Konke malunga nobume bendawo yeekati

Iikati zinendawo enkulu kakhulu. Nditsho noburhabaxa obunothando nobuntu ekuhlaleni buyakwazi ukukhusela ezo mitha zomhlaba awubona njengezakhe, angalwa nokuba ubona kufanelekile. Le yinto ethi, xa ingoyena uboya kuphela ekhaya, ingahlali ibangela ingxaki, okanye ingekhoyo enzulu, kodwa xa kungeniswa ikati yesibini, imeko iba nzima.

Koko sililungu elitsha losapho, kuba umhlobo wethu othandekayo "omdala" ngumqeshi, umntu ongamaziyo ohlasela ikhaya lakho. Ukutshintsha ingqondo kuya kuthatha ixesha kunye nomonde, ngamanye amaxesha uninzi lomonde. Ngoba? Ukuphendula lo mbuzo, Ndiza kukuxelela konke malunga neempawu zekati.

Yintoni intsimi yesini kwaye yahlulwe njani?

Indawo ye-feline siseti yeendawo ezenzelwe imisebenzi ethile, enokuthi ibe ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ngokuxhomekeke, ngaphezulu kwako konke, kubudala bekati nokuba ayifakwanga okanye ayifakwanga. Ezi ndawo zezi:

• Indawo yomsebenzi: nantsi ikati yenza imisebenzi yayo yemihla ngemihla: yitya, dlala, zikhulule ... Le ndawo yahlulwe yangamabala ahlukeneyo, ukuze, umzekelo, ukutya kwahlulwe kukususa.
• Indawo yokwahlulahlula: le ndawo isetyenziselwa ukuchitha ixesha lodwa, mhlawumbi ukulala okanye ukuphuma kwinto ebangela oko ngelo xesha uxinzelelo.
• Indawo yoxinzelelo: apha ikati inokugqibela ngokuhlasela ukuba ibona kufanelekile.

Ezi ndawo zintathu zidityaniswe ziindledlana, ezenziwa buboya ukusukela kusuku lokuqala oluphuma ngaphandle. Abaze baphule, ngaphandle kokuba usapho luhamba okanye enye ikati, yomelele kunaye, iyigxotha ngaphandle kwendawo, into eyenzekayo phakathi kwabantu abanoboya abahlala esitalatweni.

Ifuna indawo engakanani ikati?

Amakati angaze aphume endlwini anentsimi echazwe kakuhle: indlu ngokwayo; kodwa abo baphumela ngaphandle "balawula" indawo enkulu kakhulu. Esi sithuba sikhulu kwimeko yeekati ezingamadoda ezingafakwanga i-neutered, kuba zezona zihamba ziyokukhangela iimazi. Iikati ezingathathi hlangothi zikude kakhulu (ibhloko enye okanye ezi-1), kodwa uya kuhlala uzifumana zikufutshane nomthombo wazo wokutya.

Kwimeko yeekati ezingafakwanga i-neutered, indawo abayidingayo incinci kakhulu. Ngapha koko, ndinokuxelela ukuba amadoda awathandeki ukuphambuka ngaphezulu kwesitalato esinye, kwaye abantu basetyhini bahlala benommandla omalunga ne-400 okanye i-500m.

Uphawula njani intsimi?

Ikati iphawula ummandla wayo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo:

• Ngomchamo: Kumphezulu othe nkqo.
• Ngemikrwelo: ifanitshala, imiqamelo, njl.
• Ukuhlikihla ngokuchasene nezinto: yile ndlela ushiya ngayo iipheromones zakho zobuso.

Unolwazi oluthe kratya kwesi sihloko apha.

Inokuphetshwa?

Hayi. Ikati ifuna, ngokwemvelo yayo, ukuphawula indawo yayo. Into esinokuyenza kukuyithena ngaphambi kokuba ifudumale, kuba ngale ndlela siya kuyithintela ekumakisheni umchamo kwaye, ngelishwa, inkunkuma engafunekiyo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba sikunike isikhuhli (okanye ezininzi) ukuze ugcine iinzipho zakho zibukhali.

Singakunceda njani uzive ukhululeke ekhaya?

Ukongeza ekuboneleleni nge ukhathalelo olusisiseko, kukho izinto ezininzi ekufuneka sizenzile ukunqanda isimanga esingathandekiyo kwaye, ngelishwa, simenze azive ekhululekile kwaye onwabile kunye nathi. Ukuthatha ingqalelo yokuba indawo yayo yahlulwe yangamacandelo ahlukeneyo, into ekufuneka siyenzile yile beka ukutya kwakho namanzi kunye, kodwa kude nebhokisi yenkunkuma.

Izinto zakhe zokudlala, ipali yokukrwela, kunye nebhedi yakhe kufuneka ibe kwelinye igumbi apho usapho luhlala khona. Umzekelo, iholo okanye igumbi lokuhlala. Ngale ndlela iyakuthi ikwazi "ukuzingela", nangona ingeyonyani, ifezekise ubuchule bayo bomrhamncwa.

Ekugqibeleni, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ube nendawo apho unokukhululeka khona. Kweli gumbi kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukuthula, ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa mntu.

Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ikati inommandla omkhulu

Abo bethu bahlala neekati bayazi ukuba le ndawo "yasendle" ihlala ihleli kubo, nangona kunjalo kwaye ngengcebiso esikunike yona, banokuziqhelanisa kakuhle nekhaya kwaye baphile nosapho. Ukuba ubonelela ngendawo yokuhlala, ukutya, amanzi, kunye nothando oluninzi, ikati yakho iya kuziva ilungile xa ikujikelezile.

Kodwa iingcambu zayo ezendeleyo ziyenza ibe naloo mmandla wefeline oziva ngathi ngowawo kwaye akukho mntu unokudlula kuwo. Nangona kukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo njengoko kuchaziwe apha ngasentla, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ukuba iba yikati enkulu kakhulu inokusizisela iingxaki, ngakumbi ukuba sinezilwanyana zasekhaya ezininzi okanye ukuba sizimisele ukuzibandakanya nosapho lwethu.

Imida yendawo yekati yasendle okanye ekhululekile

Ikati yasekhaya iyayazi ukuba iphi imida yayo (iindonga zendlu), kodwa iikati zasendle okanye iikati ezihlala kwinkululeko yenkululeko zinokuyandisa imida yazo njengoko besesitshilo ngasentla. Izinto ezibandakanyiweyo kwimihlaba yezenzo zixhomekeke ngaphezulu kwako konke kumthombo wamandla.

Ikati iya kuhlala kufutshane nalapho itya khona kunye namanzi, kwaye nokuba kukho iikati ezininzi ezikufutshane, ngakumbi kwezo ziikati zikhangela iimazi ukuba zikhwisane. Ngokwesiqhelo, iikati ezingamadoda zihlala zinommandla omkhulu kunowasetyhini kwaye ngamanye amaxesha banokwabelana ngendawo, kodwa ihlala ibangela ukungavisisani phakathi kwamadoda angathenwanga ngamadoda ngamaxesha obushushu.

Ikati iyiphawula nini indawo yayo?

Ikati iphawula indawo yayo kwabanye nakwayo. Ke abanye baya kuyazi ukuba le yintsimi yabo, kananjalo, kukwazisa ngokwakho. Isebenzisa ikakhulu amanqaku abonakalayo nawolwakhiwo: ukukrwela, umchamo ...) Ke ngoko, ikati yasekhaya ifuna iposti kwaye ikati eyindoda ingachami kuyo yonke indawo, kungcono wathena yena.

Imisebenzi yamanqaku kwiikati

Kuyimfuneko ukwazi indlela yokutolika amanqaku eekati, kuba ayisoloko inento yokwenza nomhlaba wabo. Kukho amaxesha apho ezi ntengiso zinenye injongo ekufuneka uyazi:

• Iimpawu zommandla, phawula ubukho babo endaweni, njengoko sichazile kwinqaku lonke.
• Iimpawu zealam. Kwenzeka xa ikati iziva ixinezelekile ngenxa yesizathu esithile. Ihlala yenziwe ngeengxowa zangaphambili.
• Amanqaku okuziqhelanisa okanye isazisi. Ilungu lomzimba wakho njengentloko okanye umqolo ludla ngokuthanjiswa ukushiya ivumba emntwini okanye kwinto ocinga ukuba ayinalo ivumba lakho kwaye kufuneka uliphawule. Nangona ungayenza ngokulula ngokubonisa uthando lwakho kwabanye abantu.

Ukongeza kumanqaku akhankanywe apha ngasentla, ikati inokuyiphawula indawo yayo ngezinye iindlela: ngonxibelelwano lwesiNtu (ukuva: ukucheba kunye nokucoca) kunye nokubonakalayo (isikhundla sokumakisha amandla njengokulala ngomqolo kubonisa isisu okanye amalungu, nkqu ukuphosa i-pee yesondo).

Ndiyathemba ukuba ufunde lukhulu malunga neempawu zekati.