Ukuhlala nekati kuthetha ukuyinika lonke unonophelo olufunekayo ukuze wonwabe kwaye ukwazi ukuphila ubomi obuzolileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha senza impazamo yokucinga ukuba izimele, ukuba "inokulawula yodwa." Kwaye loo nto, kungekudala, iya kuba neziphumo.
Ukuziphatha kwabo kuyatshintsha, kwaye banokucaphuka ngakumbi, ukuba lusizi okanye ukudakumba. Ukubona umhlobo wakho osenyongweni onemilenze emine njengolu ngamava angathandekiyo. Ke, ukuba uyazibuza ukuba kutheni ikati yam ingenzi nto, sukuyeka ukufunda eli nqaku.
Uyadika
Ngoyena nobangela uqhelekileyo. Sixelelwe amaxesha amaninzi ukuba iikati zinesithukuthezi kwaye zizimele kangangokuba abantu abaninzi bathabatha enye kodwa ke abayikhathalelanga intlalo-ntle yabo. Ewe kunjalo, zinokubakho ezizimeleyo ngakumbi kunezinye, iikati ezingayithandiyo inkampani kakhulu okanye ezingayithandiyo i-caresses, kodwa eso ayisosizathu sokuyityeshela.
Los iigwegwe esizithengayo kubo akufuneki zilele phantsi. Thina, njengabakhathaleli babo, kufuneka "sibanike ubomi"; Oko kukuthi, bathathe kwaye dlala nezilwanyana zethu phakathi kwamaxesha ama-2 nama-3 ngemini kangangemizuzu eli-10-15 (okanye, kungcono okwangoku, de ibe sisiswini ngokwakhe esibonisa ukuba sele ediniwe, into aya kuyenza ngokulala kuyo nayiphi na ikona, ediniwe ... kwaye onwabile).
Ayilunganga
Njengathi, kukho ezinye izigulo kunye / okanye iingozi ezisusa umnqweno wokwenza izinto. Oku kuqhelekile, kuba nengqele elula ingenza ikati enobubi kwaye edlalayo ikhethe ukulala ebhedini kunokubaleka ujikeleze indlu.
Ke ngoko, ukuba siyabona ukuba unefiva, uphelelwe ngumdla wokutya, uyadandatheka, uqalile ukugabha okanye, ngamafutshane, unazo naziphi na iimpawu ezisenza sikrokre, Siza kumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana ngokukhawuleza.
Mdala
Ikati eneminyaka eyi-8-10 ubudala sele ithathwa njengendala. Kwaye, ngenxa yokuguga, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ube nezifo ezifana nesifo samathambo okanye isifo samathambo umzekelo. Umdla wakho kumdlalo usenokuba wehlile kakhulu kangangokuba awusaziva ufuna ukonwaba, okanye hayi njengakuqala.
Ukukunceda kwinqanaba lakho lokugqibela, Siza kuqhubeka nokubonelela ngokutya okuphezulu (ukutya okuziinkozo) kunye nesondlo, njengeeApplaws okanye iOrijen, umzekelo. Yintoni egqithisile, kufanele simse kugqirha wezilwanyana kanye ngonyaka kubo ukuba baphonononge kwaye ngokucacileyo umthande kakhulu.
Ndiyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe.