Wakhe wazibuza ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuphupha ikati emhlophe? Inyani yile yokuba esi sisilwanyana, nokuba usibona kwimifanekiso ye-Intanethi okanye kubomi bokwenyani, esikwenza uzive uzolile kwaye ukhululekile.
Ukuba unethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungabelana nabanye ngobomi, ndiqinisekile ukuba uyakonwabela kakhulu. Kodwa, ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha usisi onje, sukuyeka ukufunda.
Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha iikati ezimhlophe?
Ngokwentsomi nakwinkcubeko edumileyo, ukuphupha ikati emhlophe kuneentsingiselo ezintle. Ngapha koko, kukholelwa ukuba luphawu lokuba ixesha lethamsanqa liza, ukuba umntu uya kuthandwa ngumntu omthandayo, okanye kunokuthetha nje ukuba ungumntu odalayo. Kwakhona, gcinani engqondweni ukuba umbala omhlophe umele ubumsulwa, ukungafihli kweenjongo, ukungabikho kwenkohliso kunye noxolo, ke ukuba uyayamkela ikati, ungancuma 🙂 kuphela.
Kodwa lumka, yintoni ayizizo zonke izinto ezilungileyo. Ukuba ikati emhlophe ebonakala ilele iyathetha nawe, kukho abo bakholelwa ukuba eyona nto yenzekayo kukuba isizalwane okanye umhlobo osandula ukusweleka udlulisa umyalezo okanye isilumkiso kuwe. Kwinkcubeko yesiNgesi ikati emhlophe ngokwesiko inxulunyaniswa neziporho.
Kuthetha ntoni ukuphupha ikati emhlophe kum?
Ewe, andingomntu ukholelwa kwezi zinto. Ingqondo yomntu ayiqinisekanga ncam ukuba isebenza njani; Into eyaziwayo kukuba abantu banokuba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni omninzi, oxhasa oko sikubonayo, sikuphilayo, kwaye nento esiyifundayo kunye nabo sihlangana nabo basixelele.
Ukuqala koku, Ukuphupha iikati ezimhlophe kum kuthetha nje ukuba uyazithanda ezi zilwanyana, okanye ufuna ukuba nenye, okanye uyibonile kutshanje kwinyani okanye kumabonwakude / kwimuvi / kwiimagazini / njl. Akukho nto inye (okanye akukho ngaphantsi 🙂). Ngapha koko, iseyinto entle ukuyibona emaphupheni, yonwabele.