Namhlanje kulula ukufumana akukho namnye, kodwa iikati ezininzi abahlala esitratweni. Ezi zilwanyana, nangona ziqhele ukuhlala kwimida yempucuko yabantu, ukuba azizange zibe namava amabi nathi, zinokuyamkela inkampani yethu.
Ke ngoko, siza kuchaza indlela yokukhulisa ikati yasendle. Ngale ndlela, kuya kuba lula kakhulu kuwe ukuba ube nolwalamano naye, njengoko ndicinga ukuba, luya kuba lukhetheke kakhulu.
Yintoni ikati yasendle?
Ikati yasendle yikati leyo engazange inxibelelane ngokuthe ngqo nabantu; Oko kukuthi, wazalelwa kwaye wakhulela esitratweni. Ngokubanzi, kulula ukumhlula kulowo wayekhe wanosapho lomntu, kuba kwakamsinya akubona usondela kuye, ubaleka aye kuzimela. Nangona kunjalo, ngomonde omkhulu, ulwimi oluninzi lomzimba kunye nemivuzo emininzi onokumenza akuthembele kuyo.
Ungenza njani kuye?
Ngenyathelo elicothayo, kwaye ungamjonganga ngqo emehlweni. Kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba wonke umntu ophilayo, kubandakanya nabantu, banendawo yethu apho siziva silungile, sikhululekile kwaye sikhuselekile. Xa umntu esingamaziyo esondela kakhulu kuthi, into esiyenzayo kukushiya kude. Yiyo kanye le nto ikati eza kuyenza.
Ke ngoko, kufuneka sisebenzise ulwimi lomzimba. Ukumthi nca kuye, ukusondela kuye kancinci kancinci, nokuma xa engonwabanga (oko kukuthi, ukuba uza kuhamba, okanye ukuba uyasirhwebeshela okanye uyasigquma) zizimbo eziza kumnceda aqonde ukuba asifuni ukumenzakalisa. Kukwacetyiswa kakhulu ukuzisa iitoti zokutya okumanzi ukuzalisa isondli, ukusukela ngoko kuyakufika ixesha apho umnqweno wokutya uya koyisa uloyiko.
Kwenze ngolu hlobo ixesha elide njengoko kuthatha, ukusondela kancinci ngalo lonke ixesha. Kuza ixesha apho ungasondela kangangokuba umbambe ngasemva, njengalowo ungayifuni loo nto. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumangaliswa ekuqaleni, kwaye ungoyikiswa, kodwa kuya kudlula 😉.
Xa ubona ukuba nguye oza kuwe, uya kuba uyifezekisile injongo yakho.
Ngaba ungahlala endlwini?
Ayikhuthazwa. Ikati yasendle iqhele ukuhlala esitalatweni. Kuyinto kwaye ifuna ukuhlala simahla ngaloo ndlela. Kuphela kuxa elulame kakhulu umntu angazama ukumsa ekhaya aye kuhlala nosapho lwabantu, kodwa uya kuhlala enendawo yangaphandle.
Kukho iikati ezingafuni kwazi ngabantu, kwaye kufuneka uzihloniphe. Kodwa kukho abanye, kancinci kancinci, abanokufundiswa ukuba ayingabo bonke abantu ababi, kwaye banokusithemba.