokujija, phakathi kwezinye izinto. Kwaye ezo ziintshukumo nje. Indlela iinwele eziqhotyoshelwe ngayo okanye ezixhaswe ngayo emsileni nazo zinokuba sisalathiso semood-iinwele zinokucaba okanye zibukeke njengebrashi. Kodwa ukuqonda yonke into ngcono kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo oku kulandelayo:

Umsila phezulu

Njengoko sibonisile ngasentla, ikati iyavuya, iziva inobuhlobo nawe. Ngokubanzi, umsila wekati yakho uya kuhlala umi nkqo xa ujikeleze wena. Iikati zoomama zibambe imisila yazo xa zifuna ukulandela iikati zazo (unganceda ukuba iikati zakho zikubone, kuxhomekeka ukuba ziphi). Ngokufanayo, xa iikati zibaleka ziye kubulisa oonina (okanye abazali), imisila yazo iya kuphakama.

Umsila uphakanyiswe ngekona

Esi sisenzo esingoyikisiyo esithetha ukuba ikati ayiqinisekanga nje ngento ethile. Ikati yakho ingakwenza oku ngelixa inuka abahlobo abatsha abatyeleleyo. Ngokubanzi, ukuba uvavanyo lwakho lwekati luya kudlula, ikati yakho iya kuwuphakamisa umsila wayo ngobubele.

Umsila uphakanyisiwe, uyashukuma

Ukuhamba okukhulu, okumangalisayo komsila ngokubanzi kudlulisela imvakalelo enamandla. Oku kungabonisa isimo sengqondo sokuhlekisa - ukuba ikati yakho ikhathazekile okanye ifuna ukushiywa yodwa. Ikati yakho iya kuyenza le nto xa ihamba idlule kuwe, kodwa ikubonise ukuba ingqondo yayo ikwezinye izinto. Bafuna ukuhamba ngendlela yabo.

Umsila uqonde ngqo, ungcangcazela

Umsila ontengantenge luphawu oluhle kakhulu, kuthetha ukuba ikati yakho inemincili kakhulu ukukubona. Umbuliso onobuhlobo kakhulu oya kuwufumana xa ungena emnyango ekupheleni kosuku okanye ukuba uyakubulisa xa uphuma ebhedini kusasa. Ngokufanayo, ikati evuyayo kakhulu kukubona ungatsala nomsila wayo uye ngasemva. Ngelixa oku kunokubonakala kungaqhelekanga, indlela yokuziphatha ivakala kakuhle kwiikati zethu- yindlela yabo yokusimema ukuba sijoje amadlala abo, indlela yabo yobuhlobo.

Umsila uphakanyisiwe, ubotshelelwe kwincam

Xa ikati ibamba incam yomsila wayo, ikhangeleka njengophawu lombuzo, kanye kanye indlela evakalelwa ngayo ikati yakho. Unobuhlobo (kungoko umgca up), kodwa akaqinisekanga ngento ethile.

Umsila ubanjwe ngokuthe tyaba emva kwekati

Indawo yokungathathi cala enokudlulisa iimvakalelo ezithile. Ikati yakho inokuphaphama, izithembe, ikhululeke, okanye ibe nobuhlobo. Ngokuqinisekileyo inokuxhomekeka kwimeko kunye nolunye ulwimi lomzimba wekati yakho.

Hook kwisiseko somsila

Ikwabizwa ngokuba yi "inverted U tail" okanye "ihashe", le ndlela yokuziphatha ibonisa ubundlongondlongo bokuzikhusela. Umsila wekati yakho uhlala uphela, nawo. Uya kuyibona rhoqo le ikati xa ilixesha lokuba "iikati eziphambeneyo" ekupheleni kosuku. Unokuphinda agobe umqolo wakhe ahambe kancinci ngathi unonkala, ngakumbi ukuba ukhathazekile yenye ikati okanye uziva ungonwabanga ngento ethile.

Ukubetha umsila

Oku kunokuthetha izinto ezininzi: Jonga kolunye ulwimi lomzimba wekati yakho ukuze ufumane ukuba uziva njani. Umsila ojikeleza usiya ngapha nangapha ngokungaqhelekanga unokuhambisa enye yezinto ezininzi, kubandakanya:

• Inzala enkulu ukuba ikati yakho ijolise kwinto ethile, njengentaka ngaphandle, okanye malunga nokutsiba kwinto yokudlala (ixhoba).
• Ugcino ukuba ikati yakho iyayonwabela iseshoni yokuzilungisa.
• Ira ukuba umsila utsiba kakhulu emhlabeni.
• Omnye isimemo kwenye ikati ukudlala.
• Umdlandla omkhulu okanye ubundlongondlongo ukuba umsila ujikeleza ngamandla.

Umsila okhukhumeleyo

Xa umsila wekati yakho udumba njengebrashi, unokuqiniseka ukuba ikati yakho iziva isoyikiswa kwaye sele ikhuselekile. Ikati yakho inokubhabha. emgceni ukuba uyamoyikisa, ukuba uyoyika, okanye ukuba enye ikati (okanye umntu) iyamcaphukisa. Uya kuzama ukubaleka imeko ukuba kunokwenzeka, kodwa unokuhlala ukuze uzikhusele xa kukho imfuneko. Njengokuba ikati ikhonkotha iinwele emqolo, eli nyathelo lenzelwe ukuba libonakale likhulu, ukuzama ukufumana umhlaseli ukuba alishiye lodwa.

Umsila ugcinwa uphantsi kwaye uthe tye

Xa ikati yakho igcina umsila wayo ngokudibeneyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba uzive ungqwabalala, okanye ukuba kungekudala uza kuphazamiseka. Kwakhona, funda olunye ulwimi lwekati yakho kwaye ujonge umsila ukuze ubone ukuba ikhula phi.

Umsila ubotshelelwe phakathi kwemilenze

Eli linyathelo lokuzithoba elinokuthi lizame ukubonisa ukuba ikati yakho ikhathazekile okanye ifuna ukushiywa yodwa. Ngokungafaniyo nomsila okhukhumeleyo, umsila wokuthobela ungenza ikati ibonakale incinci kwaye ingoyiki kangako kwenye ikati enoburharha.

Incam yomsila engcangcazelisayo

Ngamanye amaxesha kuphela incam yomsila wekati yakho oya kuthi usebenze. Oku ngokubanzi kubonisa ukuba ulumkile kwaye ugxile ekujongeni into anomdla kuyo, enjengezinambuzane okanye intaka ngaphandle. Ikati yakho inokuwugudla umsila wayo ukuba iyadlala kwaye isondela "kwixhoba."

Imisila edityaniswe nemisila yezinye iikati

Iikati ziya kufaka umsila wazo zijikeleze imisila yezinye iikati, ezinye izinto, kwaye kunjalo! Yindlela yabo enobungane yokumakisha njengathi, kwaye ngokuzama ukusiphembelela ukuba sibanike le nto bayifunayo, njengokuhoya okanye ukutya!

Ngalesi sikhokelo sincinci uya kuba nakho ukuyiqonda ngakumbi ikati yakho kwaye ifuna ukuthini kuwe xa ijija umsila ngeendlela ezithile. Ikati yakho ikuxelela okuninzi ngomsila wayo, kuba ayifuni ukuthetha ukuze ikwazi ukudlulisela kuwe indlela evakalelwa ngayo okanye kwenzeka ntoni kuyo mzuzu uthile. Ulwimi lomzimba wekati yakho lubonisa ukuba lunjani okanye ludinga ntoni, kwaye ngoku, uyakuqonda ngcono ukuba ithini kuwe ngomsila wayo.