Iikati zizilwanyana ezizodwa kakhulu, kungekuphela kunye nazo kodwa nezinye. Ukuba songeza kuloo nto banommandla omkhulu, sinokufumana umbono wokuba mncinci kangakanani ubabalo abaqhele ukwenza xa kufika inja ekhaya, ngakumbi ukuba siyayeka ukuhoya okufanayo kubo.
Ngesi sizathu, Siza kukunika uthotho lweengcebiso ukunqanda umona phakathi kweekati kunye nezinja. Ngale ndlela, ukuhlala kunye kunokuba mnandi kuwo wonke umntu.
Qinisekisa ukuba uhlala nabo
Kunzima kakhulu - ukuba akunakwenzeka - ukuba ikati ihambisane nenja ukuba ayikaze inxibelelane nenye yazo. Kule feline, inja imele isoyikiso, ke ayizukuthandabuza ukufihla xa iyibona. Kusengqiqweni ke oko: ukuba ebuntwaneni bakhe bokuqala akaqhelanga ukuhlala nezinye izilwanyana, asinakulindela ukuba azinyamezele xa sele emdala.
Kwaye nditsho kuwe ngokubhekisele ezinjeni. Zombini enye nenye kufuneka ukuba zazinobudlelwane kunye nezinye ezinoboya ngaphambili; ukuba akunjalo, abazukunyamezelwa. Ke, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza oku kulandelayo xa zizinjana (iinyanga ezi-2-3 ubudala):
- Cela abahlobo kunye nosapho ukuba beze nezinja zabo ekhaya ukuba banazo. Ezi zinja kufuneka zibe ziinjana okanye kufuneka ukuba sele zihleli kunye neekati.
- Xa ingathi ngabo batyelela abo sibathandayo banezilwanyana ezinoboya, kufuneka sibaphathe izilwanyana zabo kwaye sibayeke bakhwele emathangeni ethu. Ke, xa sibuyela ekhaya, ikati yethu iya ithi chu kukuqhela ukuvumba okungafaniyo.
Qinisekisa ukuba ngamnye unombonisi wakhe
Nje ukuba sithathe isigqibo sokuthatha inja, into esiya kuyenza kukuthenga yonke into eyifunayo: ukusela isitya, ukutya, iithoyi, ibhedi, njl Kodwa kwakhona, ukuba sifuna ukunqanda iingxaki ezibangelwa kukutya, kubalulekile kakhulu ukuba isilwanyana ngasinye sinempahla yaso.
nayo, abondli bomntu ngamnye kufuneka bohlulwe (akunjalo kwelinye igumbi, kodwa kukude kude omnye komnye). Ngale ndlela, iimpikiswano malunga nokutya ziya kuthintelwa.
Nika uthando olufanayo kubo bobabini
Eyona ndlela isebenzayo yokuthintela ungquzulwano kuku banike uthando olufanayo kunye nokhathalelo olufanayo -ukuhlonipha umahluko wohlobo ngalunye- kuzo zombini. Kufuneka silibale into abasixelela yona ukuba iikati zizilwanyana ezizimeleyo kwaye zodwa, kuba akusoloko kunjalo. Kuxhomekeka kakhulu kwikati nganye, isimilo sayo, eyadlulayo kunye neyangoku. Nangona kunjalo, akukho mfuneko yokuba siyibekele bucala.
Ukuze zombini izilwanyana zonwabe, kufuneka ukuba siziqonde kwaye sizikhathalele njengoko kufanelekile: ngothando kunye nomonde.
Ndiyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe 🙂.