Yintoni omele uyenze xa ikati ikukhwaza

Xa i-feline iziva ikhathazekile okanye ingonwabanga, ayinakho ukuveza iimvakalelo zayo ngamagama, ke iyahlala kulwimi lwayo lomzimba kunye nezandi ezinokuzenza. Kodwa ukuba lixesha lokuqala ukuba sihlale nenye yezi zilwanyana zibalaseleyo, ngamanye amaxesha siya kuzibuza ukuba wenzeni xa ikati ikufutha.

Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, isirhorho sisandi esitsala umdla omkhulu, kodwa ukuba umhlobo wethu uyakhupha, kufuneka simmamele kwaye sizame ukusiqonda. Masixelele Kufuneka siqhubeke njani?.

Kutheni ikati ifutha?

Ikati, njengezilwanyana zonke kubandakanya thina bantu, inendawo yayo yobuqu, ofana nomqobo wentelekelelo apho eziva ekhuselekile. Ukuba siwela lo mqobo, oko kukuthi, ukuba sisondela kakhulu, uya kuqala ukuziva enovalo kwaye engenakuphumla, kwaye yinto leyo esiza kuyibona kwangoko kuba uya kuqala ukwenza oku kulandelayo:

• Uya kugxila kuthi, ngelixa ejonge izinto ezimngqongileyo.
• Iya kubetha emhlabeni ngencam yomsila wayo, okanye isenokuyihambisa isiya ngapha nangapha, yenze iintshukumo ngequbuliso.
• Iindlebe ziya kubuyiselwa umva.
• Kwaye ukuba asimyeki ahambe, uya kurhona, abonise amazinyo akhe, kwaye agrumbe. Nje ukuba eli nqanaba lifikelelwe, ikati inokusihlasela.

Kodwa kutheni kanye kanye erhona? Ewe, kukho izizathu ezininzi:

Ndiziva ndikona

Nokuba ngomnye uboya okanye ngomntu omnye okanye nangaphezulu. Umzekelo, xa umntu othile ezama ukubamba ikati elahlekileyo ukuba imse kugqirha wezilwanyana, unokuziva ebambekile kuba yile nto kanye ayifunayo: ukumsa kwikona apho kungelula ukuba abaleke . Lumka: Olovakalelo alunakuviwa kuphela sisiphambuka esilahlekileyo, kodwa nakwabatsha kwikhaya elitsha, kunye nabo baxhatshazwayo.

Ufuna umntu ahlule kancinci kuye

Ukuba ukhe wanethuba lokubona ikati endala ezolileyo igezelwa ngomncinci, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuyiva ikhwelo lomntu omdala. Oku Akayi kuyenza ngenjongo yokukuhlasela okanye nantoni na enjalo, kodwa yindlela nje yokumxelela ukuba ahlukane naye, ethi ngalo mzuzu ingaziva ngathi iyadlala.

Imeko efanayo kuxa thina bantu sifuna ukudlala kakhulu nge-feline, kodwa akayithandi.

Akazimisele ukwabelana nabanye ngokutya kunye / okanye ngento yokudlala

Xa uhlala neekati ezininzi, kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba kube kanye xa befuna ukutya, okanye xa umntu edlala-okanye efuna ukudlala-ngento yokudlala oyithandayo. Ngaphambi kokulwa, iikati ziya kukhetha ukulumkisaOko kukuthi, ukuxhamla ukujonga ukuba bayayifumana na le nto bayifunayo ekubeni besazi kakuhle ukuba baneenzipho kunye namazinyo anokukwazi ukwenza umonakalo omkhulu.

Kutheni ikati yam ikhamela kwaye indihlasela?

Iikati zizilwanyana badinga ukuhlala kwiindawo ezizolileyo, apho bahlonitshwayo kwaye bethandwa ngokuba bangobani kwaye bangobani. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu badlula kumaxesha amabi, kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba amaxesha ngamaxesha siziva silusizi, sinomsindo okanye sicaphuka. Kodwa kufuneka sikhusele uboya bethu kuko konke ukungakhathali, kuba ayilotyala labo ukuba sizive ngale ndlela.

Ukuba asibahloniphi indawo yabo, ukuba sihlala sibanyanzela ukuba babekhona emathangeni ethu, ukuba siyaqhubeka sibaphatha, singazinanzi izilumkiso zabo, kwaye singayeki ke xa sibaphatha gadalala (into evunyelweyo yindlela kumazwe amaninzi), Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba basirhalele, basihlasele. Impendulo esengqiqweni: bayazikhusela kwaye bazama nokwenza ukuba siqwalasele. Yindlela yakhe yokuthi 'kwanele, ndiyeke'.

Inqaku elidibeneyo:

Iimpawu ezizolileyo ezivela kwiikati

Ikati yam iyoyika kwaye indikhwaza, ndenze ntoni?

Kule meko kufuneka uyiyeke izole kuqala. Siza kuqhubeka nemisebenzi yethu yemihla ngemihla, siyityeshele ikati, kwaye nje ukuba sibonile ukuba uphinde waqalisa imisebenzi yakhe yemihla ngemihla (ukuzilungisa, ukulala, ...) emva koko siya kumnika itoti yokutya okumanzi esaziyo ukuba uyakuthanda .

Ngelixa esitya, sinokuhlala kufutshane naye (kodwa hayi ecaleni kwakhe) ukubona ukuba usabela njani. Ukuba akasikhathaleli, kulungile, kodwa ukuba uyasirhabaxa sizakuqhubeka nokwenza into ekufuneka uyenzile kwaye kamva siza kumnika enye kwaye sizame ukumphulula ngobumnene kwaye sifane nomntu ongayifuniyo le nto intloko yakhe encinci kwaye okanye isiseko somqolo wakhe, kanye ekuzalweni komsila, njengoko ziindawo ezimbini iikati zihlala zithanda ukuphathwa.

Ke, kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba ngosuku olulandelayo uloyiko ludlule 😉.

Kutheni iikati zam zisebenza?

Ukuba ubuhlala nekati enye kwaye ngoku uhlala ezimbini, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ubazise kancinci kancinci. Ezi zilwanyana zinendawo enkulu kakhulu, kwaye kuqhelekile ukuba benze umsondlo ngeentsuku zokuqala kunye neeveki (ngamanye amaxesha kwaneenyanga). Ukugcina eli xesha lifutshane kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kuyacetyiswa ukubeka ikati entsha kwigumbi elinamanzi, ukutya, ibhedi, izinto zokudlala kunye nebhokisi yenkunkuma, kwaye utshintshe ibhedi kangangeentsuku ezintathu. Igumbi liyasuswa, kodwa ligcinwe ngasemva umzekelo isithintelo somntwana ukuze zombini izilwanyana zibone, zinevumba kwaye zithinte, kodwa ngaphandle kwengozi yokuzenzakalisa.

Kwimeko apho babonisa umdla okanye umdla kwabanye, ukuba bafuna ukubabamba ngaphandle kokutsala iinzipho, kwaye amehlo abo azolile (kwaye awalungisekanga, enabafundi abaxubileyo), siya kuwususa umqobo. Ukusukela ngelo xesha ukuya phambili, ngalo lonke ixesha sifuna ukubaphatha, sizobaphatha bobabini, kuqala omnye emva koko omnye ngesandla esinye, ukuze bobabini babe nephunga lomnye lomzimba kwaye banyamezeleke ngokukhawuleza okukhulu.

Ezinye izizathu ezinokubakho ngumzekelo wokuba abafuni kwabelana ngokutya okanye ibhedi yabo, okanye lixesha lokukhwelana kwimeko apho bathene bona ingxaki izakusonjululwa.

Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ikati ikufutha?

Njengokuba isithonga sisilumkiso, umyalezo othunyelwa sisilwanyana kuthi ukuze siwushiye wedwa, into ekufuneka siyenzile yile: shiya kude. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa ukuyikhusela ukuba ingenzeki kwakhona, xa kuzolile into esinokuyenza kwaye ekufuneka siyenzile siyakumema ukuba uze kuthi, simbonisa ukuphatha ikati kwaye simnika yona xa ekugqibeleni sisondela kuye.

Kukwacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba umothuse amaxesha ngamaxesha ngokumnika iinkonkxa zokutya kwekati emanzi. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngaloo ndlela, ngokuthe ngcembe siya kuyithemba ikati yethu.