Ukulungiswa kwekati

Ukuba kukho into kuthi sonke esihlala nekati (okanye ezininzi) esiyibonayo kakhulu, kukuba iyazihlambulula phantse rhoqo ngambini ngantathu: emva kokutya, emva kokuvuka ebuthongweni, emva kokuyiphulula, emva kokuba ukuphathwa ngomnye umntu… Akafuni kungcola, ngoko ke uyazihlambulula.

El ukucoca ikati Yindlela yokuziphatha esoloko itsala umdla wethu, kuba nangona siyiqonda into yokuba ifuna ukucoceka, esi silwanyana sibonakala ngathi sinomdla wokucoceka kobuqu.

Ukuzilungisa kukuziphatha okungokwemvelo. Njengokuba ikati isisilwanyana esidla inyama, akufuneki ikhuphe naliphi na ivumba elinokwazisa amaxhoba ayo. Kwaye leyo yinto umama wekati ayazi kakuhle. Ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba amantshontsho ayo azalwe, iyazihlambulula ngenxa yesazela, ngeli lixa ivuselela nokuphefumla kwayo. Ukongeza, ikwenzela ukuba bakwazi ukuzikhulula, kuba amantshontsho amantshontsho asazi ukuba angazenzela njani.

Xa baneeveki ezintathu ubudala, baqala ukuxelisa unina. Ekuqaleni ziba buthuntu, kuyinto eqhelekileyo xa ucinga ukuba umzimba wazo usakhula, kodwa kancinci kancinci ziye zibe ziincutshe ekuzilungiseni, zifikelela kuwo onke amalungu omzimba. Ewe, kubo bonke. Iindawo ekuphela kwazo apho baneengxaki ngakumbi yintloko nentamo, kodwa ngenxa yoko basebenzisa umphambili wabo, abaqala ngawo ukumanzisa ngamathe abo emva koko bazilungise.

Kodwa ngaba ukuzilungisa kuluncedo kubo? Kunjalo. Ulwimi lweekati lunamagwegwe amancinci enkosi apho banokususa khona iinwele ezifileyo kunye nezinye iiparasites ezivela kuboya. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa ikwasebenza ukomeleza ubudlelwane phakathi kweekati, phakathi kweekati kunye nezinja (okanye ezinye izilwanyana ezinoboya), naphakathi kweekati nezilwanyana zabantu.

Ke uyazi, ukuba uyakhotha ubuso bakho, izandla okanye iinwele, unethamsanqa, kuba ukujonga njengomnye wakhe.