Udlala njani neekati ezincinci

Iingqondo ezinoboya sisiponji: ithatha yonke into abayifundisayo, elungileyo okanye embi. Bakuba bekhulile, abalibali yonke into abayifundileyo besengabantwana; Oko kukuthi, ukuba njengenjana siyamvumela adlale ngezandla zethu, xa sele ekhulile uya kuqhubeka esenza, kuba yile nto simfundise yona.

Ukuthintela oku, kubalulekile ukwazi udlala njani neekati ezincinci. Ngomdlalo siya kuwufezekisa ukuba ngomso umhlobo wethu abe yiKati Mnu, unentlalontle, kwaye ufundisiwe (kakuhle, njengoko ufundisiwe njengesiqhelo, kunjalo course).

Ukudlala nekati eneenyanga ezimbalwa ubudala kuyonwabisa ngokwenene. Kuxhomekeke ekubeni umdala kangakanani, usenokukhubeka kancinci xa uhamba okanye ubaleka, kodwa ufunda ngokukhawuleza kwaye yinto oza kuyibona ngoko nangoko. Kodwa kuya kufuneka uyazi isabuthathaka kakhulu, ke kuya kufuneka ulumke xa umthatha (eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukubeka isandla phantsi kwesisu, ngaloo ndlela uxhasa umzimba wakhe omncinci).

Yeyiphi indlela ebalaseleyo yokonwaba? Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyikhumbule kukuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba uyiyeke ikulume okanye ikukrwele; ukuba iyenzeka, uyeke kwangoko umdlalo kwaye uqale ukwenza ezinye izinto. Kungekudala uza kufunda ukuba ukuba uyakrwela okanye ukuluma, akukho mdlalo, kwaye, ewe, into ayifunayo kukudlala, ke uza kuyeka ukukwenzakalisa.

Kufuneka usoloko ubeka into yokudlala phakathi kwakho nekatana.: Intambo, isilwanyana esigxuthiweyo ... Kwiivenkile zezilwanyana uza kufumana izinto zokudlala ezingenakubalwa onokuchitha kuzo ixesha elimangalisayo nomhlobo wakho, nangona unokwenza nezinto zakho zokudlala. Ngale ndlela, ibhokisi yekhadibhodi elula enomngxuma enokuphuma kuyo iya kwenza umhlobo wakho abe nexesha elimnandi. Ungade ubambe intambo kuyo ukuba yibhokisi enkulu, ende.

Into engenakho ukungabikho ikhamera. Thatha la maxesha efayile yakho ukuze uwakhumbule. Ixesha lihamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye phambi kokuba wazi, liya kuba sele lifikile ebudaleni.

Kwaye wena, udlala njani nekati yakho?