Iikati zoomama zikwimeko yabo yendalo abanonopheli abakhulu, nokuba kuyaqala ukuba neentsana. Bayigcina icocekile, bondleke kakuhle, kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, ilawulwa. Ngaphambi kokuba ahambe ayokuzingela, ubashiya kwikona efihliweyo esebenza njengomhombiso, kude nezilwanyana ezinokubazingela.
Nangona kunjalo, xa ezi zilwanyana ziqala ukuhlala nathi emakhayeni ethu, kwafuneka ziziqhelanise. Ukuba ikati iyakhulelwa, iya kuchitha ixesha layo elininzi ikhangela eyona ndawo ilungileyo inokuzalela kuyo kwaye, xa iyifumene, ayisayi kushiya enye into ngaphandle kokuya kuzihlangula itye. Iziganeko ezingalindelekanga ngamanye amaxesha ziyenzeka, ke kubalulekile ukuba wazi kutheni ikati yam iyala umntana wayo.
Ikati ilungiselelwe ngokwemfuza ukukhathalela abantwana bayo. Yinto oza kuyenza ngethuku lemvelo. Ukususela kumzuzu wokuqala ubona iintsana zakho ufuna ukuzigcina, Ngaphandle kokuba kukho ingxaki.
Ukukhulelwa ngoxolo, ukuhanjiswa ngolonwabo
Ukwazi ukuba kutheni ikati yam iyalahla amantshontsho ayo, kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba bekukhulelwa njani kwaye wayiphatha kanjani. Andithethi nje malunga nokuba ubusempilweni kangakanani, kodwa nokuba kanjani ukuba angazola. Kwaye inyani kukuba xa sisazi ukuba kuza kubakho iikati ekhaya baninzi abantu abangayivumeliyo ikati ukuba yehle.
Kule meko kubaluleke kakhulu ukuvumela ikati ukuba iphumle, kwaye ingoyiki. Kuyacaca ukuba inokuphathwa kwaye icinezelwe, kodwa ngaphandle kokumkhathaza. Kuya kufuneka simvumele ukuba eze kuthi, kwaye siyeke ukumteketisa ngokukhawuleza xa sibona ukuba akasafuni zinto zingaphezulu.
Njengokuba usuku olusikiweyo lusondela, uya kubona ukuba ufuna indawo yokubeleka. Khetha enye oyikhethayo, akufuneki siyitshintsheNgaphandle koko, sinokubangela uxinzelelo olunokukhokelela ekubeni ubalahle abantwana bakho. Into esiza kuyenza kukubonelela ngephepha elinye -ukuba kusehlotyeni- okanye ingubo -ukuba kusebusika- ukuze abantwana bangabandi.
Amantshontsho aqandusele, njani?
Xa abantwana belapha, kufuneka ujonge ukuba basempilweni kangakanani. Ukuba kukho nabaphi na abazelwe bekhubazekile okanye bebuthathaka, okanye ukuba siqhubeka sibabona, kunokwenzeka ukuba ikati ayinakubahoya. Kananjalo, ukuba inkunkuma inkulu kakhulu, unokugqibela ngokufuna uncedo oluncinci ukuze uzikhathalele zonke, ngakumbi ukuba kukho umntu otyebe kakhulu 🙂.
Kwimeko apho ikati yakho imalile umntwana wayo omncinci, kungcono uyakhathalela ukumnika ibhotile. Apha unolwazi ngakumbi ukuba ungayenza njani.
Iikati ezincinci zizalwa zingenakuzikhusela, kwaye zifuna uthando kunye nenkuselo kanina. Kodwa unokukhathalela kuphela ngokufanelekileyo ukuba imeko yosapho izolile.
Sele ndikhankanyile into malunga nokukhulelwa kunye nokuhanjiswa kwenye yeekati zam kwenye iposti yakho.
Ndineekati ezimbini endizicholileyo esitalatweni, enye, nayo yazala, yasweleka kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva kokubeleka. Lowo wayediniwe kakhulu ngexesha lokuhanjiswa, wayene-4, kodwa emva kweyokuqala, njengomnye, kwakunzima ukubanyamekela.
Ngokungafaniyo nomnye, owandivumelayo ukuba ndimncede kwaye kwakufuneka ndibavumele baphume, ndandivula iiplacenta kwicala lobuso bakhe ndibeke yonke into kufutshane neyakhe, ukuze ayikhothe inike nempefumlo yobomi. Emva koko i-placenta yatyiwa ingashiywanga mkhondo.
Sithathe owafa esitalatweni, wayemalunga neenyanga ezintathu ezinesiqingatha ubudala, kodwa wayenoburhalarhume, akazange avume ukuphathwa. Ukubeka i-antiparasitic pipette kuyo yayingumboniso. Kodwa akazange afune ukumbuyisela esitratweni, ebhityile, ebanda, esina kwaye esemncinci njengoko wayenjalo.
Ngexesha lokuhanjiswa akakhange andivumele ukuba ndisondele, warhona kwaye waphosa umlenze wakhe. Ndasokola kuba ndabona abantwana ngaphakathi kwiplacenta bengaphefumli ...
kodwa wathi chu, wabakhupha bonke waphila kwakhona.
Wagula, ndiyakhumbula ukuba ngemini yokubeleka wayesele egabha amagwebu atyheli, wayenotyatyazo, kodwa wayengandivumeli ukuba ndisondele kuye, kwaye kamva emva koko nabantwana bakhe, awayebancancisa iintsuku ezimbalwa.
Ugqirha wezilwanyana wandixelela ukuba ukuba sisilwanyana sasendle esinjalo kunganzima ukumnyanga, ukongeza ekubeni angabinako ukumnika ngokwamayeza.
Ngapha koko, wayesiba buthathaka kwaye xa evumela ukuphululwa ndacinga, ngoku ndiyamsa kugqirha wezilwanyana, ebendikrweca, kodwa besele kuhlwile.
Iintsana zabekwa kwenye ikati, eyabamkela njengabayo ukusuka kumzuzwana wokuqala, ibingumama olungileyo.
Ndamnceda ngokubanika ibhotile, bayanya, kwaye ukuba abanako ngokwaneleyo, basela ibhotile ngokuthanda kwabo (ulungiselele ubisi lweRoyal Canin. Kuya kufuneka wenze umxube ogqibeleleyo ngamanzi amaminerali / ibhotile eshushu ngaphandle kokutsha, okanye abayi kuyisela).
Kwakukho ingxaki enye kuphela, iikati ezisi-9 zeetiti ezisi-8. Inye, ebuthathaka kakhulu, kwaye nazo bezineveki enye zingaphantsi, beziqhele ukungancancisi, kuba xa ezinye bezigqibile kungenxa yokuba bekungekho bisi, kwaye kuba ebemncinci naye watyunyuzwa phantsi kwezinye. Ndinike ibhotile, ndityhalele abanye ecaleni ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ibingonelanga.
Ngenye imini ndamfumana etyunyuziwe phantsi kukamama (kufuneka ujonge kuba akahlukanisi ukuba sisongelo sengubo okanye usana) ebephefumla ngokukhawuleza. Ndizamile ukumvuselela kancinci, ndamnika ibhotile, kodwa akaphendula. Inesiphene kuba incinci kakhulu, amehlo amancinci ebengabonakali. Kwaye wasweleka.
Ngokudibeneyo, kwenzeka into efanayo kum ngehamster, bobabini abamnyama nabo. Loo hamster ayizange ikhule njengabanye, yahlala incinci kakhulu kwaye yoyika abantakwabo ababephindwe kabini nangaphezulu ngobukhulu bayo, ndayifaka ehokweni ndedwa nayo yasweleka. Ukuba woyika, nangayo nayiphi na ingxolo, "uya kufa isiqaqa" kwaye kwimizuzwana nje ebeya kuvuka ahambe kwakhona.
Abantakwabo abathathu be-hamster, nabo abamnyama, bakhula ngokwesiqhelo kwaye bahlala ngaphezulu kweminyaka emi-3, njengoninzi lwabanye.
Ezi zizinto ezithi ngamanye amaxesha zenzeke ngelishwa. Ngalo lonke ixesha kufuneka uzame ukugcina lonke ulutsha, kodwa ayisiyiyo yonke into ehlala iphumelela. Kodwa ubuncinci siya kuyazi ukuba sizamile.