Amakati zizilwanyana ezinoxolo ngokwendalo, kodwa kuyinyani ukuba ziyakwazi ukulwa ngamanye amaxesha. Nokuba kungenxa yommandla okanye kuba kukho ikati eshushu, aba banoboya basebenzisa iinzipho zabo kunye namazinyo abo ukuba kunyanzelekile ukukhusela oko bacinga ukuba kokwabo.
Lo ngumzuzu ongathandekiyo kakhulu wengxwabangxwaba ebantwini, ngoko ke Noti Gatos siza kukuxelela indlela yokuphepha ukulwa kwekati.
Ukuzisa ikati yesibini ekhaya kufuneka kube sisizathu sokubhiyozela kunye novuyo kuwo onke amalungu osapho, kubandakanya nekati esele ihleli nathi. Kodwa ke, oku akusoloko kunjalo. Kwaye asinakulibala ukuba banendawo enkulu, kwaye kananjalo abaluthathi kakuhle utshintsho. Nangona iingxaki zinokuphetshwa. Kulula ngakumbi kunokuba besinokucinga ekuqaleni, kuba ngenene yonke into isekwe yiba nomonde kakhulu kwaye uyihloniphe iikati ngalo lonke ixesha.
Awunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze nantoni na abangayifuniyo, kwaye ngekhe ungxame ufumane iziphumo. Ke, ukunqanda umlo kunye neemeko ezingathandekiyo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sinxibelelane nabo ngokuchanekileyo, ukugcina ikati entsha kwigumbi iintsuku ezimbalwa, ukutshintshiselana ngeebhedi, kwaye kamva, ukubenza babonane kwaye banuke omnye nomnye kwindawo ekhuselekileyo. Vula Oku kubhaliwe unolwazi ngakumbi.
Esinye isizathu esinokubangela ukuba iikati ezimbini zilwe yile uxinzelelo. Imeko yosapho exineneyo iyayenzakalisa impilo yeemvakalelo yezilwanyana, ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba kungekuphela nje ukuba zinokuphulukana nomdla wokutya kunye / okanye ukungakhathali, kodwa banokuqumbelana nantoni na, nokuba bubudenge. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sizame ukuqinisekisa ukuba okusingqongileyo ekhaya kuzolile kwaye kumnandi kumntu wonke. Ukuba kukho imfuneko, siya kuthatha njengesiqhelo ukuthatha umhlala-phantsi imizuzu embalwa siye kwigumbi elithe cwaka, apho sinokuhlala khona kwisitulo, sivale amehlo nengqondo kangangemizuzu eli-10 okanye engama-20.
Kubonakala ngathi akunjalo, kodwa xa uvula amehlo, uya kubona ukuba uziva ungcono kangakanani… kwaye yile nto abahlobo bakho abanoboya abaya kuyibona.
Unokwenza njani xa ikati elahlekileyo isiza ikhathaze ikati yam? Oku kwenzeka phantse yonke imihla ukuba ikati inkulu kunam kwaye amaxesha amaninzi ndamshiya amanxeba amabi; Mhlawumbi oku kungenxa yokuba kwityeli elininzi ikati ibibekwa endlwini yam kwaye itya ukutya kwekati yam, kodwa ngaba ikhona indlela yokuthintela ukuba ingabuyi?
Molo Klau.
Ndikucebisa ukuba uyishiye ikati yakho ngaphakathi okwethutyana, kwaye ngeloxesha ucofe ucango lwendlu yakho nogxotha ikati. Ukuba uyayibona (ikati elahlekileyo), mjonge ngamehlo abanzi, ujonge; Olu luphawu olusoyikisayo kubo, kwaye ayizukuthatha ixesha elide ukufumana umyalezo.
Kuthatha ixesha, kodwa ekugqibeleni kuyayeka ukuhamba.
A ubingelele.