Siyayithanda ikati yethu, kwaye siyayithanda kakhulu kangangokuba ngamanye amaxesha siyimosha. Simtyisa ngokuphatha i-feline, ngekhe sikwazi nokumelana nokujonga kwakhe ngamehlo xa ejonge ngelixa sisitya, kwaye siphela simnika okunye kokutya kwethu. Andiyi kuyikhanyela: Ndiyinto endiyenza rhoqo kusasa. Kodwa Kuya kufuneka uzame ukuyiphepha, kuba ekuhambeni kwexesha singagqibela sinoboya obutyebileyo, ngakumbi ukuba sisilwanyana esizolileyo esingathandi ukwenza umthambo kakhulu.
Ngendlela, ukhe wazibuza ukuba bobuphi ubunzima obulungileyo bekati? Masazi ukuba ikati ityebile, kwaye singenza ntoni ukuyibuyisela kubunzima bayo.
Ndazi njani ukuba ikati yam inobunzima bakho?
Ikati nganye inobunzima bayo obufanelekileyo. Kwimeko apho ubuhlanga, singafumanisa ukuba sijonga kwithebhu yomdyarho ekuthethwa ngawo, kwaye emva koko simlinganise umhlobo wethu. Kodwa ke, ukuba iyikati ye-mongrel, ungazi njani? Kulula kakhulu: Kuya kufuneka uyibone phezulu nangapha.
- Ukuba utyebe kakhulu, Isinqe sakho asizukubonakala, kwaye isisu sakho kungenzeka ukuba "sixhome" encinci (okanye eninzi, kuxhomekeke kubunzima bayo).
- Ukuba ubunzima bakho obuqhelekileyo, isinqe siyabonakala, kodwa hayi amathambo. Umzimba wayo uya kuba mkhulu, ngakumbi okanye ngaphantsi uxande (ukujonga phezulu).
- Ukuba ubhityile, isinqe, iimbambo, iincakuba zamagxa ziya kuphawulwa kakhulu. Ubomi bakho buya kuba sengozini enkulu.
Ukubuyisa njani ubunzima bakho?
Nje ukuba siqinisekise ukuba ikati ityebe kakhulu, okanye ngokuchaseneyo, ibhityile kakhulu, into yokuqala ekufuneka siyenzile ndimse kugqirha wezilwanyana. Ngoba? Kuba akufuneki utshintshe indlela otya ngayo, kwaye ungazazi nokuba unazo na iingxaki zempilo. Nguye kuphela oya kuthi akwazi ukusixelela ukuba kufuneka atshintshele kwisondlo esithile okanye hayi, nokuba kufuneka atye malini
Xa sele usekhaya, ukuba utyebe kakhulu, kwaye nanini na apho unakho, siza kwenza umthambo. Kwiivenkile zezilwanyana uza kufumana iintlobo ezininzi zeethoyi; khetha ezinye (iibhola, izilwanyana ezifakiweyo okanye isikhombisi se-laser), kwaye uchithe imizuzu emi-5 amatyeli aliqela ngosuku udlala ngayo. Ewe, asinakukunika nantoni na ephatha ikati, kuba ukwenjenjalo akunakuphungula ubunzima 🙂.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba ubhityile, Akunyanzelekanga ukuba simnike ukutya okuninzi ngexesha elinye; Endaweni yoko, siya kushiya umkhombe ugcwele ukuze atye nanini na xa elambile, ngaphandle kokuba abuthathaka kakhulu kwaye akafuni okanye angatyi, kwimeko apho kufuneka simnike isixa esinconyelwe ngugqirha wezilwanyana ngesandla okanye ngesirinji engenaliti.
Ukugcina ubunzima obulungileyo kubaluleke kakhulu kwiikati, kuba ubomi bazo buxhomekeke kuzo.