Oku kude umbuzo onempendulo enzima. Akukho namnye kuthi obathandayo abahlobo bakhe anoboya ocinga ngayo, ngomhla xa ngenxa yokugula okanye ubudala kufuneka sithi ndlela-ntle ngonaphakade. Asicingi ngayo kuba nje besaphila, bayaphefumla, kwaye kuba sibathanda kakhulu kangangokuba kwawona mqondo wokwahlula kubo uyasichaphazela.
Ukukunceda, siza kukuxelela ukucacisa nini ikati.
Namhlanje, enkosi kwinkqubela phambili yonyango lwezilwanyana, ikati esempilweni inokuphila iminyaka emininzi: ukuya kuthi ga kuma-20. , ayisenguye ikati ekhohlakeleyo okanye ikati enkulu ezolileyo, enothando ebesandula ukuba yiyo. Utshintsho njenge yeka ukusebenzisa itray tray, yitya kancinci, chitha ixesha elininzi uphumle, yeka ukuzilungisa rhoqo njengesiqheloEzi zimbalwa nje apho yonke intsholongwane iya kuba namava athile ebomini bakhe.
Ukuthatha isigqibo xa ilixesha lokuyilalisa kunzima kakhulu. Kodwa kukho imiqondiso eliqela eya kukunceda wazi xa ixesha lifikile:
- Ukuba ikati inobunzima bokuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo; Oko kukuthi, ukuba akasasatyi, okanye ukuba uyagula kakhulu kwaye ugqirha wezilwanyana akasayi kuphinda amenzele enye into.
- Ukuba unengxaki yokuphefumla, kwaye uziva iintlungu ezibukhali kulo naliphi na ilungu lomzimba wakho.
Bayincama njani?
Xa isigqibo senziwe ekugqibeleni, ungakhetha ukuba naye okanye umyeke abe yedwa kugqirha wezilwanyana. Ndiyakuxelela ukuba bendikunye nekati ebigula kakhulu kwaye ibandezeleka kakhulu, kwaye kwelinye icala ndinentuthuzelo yokuba akazange abulawe kabuhlungu okanye eyedwa, kwakubuhlungu.
Into yokuqala awayenzayo yayikuku faka i-anesthesia ngokokude alale kwaye akazange eve luhlobo lwentlungu, kwaye ekugqibeleni kulawulwa isiyobisi ukuba iyakuphelisa ukubandezeleka kwakhe, ewe, iyakuqinisa eyam ...
Kwakugqityiwe konke Uye wambeka ophetheyo ndamsa egadini apho besimngcwaba khona. Ngaphambi kokumbeka kwindawo yakhe yokuphumla, ndaphinde ndathi kuye. Ndimqokelele phezulu, ndamanga okokugqibela esidleleni sakhe esincinci.
Ukuchacha kwilahleko kuthatha ixesha. Musa ukungxama okanye uvumele abanye bahlekise ngawe. Kuqhelekile ukuziva usizi kunye nosizi xa umntu omthandayo elahlekile: isenza sibe ngabantu.
Ininzi, inkuthazo enkulu.