Nokuba sihlala sinekati yethu ngaphakathi endlwini okanye ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, siyamvumela ukuba aphume phandle kodwa alawulwe kukufika nokuhamba kwakhe, inyani ebuhlungu yeyokuba iingozi zinokwenzeka. Ungaphuma ngomnyango okokuqala kwaye ulahleke, okanye ulahlekele kunakuqala kwaye emva koko ungazi ukuba ubuyela njani.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni kwezi meko? Nokuba kubiza kakhulu, into yokuqala kukuzama ukuhlala uzolile. Ngokubanzi, ubukhulu becala ixesha lefeline liyakwazi ukuya ekhaya lodwa kwaye liyakwenza njalo ngaphakathi kweeyure ezingama-24 ezizayo. Ukuba emva kwelo xesha awuva kuye, okanye ukuba uyazi ukuba uhlala ebuya kwangaxeshanye kwaye uva ukuba ikhona into eyenzekileyo kuye, iya kuba lixesha lokuba uzibuze uyifumana phi ikati yam kwaye uqalise ukukhangela.
Iya phi ikati elahlekileyo?
Xa ikati isekhaya, iziva ikhuselekileKuba uchitha ixesha elininzi eyiphinda ayiphonononge, azikhuhle ngokuchaseneyo nefenitshala kwaye ngayo yonke into ayibona ngathi yeyakhe- kubandakanya nathi 🙂 -. Sisilwanyana sendawo ngendalo, kwaye leyo yinto esinokuyibona mihla le xa ishiya iipheromones zayo, okanye ngakumbi xa usapho lusanda.
Nangona kunjalo, isitrato yintsimi engathathi cala kuye. Kuhlala kukho iikati ezininzi, abantu abaninzi, kunye nengxolo eninzi eya kukwenza ube nemvakalelo yakho emihlanu ukulungele ukusabela ngexesha xa kuvela ingxaki. Kodwa ke, le meko, enokuthi ekuqaleni ibonakale inomdla- asinakulibala ukuba iikati zifuna ukwazi kakhulu ngayo yonke into abangayaziyo- njengokuba ixesha lihamba Usenokuziva ulusizi, ngakumbi ukuba iyikati enamathele kakhulu kusapho lwayo lwabantu.
Ukuba ifika kweli nqanaba, iyakuya phi? Ndizakuzama ukuza ekhayaUkuhlala maxa onke kude neengozi ezinokubakho (iimoto, abantu, izilwanyana).
Uyifumana phi ikati yam?
Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba ikati yakho ilahlekile, Kuya kufuneka uyijonge kwiindawo okanye kwiindawo ezinokuthula ngakumbi okanye kancinci, umzekelo kwiipaki okanye egadini. Ikati elahlekileyo sisilwanyana esoyikekayo esiya kuzimela ezimbombeni apho sinokuziva sikhuselekile.
Mjonge ngakumbi emva kwemini, kuxa iikati zisebenza kakhulu. Thatha ikani lokutya kwekati emanzi uhambe nawo ukutsala umdla wabo, kunye nomphathi ukuze akwazi ukubuyela ekhaya.
Beka imiqondiso EFUNAYO kwindawo ohlala kuyo, kwaye unike isaziso kwiiklinikhi zonyango lwezilwanyana. Ke amathuba okuba uphinde udibane aya kuba phezulu kakhulu 😉.
Inkuthazo enkulu.