Kanye njengokuba sizalwa, sibuthathaka kwaye singabantu ababuthathaka, xa iikati zincinci, zibuthathaka kakhulu, ngoko ke zifuna okuthile. Unonophelo oluyimfuneko, ukukwazi ukuqhubela phambili nokuphuhlisa ngokufanelekileyo. Iikati zeenja zifuna ukuba sizinikezele ixesha elininzi kubo kwaye kufuneka sibe nomonde omkhulu ukuze sikwazi ukuqalisa ukufundisa nokubafundisa imithetho ethile esisiseko ukuze ukuhlalisana kufanelekile.
Ngokufanayo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sifunde ukugubungela abo iimfuno ezisisiseko njengokutyisa, ukucoca, ucoceko, nokuhlalisana, enoba kukunye nathi bantu, okanye nezinye izilwanyana, ngale ndlela uya kuziva ukuba siyamthanda yaye simkhathalele. Kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba namhlanje, sikuphathele imiba ebalulekileyo ekufuneka siyithathele ingqalelo xa ukhathalela ikati yenjana.
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba siqwalasele indawo esiza kuyibeka kuyo, oko kukuthi, kweyiphi indawo yendlu esiya kulalisa kuyo ingobozi yayo. Khumbula ukuba indawo oyikhethileyo kufuneka ibe yindawo evaliweyo, apho kungangeni drafti, ngelixa ibhaskithi oyisebenzisayo kufuneka ibe nempahla evelisa ubushushu kwaye iyenze ifudumale. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, ndincoma ukuba usebenzise i Ibhotile yamanzi ashushu ukuqinisekisa ubushushu obaneleyo ebusuku.
Kukwabaluleke kakhulu ukuba, ukusukela oko bafika ekhaya, sizame ukubenza bazive bethandwa, sibaphulula ngobunono ukuze baqale ukuqaphela ukunxibelelana nolusu lwethu, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe baqhelane nayo. iindlela zokuhlalisana, ngale ndlela kancinci kancinci baya kuzithemba ngakumbi kwaye abayi kuba neengxaki zokuhlalisana kwixesha elizayo.
Enye into esimele siyincede yethu injana okanye kakhulu baby iikati, kukuzingcolisa, ekubeni bebancinci kakhulu banokuba neengxaki zokuzikhulula, ngoko ke ndincoma ukuba uthathe ibhola yomqhaphu efumileyo ngamanzi afudumeleyo kwaye uphulule ngobunono i-anus yabo. Khumbula ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo ngumama ofundisa indlela yokwenza le nkqubo, kodwa kwimeko apho ikati onayo liye lahlukana nonina njengenjana, kuya kufuneka uzincede ngokwakho.