Oko ikati yaqala ukuhlala nabantu emakhayeni abo, ubudlelwane phakathi kwaba babini buye basondela kwaye basondela. Ngokwenza njalo, uboya sele besiqhela kumasiko ethu, into engaqhelekanga kuthathelwa ingqalelo ukuba yinyamakazi kwaye bahlala bezama ukuhlala kude nabantu.
Iingxaki zokuhlangana, ewe, ziyavela, yiyo loo nto abantu bezamile, kwaye besazama, ukubumba isimilo salezi zilwanyana ukuba siziguqulele ekubeni zizinto ezihlala zisanda ngokwasentlalweni. Kodwa, Ngaba ukohlwaywa kweekati naluphi na usetyenziso?
Ngubani omnye ongazi kakuhle ukuba iikati zazisohlwaywa njani ngaphambili: ukubabetha ngephephandaba xa kwakungekho sandla, ukufefa ngamanzi, okanye nokuhlikihla imilomo yabo ngeemfuno zabo xa babezenza kwiindawo ezingakhange bazichukumise ngokulandelelana. ukubafundisa ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba bazenze apho. Ewe, ngaba ziluncedo? Inyani yile yokuba bakhonza kuphela ukwenza ikati yoyike.
I-feline ayisiqondi isohlwayo ngendlela ebesiya kusiqonda ngayo, phakathi kwezinye izinto kuba ihlala isohlwaywa xa sele kudlule ixesha elide emva kokwenza into engalunganga. Yintoni egqithisile, akukho nto inokufundwa xa bezama ukukufundisa ngento ekoyikisayo okanye eyoyikisayo, njengoko iikati zisoyika amanzi. Ungamoyikisa, kodwa akunakuze umfundise ukuba aziphathe ngolu hlobo.
Umohlwaya njani ke? Okanye, umfundisa njani ukuba aziphathe? Ngonaphakade ukuhlonipha isilwanyana, kunye nokuqonda ukuba kutheni isenza into eyenzayo. Usenokuba nesithukuthezi kwaye uzama ukufumana ingqalelo yakho ukuba uchithe ixesha kunye naye, okanye usenokuba ngumntwana ongenaxhala ofuna iposti yokukrwela iinzipho zakhe. Kwimeko yokuthandabuza, unokujonga ulwazi kule bhlog, okanye usishiyele izimvo zakho 😉.