Xa sithatha ikati ukuba isuswe kwi-neutered, nokuba yindoda okanye ibhinqa, ugqirha wezilwanyana uya kulivala inxeba ngokubeka umthungo kulo. Ke, usulelo luthintelwa ikakhulu, olunokuthi lubeke emngciphekweni ubomi besilwanyana. Kodwa kanye ekhaya kufuneka sinikeze uthotho lokhathalelo ukunciphisa umngcipheko ngakumbi.
Ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle kwaye kungabikho zinto zingathandekiyo zivela, siza kukuxelela ungayikhathalela njani emva kotyando kunye nokususa imithungo kwikati.
Uyikhathalela njani ikati emva kokudibana?
La ukuthena Ngumsebenzi owenziwa phantsi kwe-anesthesia ngokubanzi equka ukususa amadlala okuzala kweekati. Njengesiqhelo, iinwele ezinoboya ziyachacha emva kweentsuku eziyi-3-4, ngelixa iimazi zisenokufuna iveki. Kodwa oku kunokuvakala kukubi kuthi kunokuba kunjalo. Ngapha koko, ngokusuka kumava endinawo, iikati ziphantse zalunga ngosuku olulandelayo, kwaye iikati zihlala zibuyela kubomi bazo obuqhelekileyo emva kweentsuku ezimbini.
Kodwa ke, Ngethuba leentsuku zokuqala kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba isilwanyana sizolile kwaye sikhululekile, kwaye ngaphezu kwayo yonke into ayiyikukhotha. Nangona kunganyanzelekanga ukuba simnyanzele nantoni na, akufuneki simazise ukuba inxeba liyasetyenziswa. Ke ngoko kunokuba yimfuneko ukubeka Elizabeth necklace ikati kunye neekawusi njengehempe yekati. Nangona, ukuba sinako, eyona nto intle kukuba sihleli naye / iiyure ezingama-24, ubuncinci iintsuku ezimbini zokuqala. Iikati azithandi kunxiba nantoni na: zinokuba noxinzelelo olukhulu, ezinokubenza bafune ukubamba amanqaku ngakumbi.
Enye into ekufuneka siyenzile yile lawula amayeza kucetyiswa ugqirha wezilwanyana. Oku kuyakuphelisa iintlungu kunye nokurhawuzelela, ukuze ubuyele kwinkqubo yakho ngokukhawuleza kunokuba besicinga. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, kufuneka siqinisekise ukuba uyasela, uyatya kwaye uyazikhulula. Ngosuku lokuqala, ngekhe wenze nto, kodwa ukusuka kowesibini kuya kufuneka uqale amanzi kunye nokutya. Kwimeko apho engakhange enze njalo, kuya kufuneka asiwe kugqirha wezilwanyana.
Zisuswa nini imithungo?
Emva kongenelelo, ugqirha wezilwanyana uya kusixelela ukuba sizisusa nini iziqu, ukuba kukho imfuneko. Ngapha koko, ngokubanzi, ezo bazibeka kwizinwele ezinoboya ziphela zisuswa zizilwanyana ngokwazo emva kweentsuku ezisi-7 ukuya kwezi-10, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha khange zikwazi ukuyenza kwaye kulapho ke kufuneka sizithathele zona ngobungcali ukubasusa.
Bayenza njani loo nto? Ngokulula, ukugcina ikati iqhotyoshelwe ngokuqinileyo kunye nokusika imithungo ngesikere. Ukuba buboya oboyikisayo kakhulu, bubekwa i-anesthesia encinci yokuphumla kwaye ke kuthintelwe ukuyilimaza.
Ndiyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe 🙂.
Molo sweetie.
Kuxhomekeke kwinto eyenziwe kuwe kunye nohlobo lokulimala. Ngamanye amaxesha abayibeki imithungo kuba sisilonda esiphola ngcono 'sodwa', ngaphandle koncedo.
Ukuba unamathandabuzo, sicebisa ukuba ubonane nogqirha wezilwanyana.
Ukubulisa
Unjani? Ikati yam ibifakwe inzalo ngoMvulo kwaye kungeCawa kwaye sele izisusile zonke imithungo kwaye ityeli lesibini uyenzile, sizama ngayo yonke ikhola yepolo esikiweyo ukuze inxeba lingalawulwa, ixhala lam kukuphinda umthathe ukuze baphinde baphinde bamthunge kodwa ingaba iya kuba kokwesithathu evekini ukuba bayamlala okanye emva kweentsuku ezi-6 inxeba livaliwe kwaye akufuneki ukuba athumele?
Sawubona, uJuan.
Ngokomgaqo kwiintsuku ezi-6, ukuba yonke into ihambe kakuhle, inxeba kufuneka livaliwe ubuncinci ngezona ndawo zingaphezulu kwesikhumba. Kunzima ukuba phantse iveki ikati ivula inxeba.
Ukuba umbona kakuhle, oko kukuthi, ukuba uyatya, uyadlala kwaye uphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo, andizukukhathazeka kakhulu. Ewe ukuba iphantsi okanye ibuhlungu, kwaye ukuba inxeba likhangeleka kakubi kwaye / okanye linuka kakubi, ungathandabuzi ukulibuyisela kugqirha wezilwanyana.
Nibuliso!
Molo, ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezili-15 ezidlulileyo batyanda ikati yam, basusa ithumba. Kwiveki ephelileyo imithungo yasuswa kodwa kuba wayesemtsha, ugqirha wacebisa ukubeka isokisi kuye ukuthintela ukuncancisa. Namhlanje ndiyikhuphile iikawusi ndiyikhothile kwaye isenomsonto oxhonyiweyo, iyingozi?
Molo uGrace.
Andililo ugqirha wezilwanyana, kodwa iikati zihlala ziphilisa ngokukhawuleza kwezi ntlobo zamanxeba. Emva kweentsuku ezili-15 zidlulile, kusenokwenzeka ukuba sele yomile, okanye phantse.
Ngapha koko, xa unokuthandabuza, ndincoma ukuba ubonane nogqirha wezilwanyana osebenze kuyo.
Nibuliso!
Mholweni. Enkosi ngalo lonke olu lwazi. Ndiyakuxelela ukuba ndenzakalise ikati endicinga ukuba ayinabanini (kwaye ukuba uyayenza, khange bamkhathalele okoko ikati iyidlulisela kuye kwam) bendisoyika ukuba inamantshontsho kwaye indlu yam.
Ugqirha wezilwanyana wandixelela ukuba ndimthathe kwiintsuku ezili-10 kamva ukuze afumane amanqaku (inqaku ngoba inye kuphela). Ndineekati ezimbini ezanikwa amanqaku ama-3 ngelo xesha kwaye zaphela zatsala ezimbini, ke ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiyisuse eyokugqibela okoko inxeba lapholayo. Kwakunjalo kwiintsuku ezisi-7 kamva. Ndiyathandaza ukuba kwenzeke into efanayo nale kitshi kuba ayiphumli kwaye inexhala. Ugqithisa emnyango ecela ukuhamba Kodwa ndiyazi ukuba iya kude kwaye ayifanelekanga. Olu lusuku lwam lwesithathu ndingalalanga, hayi nje ukuqinisekisa ukuba inxeba alikhothwa, kodwa nakulo lonke ulusu lwentombazana encinci efuna ukuhamba. Ndiyathemba ukuba uyaphilisa kwiintsuku ezi-4 ngaphezulu kwaye ndinokumkhulula njengoko aqhele ukwenza.
Molo Adri.
Ewe, xa ikati ingaziva isekhaya ... ibonisa lukhulu. Kodwa ungamphazamisa kancinci ngentambo, okanye ngokutya kwekati emanzi umzekelo.
Ngayiphi na imeko, inokwenzeka ukuba iphuculwe kungekudala.
Nibuliso!
Ikati yam eyindoda yayingathathi hlangothi kwaye inxeba layo lenxeba lisendleleni yokuphuma kodwa ayinantlungu okanye akukho nto intle okanye hayi?
Molo uLuz Maria.
Ewe kuqhelekile. Kodwa ukuba uqaphela ukuba ngequbuliso unazo naziphi na iimpawu, ezinje ngomkhuhlane, okanye ukuphelelwa ngumdla wokutya, nxibelelana nogqirha wezilwanyana.
Nibuliso!
Molweni, ikati yam yahlinzwa ngolwesibini namhlanje isusiwe ipoint, kodwa inxeba lilungile, alihlukumezi nokuba yintoni na, bekunzima kum ukuyigcina imile ngoba ayisebenzi kakhulu, kwangaloo mini injalo. yaqhutywa kamva ukuba imiphumo ye-anesthesia iya kuhamba, ndandingathi akukho nto kwaye ndilambile kakhulu, okwangoku kuhle kakhulu kodwa ndinexhala lokuba ngomhla wesibini inqaku lithathiwe? Kodwa ayinqandeki into yokuba ndingazi ukuba ndiyikhotha njani, xa ndicoca inxeba isoloko isenza ☹️
Molo uHelen.
Ukuba umbona kakuhle, ophilileyo, kwaye wenza ubomi bakhe buqhelekileyo, ungakhathazeki. Amakati (amadoda) achacha ngokukhawuleza okukhulu; iikati zithatha ixesha elide, kodwa hayi ixesha elide (emva kweentsuku ezi-3 zibuyela kwimikhwa yazo ukuba konke kuhamba kakuhle).
Ukubulisa
Molo Monica, enkosi ngeposi yakho. Sithathe ikati yam ukuba i-neutered kwaye yafumana imithungo emibini. Omnye washiya kwaye inxeba laphola. Ndingayisika ngesikere?
Molo Malena.
Kungcono ukuba isuswe ngugqirha wezilwanyana, kwimeko apho. Ngokuqinisekileyo akukho nto iya kwenzeka, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha banokwenzakala ngokususa umthungo.
Nibuliso!
Molo, ikati yam eyindoda yayingathathwanga kwaye kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kamva ndaphakamisa umsila wayo ndaqaphela ukuba yayithanda iququito enkulu, andazi ukuba iqhelekile na emva kokugxothwa okanye ndimse kugqirha wezilwanyana.
Enkosi ngolwazi luluncedo kakhulu.
Molo uSara.
Kungcono ukuba ubonane nogqirha wezilwanyana. Unokukunceda.
Ukubulisa
Ndinekati kwaye uye wenziwa utyando ukunqanda ukuba abe nekati ngaphezulu kwenyanga ephelileyo kwaye umthungo awukasuswa, sele ujongeka unezikrelemnqa kodwa andazi ukuba ndingazisusa ngokwam, kuba bendilindile ukuze ayisuse.Kodwa ndicinga ukuba andisakwazi ukuyenza ngaphandle koncedo, kufuneka ndenze ntoni?
Molo Jeimy.
Ukuba khange isuswe, kungcono uyise kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze akwazi ukuyisusa, njengoko unokumenzakalisa.
Oko kwenzekile kwenye yeekati zam, kwaye ugqirha wezilwanyana wakwazi ukuzisusa ngaphandle kwengxaki enkulu.
Nibuliso!
Molweni, enkosi ngolwazi, namhlanje bayifakile inzalo ikati yam ndathi xa ndiyichola abandixelela nto, ndathi ndakuyibona ndabona ukuba ifana neqhina, ndashiyeka ndizibuza ukuba mandiye na ukuba isuswe okanye ukuba iyawa yodwa
Molo Elza.
Hayi, akuyomfuneko ukuba uhambe, ngaphandle kokuba akucaci 🙂
Kodwa iikati ezingamadoda ngokubanzi zichacha ngokukhawuleza.
Ukubulisa
molo kakuhle intshontsho lam lekati sele inenyanga ukusukela ekuzaleni kwakhe kwaye asikasusi umthungo ngoko sele zincinci kwaye nanini na xa sisiya kugqirha wezilwanyana kuvaliwe okanye baxakekile ke sigqiba kwelokuba sizisuse kodwa asazi njani kwaye Ingcaciso yabo iyindida kancinci, ke ukuba ungasinika inkcazo ebanzi, ndingayivuyela kakhulu.
Molo ulungile, ndinombuzo. Namhlanje yiveki e-1 okoko ndazalisa inzalo yekati yam, ukuze ingahambi imini yonke nekhola, kuba bekunzima kuye ukuhamba, ndibeke umbhinqo ukuze angabinakunxibelelana nenxeba, into kukuba ebusuku wayikhupha wayikhotha inxeba. Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ingaba iyingozi na loo nto kwaye kufuneka ndimse kugqirha wezilwanyana okanye kuyinto eqhelekileyo?
Molo Diego.
Sukuba nexhala, ukuba sekuphele iveki ngoku, inxeba sele livaliwe ngaphakathi, ke ayiyongozi. Njengoko iintsuku zihamba, kuya kuvalwa nangaphandle.
Nibuliso!
Molo, kwiintsuku ezili-11 ezidlulileyo ikati yam yayingafakwanga. Iintsuku ezi-2 zokuqala wayengafuni ukutya okanye ukuya kwindlu yangasese. Ukhe wasebenzisa ikhola kaElizabethan… .siye sayikhulula ngomhla wesithandathu kuba wayencwina ngathi unomoya? Ngoku ufana nekati eqhelekileyo yenza yonke into eqhelekileyo kodwa izinto zakhe ezincinci zisavuthwa. Ikhotha ngamanye amaxesha. Iyajika ibepinki… iqhelekile na loo nto ??? Kuba ekuqaleni sibeka i-gensian violet njengoko kuchaziwe.
Sinoyika ukuba angazonzakalisa xa efuna ukuyikhupha yedwa .... akasazivumeli ukuba abanjwe aye kugqirha wezilwanyana
Ngaba simele simshiye eqhelekileyo?
Enkosi ngokufunda ndiyathemba ukuba impendulo yakho?
Molo Patricia.
Ewe kuqhelekile. Kodwa kuya kuba kuhle ukuba ugqirha wezilwanyana ayibone. Okanye ukuba ityala liyabuza ukuba la manqaku ayahamba ngokwawo okanye kufuneka asuswe, xa kunokwenzeka
Saludos !!
Molo molo. Uxolo, ndinombuzo. Kwiveki ephelileyo sasithena ikati yam, kusuku lokuqala sazama ukubeka ikhola kaElizabeth kuye kwaye ndasokola kakhulu kangangokuba kwavulwa inqaku lesuture, umthungo yinto yangaphakathi enemicu yenylon, ngengomso baphinde bamthunga kwaye Sigqibe kwelokuba sinxibe ibhanti kodwa ihlala kuphela iintsuku ezi-3, emva koko siyaphule okanye siyisuse, kwaye kwangoko siye kukhotha inxeba. Umbuzo wam ngowokuba, namhlanje sele kudlule iveki emva kotyando, ukuba uyakhotha inxeba akukho bungozi bosulelo? Ngaba ucinga ukuba iya kuphinda ivuleke? Uloyiko lwam kukuba uyakufikelela kwiqhina lesuture aze ayikhuphe ngokwakhe. Ndiyathemba ukuba ungandiphendula, enkosi kakhulu.
Molo uStephanie.
Kuba iveki sele idlulile, inxeba sele livaliwe ngaphakathi ukuze kungabikho bungozi kumgaqo.
Kodwa cela ugqirha wezilwanyana ukuba abone ukuba ngaba bazibekile na iziqu zokuwa ezizezabo, okanye ukuba kufuneka zisikiwe, kuba ukuba zivela kwezokugqibela kuya kufuneka uziphindise ukuze zisuswe.
Nibuliso!
Molweni, molweni, izolo bavundise ikatana yam, bandixelele ukuba imithungo ibingaphakathi ukuba akukho mfuneko yokumthwala, ukuze kususwe imithungo, ingaba yinto eqhelekileyo leyo? Khange ndiqonde ukuba la manqaku kufuneka asuswe njani ukuba avela ngaphakathi?
Molo Delia.
Ewe, banokuba njalo. Izitishi ziya kuwa zodwa xa inxeba loma (Oko kukuthi, xa livala kakuhle).
Ukubulisa
Molo, kulungile ikati yam yahlinzwa kwiveki ezimbini ezidlulileyo, namhlanje kungoMvulo kwaye ndiyabona ukuba isiqingatha somthungo wayo besisusiwe, ndilifumana inxeba lalo libomvu kancinane, kwaye ndiyabona ukuba liyafunxa kancinane. Kuyandikhathaza, ukusukela ngomhla woku-1 ndambeka ikhola uElizabethan kuye, kwaye ngoku ndinxibe umbhinqo endiwenze ngeT-shirt. Ndixelelwe ukuba imithungo iphuma yodwa, enye ayizenzi, kwaye inyani kukuba ugqirha wezilwanyana akazange andixelele nantoni na malunga naloo nto, kodwa kufuneka amnike iintsuku ezili-10 zokuqala. Kodwa akukho nto isuka apho, ndinganxibelelana nogqirha wezilwanyana, kodwa utyando lwenziwe kwiphulo, uhlobo oluya kwiindawo ngeendawo. Ngapha koko, unomdla kwaye ndiyathanda ukudlala, izinto ziyanzima kum 🙁
Molo Mackenzie.
Ukuba uyayibona kakuhle ikati, usela kwaye usela ngesiqhelo, ungakhathazeki.
Ukubulisa