Njengoko sele sisazi sonke, ngakumbi kuthi thina baneekati, ezi ntlobo zezilwanyana zihlala zifuna ukwazi, ngamanye amaxesha, zinokuphela zingena engxakini kwaye ziphele zonzakele okanye ngohlobo oluthile lokusikwa oluqala ukopha ngokumangalisayo nangokoyikisayo.
Nangona ngokubanzi, amanxeba ukuba isilwanyana sethu esincinci sinokufumana xa sishiya ikhaya, kwaye ukunxibelelana nezinye izilwanyana, yinto engekhoyo, kwaye ayifuni luqwalaselo lwezilwanyana, kubalulekile ukuba sifunde imiba ethile ukuze sikwazi ukuyicoca kwaye siyikhathalele, musa ukuphela ukosuleleka okanye ube yingxaki.
Ukuba siqaphela ukuba ikati lethu linqunyiwe kwaye likunika uakukho ukopha, kodwa inxeba alibonakali linzulu kakhulu, akufuneki ukuba sibalekele kugqirha wezilwanyana, kodwa thina ngokwethu sinokukhathalela ukuphiliswa kwesilwanyana sethu esincinci. Ewe ndincoma ukuba ulandele amanyathelo athile kwaye uqwalasele amanyathelo athile, njengokucoca inxeba kakuhle nge-gauze efakwe kwi-saline yomzimba, emva koko uqhubeke ukusika iinwele ezijikeleze isilonda kwaye uthambise isithinteli-kubola esingabangeli ukutshisa .
Emva kokwenza oku, ndincoma ukuba uthambise ijeli yepetroleum encinci, ngakumbi kwimiphetho yenxeba, ukunqanda ezinye iinwele zingawi apho, zibangele usulelo kunye nentlungu. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba isilwanyana sakho esincinci siqala ukopha kakhulu, kufuneka uzame yeka ukopha, ukwenza uhlobo oluthile loxinzelelo kwindawo apho kunqunyulwe khona, kodwa ukuba ukopha akuyeki, ndincoma ukuba uthathe kwangoko kugqirha wezilwanyana uyovavanywa.
ukuba yeka ukopha okanye ukopha, kuya kufuneka uligqume inxeba ngephedi yegawuthi efakwe emanzini abandayo kwaye uthambise uxinzelelo oluncinci. Ukuba, ngaphandle kwalo mzamo, ukopha akuyeki, kuya kufuneka ukhusele i-gauze ngohlobo oluthile lwebhandeji kwaye ubeke enye iphedi yetshedi ngaphezulu. Ukomeleza ibhandeji, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ubeke enye ejikeleze iphedi yesibini.