Enye yeendlela zokuziphatha ezitsala umdla wabo babakhathaleleyo yile isenzo sokuphakamisa umsila xa uphulwe ngasemva. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni, uze endaweni elungileyo. Ngeli xesha ndiza kukunika impendulo kumbuzo wakho, kodwa ukuba xa ugqibile ukufunda usenamathandabuzo, nxibelelana nathi.
Kuba ukuze ukuhlala kunye kumnandi, akukho nto unokuyiqonda indlela oziphatha ngayo uboya bakho.
Kutheni iphakamisa umsila xa iphulwe?
Zonke iikati ziyakuthanda ukuphathwa, kodwa ngabo bakhetha ukuba ngubani onamandla kwaye nini. Enye yeemfihlelo ezandothusa kakhulu malunga ne-feline yile: kutheni ikati yam iphakamisa umsila xa ndiyibetha? Kwaye yile, ukongeza, ngokungathi sisenzo sokucinga, kuba yinto ayenzayo nanini na xa umphulula umqolo.
Unokucinga ukuba kukuziphatha okuhambelana nobushushu ngokuveza amadlala, kodwa kuyacaca ukuba iikati ezingathathi hlangothi, nokuba zinethuku lokuzala zivukile, ziyenze. Kunye namantshontsho ekati okoko bezintsana. Ke impendulo ayinakuba yenye ngaphandle koku kulandelayo: yindlela yokubulisa; Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa kukuxelela ukuba uyakuthemba.
Kupholile, akunjalo? Oku kuziphatha yindlela yakhe yokuxelela ukuba ukujonga ulingana., uqhelekile. Ukuba sijonga ikoloni yeekati, siyakuhlala sibona ukuba kukho iikati ezininzi ezisoloko zikunye. Phakathi kwabo, xa bephathaphathana (ngelixa bedlula), banomsila ophakanyisiweyo. Masikhumbule ukuba ukuba unje ngolu hlobo, ukuya phezulu, luphawu lokhuseleko kumqolo, kwaye ukuba kuyabanjwa, ayizukuziva ikhuselekile kuphela, kodwa ikonwabile.
Ungayifuyisela phi ikati?
Ikati nganye yahlukile kwaye, ke, elowo kubo unobuntu bakhe, ukhetho kunye neencasa. Kodwa kuyinyani ukuba kukho ezinye iindawo abaqhele ukuzithanda, kwaye zezi:
Ebusweni
Ngokudibeneyo, kumacala omabini obuso. Ukuba ufuna ukubatatazelisa, ungathandabuzi ukuhambisa isandla sakho (okanye impumlo yakho, nayo ethanda ukuthandwa kakhulu) kuloo ndawo.
Phakathi kweendlebe kunye nomva wentloko
Khawufane ucinge le meko: umzekelo ulele esofeni, kwaye ngesiquphe uboya bakho buqhuma ethangeni lakho, ngokucacileyo ukhangela uthando oluncinci. Ngalo mzuzu, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukumphulula phakathi kweendlebe (eziya kuthi zityhalele ngasemva) nasemva kwentloko yakhe. Uyayithanda, akunjalo? Ewe, ungathandabuzi ukuyenza 🙂.
Ekuqaleni komsila
Kanye xa umva uphela kwaye umsila uqala, leyo yenye yeendawo ezibuthathaka kakhulu kwikati. Kulapho ke kuqheleke kakhulu, ukuba, xa umphulula, aphakamise umsila wakhe abe krwada.
AKUFANELE UKUFUTSHWE ikati?
Zimbalwa iindawo apho kubhetele ukuba ungafikeleli khona, kodwa kubalulekile ukwazi:
Iipaw
Bavame ukungayithandi kakhulu, ukusabela ngendlela engafanelekanga: ukuluma. Ezi zilumayo akufuneki zomelele kakhulu, ngaphandle kokuba usakwinkqubo yokwazi usapho kwaye uyakwazi, kodwa wow. Ukuba le meko inokuthintelwa, konke kuya kuba ngcono.
Boca
Ngokukodwa, kanye phambi kwayo. Unokuyicacisa gwenxa i-caress kwaye ucinge ukuba sisimemo esimangalisayo sokudlala, ke wayenokuluma kunye / okanye akrwele.
Isisu
Xa umthemba kwaye naye ekuwe, unako kwaye ndiyaphinda, unokukuvumela ukuba uphathe isisu sakhekodwa hayi ngaphambili. Nangona kunjalo, yenze kuphela xa ubona ukuba izolile, kungenjalo unokuluma.
Ngenxa yokuba iikati zivuthulula imisila yazo?
Umsila yinxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu yomzimba womzimba, kwaye yenye yezona zinto ziluncedo ekuthumeleni imiyalezo. Ewe kunjalo: ngokuxhomekeke kwisikhundla abakuso, sinokwazi ukuba banovalo, bonwabile okanye bayoyika. Umzekelo:
- Umsila kwindawo emi nkqo, kunye nencam ekwanje okanye oku ukuntywila: wonwabile kwaye uzive ukhuselekile.
- Umsila uqinile, kodwa uyishukumisa ngokurhabaxa macala onke: Uxinekile okanye uziva ungazithembanga.
- Umsila 'oneentsiba', oko kukuthi, ngeenwele ezigobileyo: Unexhala kakhulu kwaye angahlasela nanini na xa eziva esongelwa.
- Umsila phakathi kwemilenze okanye usezantsi kakhulu, emhlabeni: yikati eyoyika kakhulu.
- Ukuba uhlunguzela umsila wakho ngobunonoKungenxa yokuba wonwabile, ngaphandle kokuba uhleli ujonge into, kwimeko apho kunokwenzeka ukuba ujolise kuyo yonke ingqalelo yakho kwinto ebambe umdla wakho.
Kutheni ikati yam ingaphakamisi umsila wayo kwaye ibuhlungu?
Ukuba ikati yakho ngenye imini uyabona ukuba ayiphakamisi umsila, inokuba ikho into eyenzekileyo kuye:
- Ufumene ingozi
- Ufumene inyawo elinamandla
- Into enzima iwele kuye
Ukuthintela ukuba kungabi kubi, kufuneka umse kugqirha wezilwanyana ngokukhawuleza. Apho baya kukuvavanya kwaye, ukuba kukho imfuneko, benze iXray.
Unyango luya kwahluka ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni umsila wakho unjani. Umzekelo, ukuba unesibetho kuphela, uya kuhambisa iziyobisi ezichasayo eziza kunciphisa iintlungu; ukuba yaphukile kwaye inokulungiswa ngebhandeji, kuya kuba njalo; kwaye kuphela ukuba akukho nto inokwenziwa iya kunqunyulwa.
Ndiyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe.