Kukho iindlela zokuziphatha zekati ezinokusothusa kakhulu kwaye zisikhathaze, kuba kukho ezinye ezingafaniyo nezilwanyana ezisempilweni nezonwabileyo. Kodwa, Kufuneka senze njani xa kusenzeka silume iimpahla zethu?
Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba kutheni ikati yam ihlafuna iimpahla zam kwaye unokwenza ntoni ukunqanda, funda uqhubeke.
Ukukruquka
Xa singayikhathaleli ikati njengoko kufanelekile, oko kukuthi, xa singadlali nayo okanye singayenzi kancinci, okanye xa sicinga ukuba "inokulawula yodwa", inokuba ingaphezulu phezulu nokuziphatha okuthile okonakalisayo njengokuluma okanye ukophula impahla. Ukuyiphepha, Kuya kufuneka umbonise yonke imihla ukuba sikhathala kangakanani, kunye nemidlalo kunye nothando.
Uyagula
Kukho izifo ezinokubangela isimilo esincinci kwikati, yiyo loo nto Kubalulekile ukuba xa sikrokrela ukuba impilo yakhe ibuthathaka kufuneka simse kugqirha wezilwanyana ngokukhawuleza. Ngale ndlela, uya kuba nakho ukwenza uxilongo kwangoko kwaye, ke, ukuchacha kwakho kuya kukhawuleza.
Ukwahlukana kwangaphambili nomama wakho
Ikati kufuneka uhlale nonina kwiinyanga ezimbini zokuqala zobomi -ubuncinci-, kuba kufuneka usele ubisi lwebele. Xa ezahlula kwangexesha, kuyinto eqhelekileyo kuye ukuba nomkhwa wokuluma okanye ukukhotha iimpahla, ngakumbi ukuba zenziwe ngoboya, kuba into azama ukuyenza kukulingisa imvakalelo yokunikwa sisenzo sokuncanca kuye).
Ukungabikho kwezondlo
Ukuba ikati iyanya kwaye ihlafune impahla ngaphandle kwenjongo yokuyitya, kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba iswele isondlo. Ke, Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde iilebheli zezithako apho ukutya esikunika kona: Kwimeko apho uphethe ukutya okuziinkozo, kungcono ukuyitshintshela kwenye engenazo, kuba zibiza kakhulu kodwa zisempilweni ngakumbi.
Ndiyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe 🙂.
Molo, ndinekati entle nenempilo entle eneenyanga ezi-6 ubudala. Igama lakhe nguRob. Ndiqaphele mva nje ukuba ebekhotha iingubo zoboya kwaye andazi ukuba ndingaziphepha njani kwaye hayi nokuba ingayintoni ngenxa yayo! Wayekunye nomama wakhe ngexesha elifanelekileyo lokuncancisa. Ukuba unayo nayiphi na ingcebiso kunye / okanye iingcebiso ndingavuya kakhulu! Ndiyayithanda le bhlog, iyandinceda kakhulu ukunika ukhathalelo oluyimfuneko kusana lwam oluhle. Imibuliso evela eUruguay
Molo Denisse.
Uboya yinto yeekati ezithandayo. Ukumenza ayeke ukukhotha iingubo, unokumqondisa kwakhona; Oko kukuthi, mbonise into yokudlala ayithandayo kwaye adlale ngayo ithutyana.
Kuya kufuneka uyenze amatyeli aliqela kwiintsuku ezininzi, kodwa ekugqibeleni ungamfumana ukuba angakhothi iingubo (okanye hayi rhoqo ubuncinci).
A ubingelele.