Rhoqo xa sibona ikati engaboni kwiliso elinye okanye omabini amehlo, sinexhala lokuba sifuna ukuyikhusela kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze kungabikho kwenzakala. Kwaye oku akonelanga kwaphela, kuba ekuphela kwento esinokuyiphumeza kukuba isilwanyana sixhomekeke kakhulu kuthi, kwaye inokuba yingxaki enkulu xa, umzekelo, kufuneka siye emsebenzini. Uboya bungaziva bodwa, kwaye bungagqibela ngokuba noxinzelelo oluninzi kangangokuba, Usenokuzenzakalisa ungaqondanga.
Ukuthintela oku, ndiza kukucacisela ukhathalela njani ikati engaboniyo.
Mnyamekele, ewe, kodwa ngaphandle kokumkhusela kakhulu
Nokuba wazalwa eyimfama okanye ngokuthe ngcembe akasaboni, akufuneki azikhusele kakhulu. Ubumfama buyinyani ukuba ngumda kwikati, kodwa kuyinyani leyo inokulungiswa kakuhle kwimeko yakho. Kwaye kunjalo, njengoko kusenzeka ebantwini, xa belahlekelwa yingqondo, abanye babonakala ngathi baphucukile ngakumbi.
Ke, awuyi kuba nakho ukubona, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba, umzekelo, iindlebe zakho zive izandi esingakwaziyo nokucinga ukuba ziveliswe. Nangona kunjalo, oko akuthethi ukuba akufuneki senze iinguqu ekhaya.
Ukuhlala nekati engaboniyo
Ukuze uboya buqhubeke ukukhokela ubomi obuqhelekileyo, kukho izinto ezininzi ekufuneka sizenzile (kwaye singazenzi). Zezi zilandelayo:
- Beka umqobo kwizinyuko ukuze anganyuki okanye aye ezantsi kubo, ubuncinci ngaphandle kokuba umntu abe naye.
- Gcina zonke izinto ezibukhali, kunye nezo zinetyhefu, njengeemveliso zokucoca.
- Kuya kufuneka umkhuthaze ukuba ahambe kwaye abaleke, Ukusasaza ukuphatha ikati ekhaya, kunye nokuchitha imizuzu embalwa yonke imihla bedlala naye.
- Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uhambise izinto zakho: isondli, isela, ibhedi ...
- Ngokucacileyo, sukuyishiya phandle, nokuba uneliso elinye. Kuyingozi kakhulu.
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Khumbula ukuba ikati elingaboniyo lishiye izivamvo ezine, kungoko linokonwaba xa lifumana uthando kwaye liziva likhuselekile kusapho 😉.