Khange siphambane. Ungathetha neekati. Njani? Ukufunda ulwimi lwabo, ewe. Oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka sihlolisise i- "miaou" yabo, i-purr yabo kunye nolwimi lwabo lomzimba ukuze bazi ukuba bazama ukusixelela maxa onke, kuba leyo yindlela abanxibelelana ngayo nabanye kunye nathi.
Ke ukuba uyafuna ukwazi ndithetha njani nekati yam, Ungaphoswa leli nqaku.
Unxibelelana njani nekati?
Ukuthetha nekati kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Abantu, okoko amagama ayiliweyo, siyayisebenzisa ukubonisa oko sikufunayo, oko siziva, ... Ngamafutshane, sisebenzisa ukuba sibe nobomi obungcono ekuhlaleni.
Nangona izilwanyana ezingezizo ezomntu kungafuneki zisebenzise ulwimi oluthethwayo (okanye ubuncinci asenzi kangako) kumhla nezolo, ziye ziviwe amaxesha ngamaxesha intetho. Y iikati zezinye zazo, ezihlala nabantu, ezifundileyo ukuba, kwimeko yazo, ziyabaxakekisa, sibahoya ngakumbi. Kungenxa yokuba abantu basabela kwizandi.
Nangona singathetha nabo sisebenzisa amagama 'obuntu', endikuxelele ukuba ekuhambeni kwexesha bazakubanxulumana nento ethile (umzekelo, "banako" banokudibana netoti yokutya okumanzi), ikwanjalo Ndinomdla wokusebenzisa ikati yolwimi oluthethwayo. Ke, ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba uthini, ungayeki ukufunda:
Ukubulisa ikati
Ukuba ufuna ukubulisa uboya bakho njengekati, into oyithethayo yile: isiraphu. Esi silwanyana sisisebenzisa njengophawu lokwamkela ukuzibulisa okanye ukwamkela abanye; Ukongeza, oomama bayayisebenzisa xa bebuya neenjana zabo, ke ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba yinkcukacha yokuba umhlobo wakho uya kuyixabisa kakhulu.
Meow ngaphezulu »brrrr» ukufuna uthando
Enye indlela yokwazisa ikati yakho ukuba ufuna ukunika okanye ukufumana uthando meow ngethoni ephezulu, kwaye isenzo siqhubeke nokuthi "brrrr" uzama ukulinganisa isandi se-purr yakhe. Ukuze undiqonde ngcono, ndikushiya ividiyo yale kati intle:
Tsala umdla wabo
Ukufumana ingqalelo yabo unokwenza izinto ezimbini: ukusebenzisa ulwimi lomntu usebenzisa ithoni yelizwi ebonisa uvuyo nolonwabo, umzekelo kwaye uthi umzekelo: ukutya kuvuliwe, okanye ungakhetha yitsho "miaou" emininzi ngokulandelelana, uphawula u "m" kakhulu okanye wandise u "a", kuba oku kuyakutolika njengokuba ufuna ngokungxamisekileyo into kwaye inokwenzeka ukuba ihambe.
Mbuze ukuba wenzani
Nge »Miaou» mfutshane, Mfutshane kakhulu, kwaye ngelizwi elonwabisayo, ungambuza ukuba wenzani. Ngokuqinisekileyo ukubuza ngalo lonke ixesha xa ekubona usebenza kwikhompyuter, ufunda incwadi, okanye ngamafutshane, xa ungamnaki.
Ikati yam ayiyeki ukuthetha, yintoni ephosakeleyo?
Kukho iikati ezingathethi kakhulu, kwaye ezinye, ngokuchaseneyo, zithetha kakhulu. Kwaye ayisiyixeli into yokuba i-meow inokuba mandundu ngakumbi okanye ibe krakra ngokuxhomekeke kwikati kwaye ifuna ukubonisa ntoni. Kodwa xa baninzi kakhulu, yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe?
Impendulo ilula ngokwenene: mphulaphule. Ukuba uziphatha ngolu hlobo kungenxa yokuba uzama ukufumana ingqalelo yethu. Kungenzeka ukuba umntu otya ukutya kwakho okanye umntu oselayo akananto kwaye ufuna sizizalise, okanye uzenzakalisile, ikati eshushu, okanye ikati iye yanuka ivumba lekati eshushu kwaye ifuna ukuhamba naye, okanye ... njl njl.
Zininzi izizathu, kwaye nguwe kuphela oza kuba nakho ukwazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kwikati yakho. Into endikuxelela yona sukumhoya, kwaye ungamqumbeli naye. Ukuba udibanisa, yinto ethile, rhoqo. Ukuba unamathandabuzo, undwendwelo kugqirha wezilwanyana unokusombulula (kwaye ngelishwa, kukwenza uzive ukhululeke ngakumbi ngekati yakho).
Ukwazi njani ukuba ikati yam iyandithanda?
Ikati ekhathalelwe kakuhle sisilwanyana esidla ngokuthanda kakhulu, kodwa inyani yeyokuba zikhona ezinoboya ezingacacisi kakhulu. Wazi njani ukuba bayakuthanda? Kulungile oko Kuya kufuneka wazi imiqondiso eliqela:
- Ihlikihla kuwe, nokuba imilenze yakho, iingalo, okanye intloko ukuba unayo phezu kwakho.
- Iyacoca xa ujikeleze, kwaye yonyusa ivolumu xa uyibetha.
- Phakamisa umsila xa ubetha umva wayo (ngakumbi isiqingatha esisezantsi, kufutshane nomsila).
- Ngenisa ngobunono iminwe yakho.
- Uyakukhwetha, ngokungathi ubuyenye ikati.
- Uyakuxovula, kwaye akasenguye injana.
- Lala kunye okanye kufutshane nawe.
- Xa ejonga kuwe, ngamanye amaxesha uqhwanyaza kancinci. Yile ndlela akuxelela ngayo ukuba uyakuthemba.
Inqaku elidibeneyo:Ukwazi njani ukuba ikati yam iyandithanda
Ikati yam iyandibamba, ithetha ntoni?
Olunye uphawu lothando 🙂. Yindlela yakhe yokukuxelela ukuba wonwabile kakhulu ngalo mzuzu. Inokuba uyazi ukuba uza kumnika into ayithandayo kakhulu (itoti), okanye uza kudlala naye, okanye ukuba akakubonanga imini yonke kwaye ukwamkela njalo.
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, lixesha elifanelekileyo lokumthoba, ewe, ngaphandle kokumongamela.
Ukugqiba, ndikushiya nevidiyo yekati ethetha nomntu wakhe: