Xa ikati yakho ikhulelwe ifuna ukhathalelo olukhethekileyo kunye noqwalaselo ukuze izole kwaye ukwazi ukwenza into xa kukho into engahambi kakuhle. Xa ukukhulelwa kuza kuphela, lixesha lokuba uzilungiselele usuku olukhulu. Usuku ongayi kululibala ngokuqinisekileyo.
Ukuze yonke into iqhubeke nokuhamba njengangaphambili, siza kukuxelela ukunceda njani ikati yam ukuba izale.
Into yokuqala ekufuneka siyazi kuxa ikati ilungiselela ukuzala. Oku akuyi kuba nzima kuthi njengoko siza kuqaphela utshintsho kwindlela abaziphethe ngayo: uya kuba nzima ngakumbi, angonwabi ngakumbi; Ukongeza, iya kuqala ukukhangela ikona apho iya kuba nabantwana bayo.
Ukumnceda, siza kumnika ibhokisi ekhululekile okanye ibhedi, ngengubo ukuze iikati zingabandi. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kuyenzeka ukuba isilwanyana sithathe isigqibo sokuzala emhlabeni, nayo kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ukubeka iitawuli okanye iingubo ezicocekileyo ebhedini.
Njengoko iikati ziphuma, uya kubona ukuba nganye isongelwe engxoweni. Ewe, ngesiqhelo ikati iyakucoca ibhegi isike inkaba, kodwa ukuba uyaqala okanye ukothuka kakhulu angangayenzi, ke kuyakufuneka ungenelele. Ke, ngokuzolileyo, thatha umntwana, ususe ibhegi (kubalulekile ukuqala ngomlomo nangempumlo) emva koko hlikihla ukumnceda aphefumle. Ukuba awuyinqumanga intambo, kuya kufuneka wenze oku kulandelayo:
- Thatha intambo kwaye uyicoce ngotywala ekhemesti.
- Yibophe malunga ne-2cm kude nomzimba wekati.
- Ke, komnye umgama oyi-2m, wusike ngesikere ngaphambili esasicocwe ngeentsholongwane ngotywala.
Amantshontsho azo abe ne-placenta nganye ekufuneka ikati igxothwe. Ukuba ayenzi njalo, okanye ukuba ibhokhwe iyasilela ukuzala, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umse kugqirha wezilwanyana njengoko inokuba neengxaki.
Ukuba yonke into ihambe kakuhle, amantshontsho ekati aya kuqala ukuncanca nje ukuba afike emhlabeni. Ukuba ubona kukho umntu ngasemva, mncede Ukwenza.
Kwaye ngasendleleni Ndiyakuvuyela! 🙂
Ewe, andibhalanga zimvo kule blog ixesha elide, endizithandayo.
Ukubuyela kumabali am, kwaye ndiqale kwinto yokuba ndithathe iikati ezimbini zabasetyhini esitratweni, ukuba bobabini banabantwana kwaye andinakukwazi ukubanika ngenxa yothando endabanika lona, ndiyaqhubeka.
Kwezi "ntsana", zintathu ezingamadoda. Ndaye ndadibana nogqirha wezilwanyana xa kufanele ukuba ndibathathe ngaphandle. Undixelele ukuba azizalanga ukuya kuthi ga kwiinyanga ezili-3, ukuza nge-12. Ndimxelele ukuba makaqinisekise kuba zikhona iikati ezi-8 ezihlala nabo ...
Wanyanzelisa ukuba ndize ukuza kubabhengeza de babe baneenyanga ezisi-8 ubudala, ade agxininise nokuba akafuni ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo, kwaye nangaphantsi xa amantshontsho asemancinci.
Nangona kunjalo, ndaye ndalahlwa ngamadoda ama-3 xa ayeneenyanga ezisixhenxe nesiqingatha ubudala, kuba babegibele ekhaya ixesha elide ... kwaye andisakwazi kulinda.
Isiphumo: 3 amantombazana "amantombazana" akhulelweyo.
Ndiyazisile koogqirha bezilwanyana, bayi-2, ngaphezulu kwayo nantoni na ukuze bangaphinde benze impazamo efanayo. Wonke umntu uphosakele, kodwa ngoku, ngaphandle kweekati ezili-9 endinazo, ziyi-16! iintsana ngaphezulu.
Kubekho abelungu abalishumi elinesibini, ndiyacinga ukuba bazakufana no "makhulu" wabo onguSiamese / Balinese. Zizalwa zimhlophe kwaye emva kweeveki ezimbalwa iindlebe, umsila, izandla neenyawo zaba mnyama. Kwaye ii-12 zinemigca emnyama, ezimhlophe, kunye ezimhlophe.
Sele ndizilele ukuhanjiswa oku-4 kwaye ndiza kuphawula apha kumava am ukuze ndikhonze abanye.
Ndibathengele izindlu zezo mpahla, ukuze babe nemfihlo. Yayimpazamo kuba "amaqabane" ayetsibela ngaphezulu abatshone.
Ndizamile iibhedi ezinkulu ezicabaleleyo, ukuze zikwazi ukuzolula kakuhle, kunye nodonga ukuze iintsana zingaphumi ngokulula. Kananjalo bebengasebenzi kuba bebengenabucala, kwaye nabanye bebelele kubo.
Ndizamile "iibhakethi" ezinkulu ezivuzayo, uhlobo lokubeka iimpahla ezimdaka, zisebenze kakuhle kuba iikati zatsiba kwaye azatshona, zazinabucala kwaye zingena nomoya, kodwa zazingonwabanga ukubanceda ngokuzalwa ngenxa yabo ukucutha.
Ndithenge iibhokisi zekhadibhodi ezilula, ezinkulu. Sibenzele iifestile / iingcango, kwaye bazisebenzisa kakhulu… wonke umntu. Akukho nto malunga nokuba ngasese, kwaye babatshonisa. Nangona ekugqibeleni yayiyeyona ndlela ilungileyo. Sifaka ibhokisi enye ngaphakathi ukomeleza iindonga. Sibabeka belele ngecala labo kwisicwangciso somkhumbi. Ndisebenzise njengengubo yokufunxa iingubo zokukhuphela izitya, ezitsha nezinemibala, kodwa loo malaphu awahambi kakuhle kuba ayatyibilika aze aphume ebhokisini. Eyona ilungileyo njengomgangatho, ziimakhishithi zokutshintsha iintsana, nangaphezulu kwala napkins ephepheni abo baya kuluhlu.
Iibhokisi bezilungile, ndizibeke ngendlela eyi-L kwaye iikati ziyakwazi ukubonana. Kuyachukumisa ukubona indlela omnye udade wekati omnyama nomhlophe asebenze ngayo njengombelekisi, kwaye ngaphandle kokuthuthuzela, ukuwola nokuba namabele ethangeni lakhe ngexesha leentlungu zokuqala, emva koko ucoce amabele kunye neentsana ukusuka phezulu kuye ezantsi Nangoku, emva kweveki, akazohluli koomama kwaye usebenza "njengomntu ogcina umntwana" ekhusela kwaye ekhathalela zonke iintsana, ngaphandle kokubangumama wazo.
Ukuzalwa komntwana:
- Emva kweentsuku ezingama-60 zokukhulelwa, isisu siba sezantsi kakhulu emzimbeni ngenxa yobunzima.
- Xa ilixesha lokuzala, baqala ukutyeba ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye bajonge oyena mntu bamthembileyo.
-Bakhangela indawo emnandi nekhuselekileyo, bodwa abazinzileyo kwiibhokisi zekhadibhodi xa ixesha labo lifikile.
- Njengokuba ukufika kokucuthwa, baqala ukungazoli; meow, purr, hlala, phakama, lala phantsi ...
-Baza kukhupha i-mucus encinci, yiplagi yomlomo wesibeleko, kwaye mhlawumbi ulwelo oluthile, lincinci kakhulu.
- Kuyaziwa ukuba umntwana ufika ngenxa yokuba iplasenta ezaliswe lulwelo iya kuvela kwiindawo zayo, injengebhaluni. Nangona i-placenta idabukile, umzekelo kuba izalwe ezinyaweni, hayi entloko, kunokwenzeka ukuba uyaphule ngozipho. Kule meko, nokuba ziinyawo kuphela ezinamathelayo ngaphandle, ukuba nazo ziyashukuma, kuya kufuneka uthathe amanyathelo ngokukhawuleza kwaye umncede awukhuphe ngesivumelwano esilandelayo okanye uza kurhaxwa. Imilenze mayitsalwe ngobunono kodwa ngokuqinileyo ngelixa ikati ityhala kwaye iyikhupha okokuqala, kuba emva kokuncipha / ukutyhala, iya kubuyela umva kude kube kwisivumelwano esilandelayo.
-Ukufika kwezibhambathiso, uya kuvula umlomo wakhe ngokungathi ushushu kakhulu, kukukhefuzela kwakhe iintlungu, ngakumbi xa ekhupha usana lokuqala, oluqhele ukuza kuqala entloko kwaye kufuneka lwandise umjelo wokuzalwa. Uyakusifumana esiswini sakho njengoko usenza umsebenzi wokugxotha.
-Siza kumnceda, ngalo lonke ixesha lokusebenza, ngokumthambisa isisu sakhe, kuba kubonakala ngathi kuyamnceda ngokuchasana, kuyamhlaziya kwaye uyayithanda.
Ngokukhawuleza xa usana luphuma, lusengaphakathi kwiplacenta, kwimeko yokuba ikati iphakame ngenxa yokungakhululeki okufanelekileyo, siya kuyibamba le mveku ukuze ingaxhomeki, kwaye ngokukhawuleza siza kuyaphula i-placenta kancinci ujikeleze ubuso, ukuba ungatshoni. Iphetshana lephepha linokudluliswa ngobunono empumlweni nasemlonyeni ukususa i-mucus emthintelayo ekuphefumleni kakuhle, kwaye intloko yakhe encinci inokucothwa kancinci ukumenza asabele kwaye aqale ukuphefumla. Kufuneka sikwenze oku kuba ikati ayifikeleli lula kuye ngenxa yesisindo sesisu sayo, kwaye ayinakho ukuyenza ide iplasenta iphume ngokupheleleyo kwaye kuthatha imizuzu embalwa.
-Yakuba ikati iphefumle kwaye ihambile, iya kuhlala incamathele kuyo yonke iplacenta egcinwe kunina ngentambo yesibeleko.
-Umama uya kuzama ukucoca ikatana ngokuyikhotha, kodwa kude kuphume ipascenta esele ishiyekile wentambo, akukho nto inokwenziwa ngaphandle kokulinda yonke into igxothwe ngezi zicatshulwa zilandelayo, isenzo lonto iyakwenzakalisa. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba sitsale intambo, okanye siyinqumle intambo okanye nantoni na. Zama nje ukuba unganyatheli ikatana ngenxa yokuhamba kwayo ngenxa yovalo.
-Siza kugcina umkhondo wokuba intshontsho lekati + lihambile na.
-Emva kwemizuzu embalwa yokulinda, intambo eseleyo iya kuphuma kunye nomkhaya. Kufuneka sidibanise yonke into, ngaphandle kokuguqula nantoni na, oko kukuthi, intshontsho lekati + elisekunye nentambo, kunina, ukuze akwazi ukusika ngokulula intambo kunye nokutya iplacenta. Ukuba i-placenta ayityiwa emva kwemizuzu emi-5/10, sinokuyisika intambo, kude nekatana, intsalela iya kusikwa ngumama kamva, kwaye ukuba akunjalo, iyoma kwaye kwiintsuku ezimbalwa izowa eyayo.
- Amantshontsho ekati aza kukhangela ilitye lekati ukuba liqale ukuncancisa, oku kusebenza kakuhle ukukhuthaza oku kulandelayo. Lumka ungabanyatheli xa usiya kubeleka abanye.
-Ukunokwenzeka ukuba iikati ezedlule ziye zakhonkxwa ngenxa yokunqongophala kwendawo, kwaye zithatha ixesha elide ukuphuma.
-Ukuba emva kokuvula i-placenta kancinci kufutshane nobuso bakhe ukuba aphefumle, kwaye acoce impumlo yakhe, ekugqibeleni uyayenza kodwa ngobunzima. Kufuneka ivuselelwe / ivuselelwe kwakhona. Siza kuyicoca impumlo yakhe, siza kuvuthela impumlo / umlomo wakhe, siya kuphulula intloko yakhe, iindlebe zakhe, yonke into, siya kutshintsha indawo yakhe, isisu phezulu, ezantsi, njl. Sizakuzama ukuba umama ahlambe. ubuso bakhe, njalo okwexeshana de usabele kwaye meow ngokungavali indlela yakho yomoya.
- Ngexesha lokuhanjiswa, siya kususa i-napkins yamaphepha ehlaziyiweyo, endaweni yayo sifake entsha / ecocekileyo.
-Emva kweeyure ezimbalwa, ukuba yonke into ihambe kakuhle, ngakumbi njengoko uninzi lwee-placenta luphume njengeekati, ngamanye amaxesha enye iplacenta inokuphinda idibane nenye. Kuya kufuneka unike ingqalelo kuba ungayitya ngokukhawuleza okukhulu, kancinci, okanye ungayityi, emva kweyesibini abasafuni ukutya ngaphezulu kwaye banokulahlwa kude, ukuba nje umama usike intambo kuqala.
-Ikati lekati, emva kwayo yonke imizamo, iya kulala phantsi kwaye iprr iya kuncancisa iintsana zayo ezisandul 'ukuzalwa.
- Iikati ziyakonwabela ukuncancisa amantshontsho azo, oku kufuneka kwenziwe ngokubeka abantwana babo kufutshane neengono zabo.
-Iintsuku zokuqala ezi-2 ziphambili ukuze amantshontsho aphile, kufuneka ibukelwe, phantse rhoqo, ukuba umama wayo akabanyatheli okanye abeke ukuba balale phezu kwabo kwaye baminxe, kuba abaqondi, kwaye ndilahlekile enye yeelitha zangaphambili ngokunjalo.
-Ikati likamama linokuncedwa ngokuza nokutya okumanzi okusemgangathweni (okunako) kufutshane nentloko yakhe, ngelixa ancancisayo kwaye ediniwe ukuphakama. Kwaye kamva, yiba namanzi, ukutya kunye nendlu yangasese kufutshane.
Molo kwakhona Mercè 🙂
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