Siyayithanda ikati yethu. Simkhathalele kwaye senza konke esinako ukumenza onwabe. Kodwa ukuba lixesha lokuqala ukuba sihlale kunye, kunokuba njalo asenzi ezinye izinto ngokufanelekileyo, yinto eqhelekileyo.
Le feline ingummangaliso inomlinganiswa okhethekileyo, ongenanto yakwenza nenja, ngoko ke ukuyazi kuthatha ixesha. Nangona kunjalo, apha ngezantsi ndiza kuchaza indlela yokuphucula imeko yekati, Ukunika iingcebiso ezininzi ukuze bobabini kunye naye nibe nobudlelane obumnandi kakhulu.
Ithanda ntoni ikati yam?
Xa sifuna ukuphucula imeko-bume yomhlobo wethu, kuya kufuneka sizibuze lo mbuzo ukuze sazi ukuba kufuneka senze ntoni ukusukela ngoku. Singawabukela amaxwebhu malunga neefinal zasekhaya kwaye sinokufumana umbono wokhetho ngokubanzi abanalo, kodwa hayi eyethu ikati.
Ngamnye kubo wahlukile kwaye akanakuphindwa. Ikati nganye inobuntu bayo, iimfuno zayo kunye nezinto ezithandayo, ke ayikho enye indlela ngaphandle kokuchitha ixesha elithile ukuze umazi, ukuyigcina. Kuphela kungoko esinokuthi siyazi indlela yokuphucula imeko-bume.
Beka isondli notywala kwindawo ethe cwaka
Ikati iyathanda ukutya izolile, kwindawo ekude kangangoko kunokwenzeka apho kuhlala khona usapho. Ingxolo esiyenzayo mihla le, njengaxa siyokuthatha inkunkuma, xa siqala umatshini wokuhlamba impahla okanye xa sihlamba izitya, zinokukwenza uzive ungonwabanga kangangokuba ungaphela usitya ngokukhawuleza .
Ukuyiphepha, kufuneka sibeke isondli kunye nesiselo sakho kwigumbi elizolileyo, njengoko inokuba ligumbi lokulala, kwaye ihlala ikho kude kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwibhokisi yesanti, kuba kungenjalo kunokwenzeka ukuba angatyi.
Mnike indawo yokuphumla efanelekileyo
Njengoko sisazi, obu furry bunokuchitha iiyure ezininzi zilele (phakathi kwe-16 kunye ne-18h ukuba umdala, ngakumbi ukuba umncinci). Ngalo lonke elo xesha, kuyakufuneka ungabikho ebhedini ekhululekile kangangoko, kodwa nakwigumbi apho unokuphumla lula.
Ukusuka apha, ndingathanda ukucebisa ukuba uyiyeke lala egumbini lakho lokulala kuba la ngamagumbi adla ngokungena kuphela xa ecocwa okanye xa eyokulala, ngendlela yokuba uboya bunokulala kangangeeyure ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa.
Ukuba awufuni ndilale kwi ibhedi, mthengele yena ibe nye kwivenkile yezilwanyana zasekhaya. Zininzi iimodeli: uhlobo lomqolomba, uhlobo lwekhaphethi, kunye nomqamelo… Khetha oyithandayo (okanye leyo) oyithandayo kwaye ufundise ikati yakho kusuku lokuqala apho kufuneka ilale khona, uyichole, uyibeke kuyo kwaye ukuyinika amabhaso.
Ukuphucula ukubonwa kunye nengqondo
Ukuba sithathela ingqalelo ukuba angaphila iminyaka engama-20 kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akanakuze aphume phandle, kokubini ukuvuselela okubonakalayo kunye nengqondo kubaluleke kakhulu kuye ukuze abe sempilweni kwaye onwabe. Ke, nanini na xa sinako, kuyacetyiswa kakhulu phucula ukufikelela kwiishelufa, iishelfu okanye ihammock ecaleni kweefestile ke unokubona isitalato, ubeka umnatha wocingo (igridi) ukuyikhusela ekubalekeni okanye ekwenzakaleni.
Ukongeza, kufanelekile ukuba ekhaya senze utshintsho ukuze sigcine ukonwatyiswa, ukubeka amashalofu kwiindawo eziphakamileyo ezahlukeneyo umzekelo ngokuphatha ikati ngoko ke kufuneka uye phezulu ukuba ufuna ukubabamba; ukumthengela into enye okanye nangaphezulu ukuze adlale kwaye, ngelishwa, alole iinzipho zakhe kubo kunye / okanye ukumnika into yokudlala esiya kuyifumana siyithengisa kwiivenkile zemveliso yezilwanyana.
Sebenzisa iithoyi zakhe ukumgcina onwabile
Ngamanye amaxesha kuyenzeka ukuba siyathenga iigwegwe kuba umhlobo wethu ecinga ukuba uzakudlala yedwa, kodwa inyani yile uzodlala ngabo kuphela xa sidlala naye. Ukuba senza impazamo yokukholelwa ukuba uza konwaba yedwa, siza kuphelela ekubeni nekati enesithukuthezi engenzi nto ngaphandle kokutya, ukusela nokulala. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba izinto zokudlala zithengwe, siyazi, esiza kuzisebenzisa ukwenza umhlobo wethu onwabe. Imfanele, kwaye siza kuba nexesha elimnandi.
Kufuneka okungenani kubekho iiseshoni ezimbini zomdlalo ezihlala phakathi kwemizuzu eli-10 ukuya kweli-15 inye, ngexesha apho sizakudlala ngeebhola, iintsiba zokuvuthulula kunye / okanye izilwanyana ezifakiweyo. Ewe, xa zinxibe kakhulu okanye zaphukile, kuya kufuneka ubeke ezinye endaweni yazo.
Lungisa ikhaya lakho kwikati yakho ekhubazekileyo okanye enengxaki
Ukuba ikati ikhubazekile okanye inengxaki yokudibana, kubalulekile ukuba ikhaya elihlala kulo lihambelane neemfuno zalo. Ke, ukuba umzekelo unayo iintlungu kwiinyawo zakhoIbhedi yakho kufuneka ibe ye-orthopedic ukuze uphumle ngcono, kwaye isondli sakho kunye nomntu oselayo kufuneka abe kufutshane nalapho ulala khona ukuze ungahambi kakhulu.
Kwimeko apho ikhoyo yimfamaKuyacetyiswa ukuba umnike uhlobo lokutya, nokuba kukutya okanye yinto yendalo, enuka kakhulu, kuba imo yakhe yokujoja iya kuba nayo iphuculwe ngakumbi kwaye iya kukhokelwa yiyo. Siza kubeka isela kanye ecaleni kwesondli yakho ukuze ngale ndlela kufuneka ujikise intloko yakho kancinci.
Kwimeko apho unayo ukukhuluphala, esinokukwenza kukubeka i-feeder ngaphezulu kwetafile ephezulu kunye nesitulo ecaleni kwayo ukuze ikhwele kuyo, okanye ukuyibeka kwisitshisi, ekucetyiswa ngakumbi ukuba ibe yenye yezo zichukumisa isilingi kwaye ineepali ezininzi. Ke, kancinci kancinci, uya kuphinda ubuye ubunzima bakho xa usenza umthambo ... kwaye phantse ungazi.
Khusela ikati yakho kwiingcingo
Ngokwamava ndinokukuxelela ukuba ikati, ngakumbi ukuba isencinci, iyathanda ukubamba yonke into efumanekayo, kubandakanya ikhebula yetshaja ehambayo, intambo yentloko, intambo yefowuni yasendlini, intambo ye-Intanethi, ... ngamafutshane uhlobo lwentambo. Kukho ezinye ezingenabungozi xa uzophula, kodwa Kufuneka ulumke kakhulu kunye nabo baxhumeke kwinethiwekhi yombane njengoko ungabanjwa ngumbane.
Ke ukuba uza kumshiya yedwa, nokuba kukusebenza iiyure ezimbalwa, beka iintambo ngasemva kwefanitshala, kwaye uzincamathisele kufutshane nodonga ngokusemandleni ukuze zingabonwa. Olunye ukhetho kukuba zigqume ngekhadibhodi okanye iteyiphu uze uzitshize kube kanye xa uzisongelayo ngezinto ezingafunekiyo iikati.
Yithande kwaye uyihloniphe
Ingcebiso yokugqibela endikunika yona, kodwa ebaluleke kakhulu. Ziziseko. Ukuthanda nokuhlonipha ikati kubalulekile ukuze ukuhlala kunye kube mnandi kuye wonke umntu. Yonke imihla kuya kufuneka umnike imiqondiso emininzi yothando kunye nokuthembana, ke siyakumenza azive ukuba sibakhathalele kangakanani. Kodwa, lumka, ungamxinzeleli phantsi, ukuba ngendlela emiselweyo yokuthintela ukuba angazenzakalisi, usibekela eyakhe xa engafuni siqhubeke nokumphulula.
Ngezi ngcebiso, wena kunye ne-furry yakho uya konwaba kakhulu.