Ikati eziphethe kakuhle sisilwanyana esinikwa ixesha lokufundisa ukuba singaluma abantu. Le feline encinci ikrelekrele kakhulu, kangangokuba akukho nzima kuye ukuba azi ukuba kukho izinto angenakuzenza. Ukufumana uboya bokuyeka ukwenza umonakalo ngamazinyo abukhali, zintathu kuphela izinto eziyimfuneko: umonde, unyamezelo kunye nokuqonda.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba lixesha lokuqala ukuba sihlale kunye, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba sizibuze kutheni ikati yam indiluma nje ukuba akukho nanye into endiyenzileyo. Njengokuba kukho izizathu ezininzi kwaye ingumba obaluleke kakhulu, sizokwandisa okungaphezulu kwesiqhelo ukuze, xa ugqibile ukufunda eli nqaku, uyazi kungekuphela nje ukuba kutheni ikati yakho iziphatha ngolu hlobo, kodwa nento onokuyenza ukuze ingakulumi ngakumbi.
Kutheni ikati iluma?
Amazinyo akho asisigxina ayangena
Amantshontsho ekati, ukusuka kwiinyanga ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-4, aluma yonke into, kwaye xa ndisithi yonke into iyinto yonke, yintoni ekufuneka ilume kwaye yintoni. Ngeli nqanaba i-feline ayisiyiyo nje inomdla wokujonga imeko-bume yayo, kodwa, njengoko amazinyo asisigxina ekhula, iyaziva ingonwabanga. Ukuzikhulula, uyaziluma.
Ngoku kunakuqala Kuya kufuneka silumke kakhulu ukuba singashiyi iintambo okanye nayiphi na into onokuthi uzenzakalise ngayo. Kwaye kuya kuba xa kufuneka sibe nomonde ngakumbi.
Yintoni oyenzayo?
Unomonde omninzi. Ewe, ndiyazi ukuba benditshilo ngoku, kodwa ngenene kubaluleke kakhulu. Cinga ukuba uyakufuna ukukuluma xa ubukele umabonakude, xa ulele, xa elambile,… ngekhe akwenze ngenjongo yokukukhathaza, kodwa ewe, iyakuba yile nto ayenzayo.
Ukuze ingalumi okanye, endaweni yoko, iyenze kancinci nangaphantsi, into yokudlala kufuneka ibonelelwe qho xa efuna ukuluma. Kwimeko apho athe wangena ebhedini okanye esofeni kwaye waluma, uya kuhla (uya kubuyela umva, kodwa ukuba uyaluma, mnciphise kwakhona). Ukuba yikati endala, inokufundiswa ukuba ingaluma ngale ndlela.
Ayifuni i-caresses engaphezulu
Ngaba ikhe yenzeka kuwe into yokuba ubambe ikati yakho kwaye, ngaphandle kokungaphantsi okanye ngaphantsi, ikulumile kwaye / okanye ukukrwempe? Kukho iikati ezithanda ukuncanciswa imini yonke, kodwa kukho ezinye ezingakuthandiyo. Ukuba i-feline iqala ukuhambisa umsila wayo ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye ngokukhawuleza, ucofa emhlabeni, kwaye ukuba ibuye ibeke iindlebe ngasemva, kungenxa yokuba ifuna ukushiywa yodwa.
Yintoni oyenzayo?
Jonga ikati yakho. Thatha ixesha lokuqonda eyakho ulwimi lomzimba. Kancinci kancinci uza kufunda ukuba nini, phi kwaye njani ufuna ukuphathwa. Ukwenza kube lula kuwe ukuba ufunde, sikushiya lo mfanekiso onokuba luncedo kakhulu:
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Zoyike
Ukuba uyoyika kwaye / okanye uxakekile, unokuhlasela umntu, nkqu nomntu okunyamekelayo. Umzekelo, ukuba uthathe inja kwaye i-feline yakho ayikaze inxibelelane nezinja, kunokwenzeka ukuba azifihle. Okanye ukuba kukho umntu omngcungcuthekisayo aze angafumani ndlela yokubaleka, uya kukhetha ukuthatha amanyathelo, oko kukuthi, uya kuluma kunye / okanye azonwaya ukuzikhusela.
Yintoni oyenzayo?
Kule meko kubaluleke kakhulu fumana unobangela woloyiko kwaye uzame ukuthoba ikati. Ke, ukuba uyoyika ilungu elitsha losapho, kuyakufuneka ukuba unxibelelane naye kancinci kancinci kancinci, unelungu elitsha (okoko iyinja okanye ikati, kunjalo) kwigumbi Iintsuku ezimbalwa kunye nokutshintsha iibhedi, ubanike uthando oluninzi kwaye ubaphathe bobabini ngaxeshanye, bedlala bobabini, kwaye bezama ukwenza umoya ekhaya uzole.
Kwimeko apho kukho umntu okuhlukumezayo, kuya kufuneka uzame ukumnqanda loo mntu okanye uboya ukuba angaphinde ayenze. Ukuba ngumntu, kufuneka kuchazwe ukuba ikati sisilwanyana esinobuzaza kakhulu, kwaye kufuneka siphathwe ngentlonipho. Ukuba inoboya, kuya kufuneka uyibukele kakhulu, uchithe ixesha elininzi kangangoko unakho nazo zombini izilwanyana, udlala, uzinika uthando, njl.njl.
Iibhubhu zothando
Kwaye sigqibezela ngee-nibble ezincinci ezingonzakalisi. Ikati ubanika xa eziva esonganyelwa zii-caress ezininzi. Ukuxelela nje ukuba akafuni kuphinda amteketise.
Yintoni oyenzayo?
Yeka ukumphulula. Ndiqinisekile ukuba uza kubuya ixesha elininzi.
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