Kutheni ikati yam ikhwela ngaphezulu kwemilenze yam?

Kukhe kwenzeka kuwe ukuba ubusebenza kwikhompyuter okanye ubukele umabonwakude kwaye ngequbuliso uqaphele ukuba ikati yakho ikhwele phezu kwakho? Oku kukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwesi furry, esenza ukuba ngokungathandabuzekiyo sithande ngakumbi.

Kodwa, Kutheni ikati yam ikhwela ngaphezulu kwemilenze yam? Ufuna ntoni okanye ufuna ntoni? Masifumanise 🙂.

El ulwimi lomzimba ikati iphucukile kakhulu: ngeendlela zayo ezahlukileyo, iindawo ezahlukileyo ezinokwamkelwa ngumzimba wayo, kwaye nokuhamba kwayo kungasixelela okuninzi malunga nendlela evakalelwa ngayo okanye into eyifunayo ngalamzuzu. Xa esibona ngokomzekelo ukuba sihleli sisebenza nekhompyuter, uya kusondela kuthi acele ingqalelo yethu. Uya kwenza njani? Ewe angayizama kuqala emhlabeni, ephulula imilenze yethu, kodwa ukuba akayifumani le nto ayifunayo, uya kukhwela phezu kwethu.

Ngokwenza njalo, uyazi ukuba ngekhe sikwazi ukumelana nokumbetha. Nangona sinomsebenzi omninzi ekufuneka siwenzile, sihlala silifumana ixesha lokumthoba. Kwaye oku uyakwazi kakuhle, ke siya kubona ukuba uyakuphinda enze ezi zinto mihla le. Kodwa, Kutheni esenza oku? 

Kutheni usonyuka nje uthambise imilenze yakho?

Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni uboya bufike ethangeni lethu:

Khangela isithandwa

Ukuba unothando ngakumbi, uyahlambulula, kwaye uyanyibilika ngochukumiso ngalunye, kuya kuba kungenxa yokuba wayefuna ukuziva ethandwa kwaye ekhatshwa. Kwikati, nokuba kubonakala ngathi akunjalo, ukuba uyathanda ukuba kunye nabantu kwaye ukuba uyazithanda naye, uya kufuna ukubonwa ngabantuOko kukuthi, uyakudinga usapho olunemilenze emibini (Oko kukuthi, imilenze emibini) ukumchukumisa, ukummpompa, ukumenza azive ngathi uyintoni na okanye uyintoni na: ikati ikumkanikazi okanye ukumkanikazi wendlu.

Khangela inkampani

Unokuziphatha ngendlela efanayo ngokungathi ufuna uthando, elele phantsi kwaye asivumele ukuba simncede. Ngokulinganayo, ikati ejonga uthando ihlala ijonga inkampani: zombini ezi zinto zihlala zihamba kunye. Ukuba ikwayifeline echitha ixesha elininzi iyodwa, okanye xa ibihlala ngaphandle komntu oyithandayo okwethutyana, okanye ukuba usapho lusebenza kakhulu -nkanye lusekhaya - kwaye khange liyihoye kakhulu, uzakusondela kuye xa ehlikihla imilenze.

Khangela ukutya

Ukuba uyasivumela ukuba simthembise kodwa kwangoko ehle phantsi kuthi, usenokuba ulambile. Kwaye ukuba yikati esinika into eyithandayo yonke imihla ngaxeshanye (okanye ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ngexesha elinye, njengekati leekati, iya kugudla imilenze okwexeshana ukusicela siyinika. Ngaphandle koko, iya kusinika ubuso obuswiti esingasokuze sikwazi ukungahoyi 😉.

Ngaba uziva ungaphilanga / ucele uncedo

Ngelixa kunqabile ukuba ikati ezive ibuthathaka okanye isezintlungwini zokucela uncedo lomntu ngale ndlela, asinakho kwaye akufuneki siphume nantoni na. Ukuba siyakrokrela ukuba uyagula, siza kumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana ngokukhawuleza.

Ikati yam ikhwela phezu kwam, ngoba?

Zininzi izizathu zokuba ikati inyukele ethangeni, kodwa zonke zinokushwankathelwa kwenye: funa ingqalelo… Kwicala lethu okanye kwelinye icala lezilwanyana endlwini. Kwimeko yokuqala, siza kubona ukuba uyathula ethe cwaka, asivumele simthambise kwaye sonwabele ukucoceka kwakhe.

Okwesibini, isenokungonwabi, yenza iintshukumo ezimbalwa kodwa zikhawuleze ngomsila, amehlo evulekile kwaye ejonge isilwanyana esikufutshane (akuyomfuneko ukuba siphambi kwaso; khumbula ukuba imo yokujoja kunye nokuva ngomnwe wabo uphuculwe ngakumbi kunathi ukuze bazi ukuba uphi omnye uboya nokuba ziimitha ezininzi kude).

Ngaba ikho into ekufuneka siyenzile? Ewe, ukuba ufuna nje ukutotosa siza kukunika 🙂, kodwa ukuba awuphumli okanye uphaphile, eyona nto sinokuyenza kukufumanisa ukuba siphi na esinye isilwanyana kwaye sivavanye imeko:

• Bayadlala ?: iikati zihlala zidlala kunye. Bayasukelana, bazifihle, bade babulaleke ... ngokwaneleyo ukuze behlise umoya.
• Ngaba bayahlukumeza? Ukuxhaphaza yingxaki eqhelekileyo kwiikati eziye zanyanzelwa ukuba zabelane ngobomi bazo kunye nekhaya labo kwiikati ezinamandla nezithembileyo. Ikati eyomeleleyo iyaleqa ababuthathaka, ngaloo ndlela ibenza ababuthathaka baqale ukutya ngokukhawuleza kwaye benoloyiko oluthile, ukuzikhulula kwitreyi, kwaye bazihlukanise, rhoqo befuna indawo yokuhlala.
  Kwezi meko, kungxamisekile ukucela uncedo lwe-ethologist okanye i-feline Therapist ukuze ukuhlala kunye kulunge kuwo wonke umntu.

Kwaye ikati yakho, kutheni ikhwela phezu kwakho? 🙂