Ukuba uhlala nekati, ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna ukuba ibe sisilwanyana esihlala ngolonwabo ecaleni kwakho, akunjalo? Ukufumana akukho nzima, kodwa kuyinyani ukuba lixesha lokuqala ukuhlala nomnye wabo, unokuba namathandabuzo amaninzi malunga naloo nto.
Ke ngoko, ukuba ukule meko kwaye ufuna umntu ukuba acacise amathandabuzo akho, Okulandelayo ndiza kukuxelela indlela yokonwaba kunye nempilo yekati.
Mnike amanzi, ukutya nendawo yokuhlala ekhuselekileyo
Kuya kufuneka uqale ngeziseko, oko kukuthi: ikati kufuneka ihlale inamanzi, ukongeza kukutya okusemgangathweni ophezulu -ngaphandle kweecereals-. Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungaphila ubomi obuzolileyo kwikhaya apho uhlonitshwayo kwaye uthandwa ngabantu bonke. Oku kuthetha ukuba abantu kufuneka bathathe ixesha baqonde ulwimi lwabo lomzimba, njengoko oku kuya kukwenza uzive ukhululekile ekhaya.
Dlala naye
Nangona kukho iikati ezixhalabileyo kunezinye, ezidlalayo ngakumbi kunezinye, kubalulekile ukuba udlale naye yonke imihla. Nikezela malunga neeseshoni ezintathu malunga nemizuzu eli-10 umntu ngamnye azodlala naye. Thenga into yokudlala okanye ezimbini (umzekelo, ibhola nepali) uzisebenzisele ukonwabisa umhlobo wakho.
Yithande kwaye uyihloniphe
Ukongeza ekuqondeni ulwimi lomzimba wakhe ukuze akwazi ukunxibelelana ngcono naye, Kubaluleke kakhulu-enyanisweni, kufanelekile - ukuyithanda ikati onayo kunye nokuyihlonipha. Oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka umenze azive ethandwa, kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba umnyanzele ukuba enze nantoni na. Njengoko uluqonda ulwimi lwakhe, uyakutolika ngcono imiyalezo akuthumelela yona.
Mse kugqirha wezilwanyana naninina xa eyifuna
Ikati sisilwanyana esinokugula okanye sifumane ingozi nanini na, njengathi abantu. Ukuthintela oku, kuya kufuneka umse ukuba ayokutofa kwaye wathena yena, nangaphandle kwakhona Kuya kufuneka ubonane nengcali rhoqo xa ukrokrela ukuba akaphilanga okanye kukho into eyenzekileyo kuye.
Ngala macebiso, kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba ikati yakho iphile iminyaka emininzi, many.