Uvuka ekuseni, uye ekhitshini kwaye ubona into ebingengobusuku bangaphambili kwaye bekungafanelekanga ukuba ibikho ngoku. Uya usondela kancinci kwaye ufumanise, ukhathazekile, ukuba umntu onenwele kakhulu ubenexesha elimnandi ngelixa uleleyo, ngokugweba ngobuso babo, akukho mntu unokutsho ukuba abayonwabanga. Ewe, into embi kukuba angakwazi ukugaya, kodwa okwangoku, ukujonga kuphela ngobobuso buncinci anabo, ngelixa uzibuzayo kutheni ikati yam ibela ukutya.
Kutheni esenza oku? Ukuba unesitya esipheleleyo imini yonke… Akufanele ulambile, akunjalo? Masifumanise ukuba kutheni besenza olu hlobo "lobubi."
Ukuhlalutya ukutya kwakho
Iikati zizilwanyana ezingqongqo ezidla inyama, oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka zitye inyama kuphela. Abo banoboya abathatha elona thuba lincinci lokweba ukutya kwabantu, amaxesha amaninzi kungenxa yokuba ndicinga ukuba abanako abonelisi ngokupheleleyo. Ke, ndingacebisa ukuba ndiyitshintshele enye ibe nenyama njengesithako sokuqala (hayi umgubo okanye enye into), kwaye ingakhange ihambise naziphi na iisiriyeli. Ukuba awunakho ukuyifumana, unokufumana enye enerayisi, eyona nto incinci kakhulu, okanye, nokuba ingcono, yinike ukutya kwendalo.
Kodwa ukuba sele umnika ukutya okusemgangathweni kwaye esenza njalo, lixesha lokuba uzibuze: Ngaba siyamngcamlisa ukutya xa esondela etafileni?
Ukutshintsha kwemikhwa
Akululanga ukumenza atshintshe imikhwa yakhe, kodwa akukho nto ingenakwenzeka. Ewe kunjalo, kufuneka ungaguquguquki, kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke ube nomonde ukuze ikati ifunde ukuba ayinakuqhubeka nokuba ukutya. Kule nto, kwelinye icala kufuneka sikuphephe ukushiya ukutya kuhlala kwiitafile nakwiitafile, kwaye kwelinye Siza kuyeka ukungcamla ukutya xa esondela kuthi xa sitya.
Ukuba ngenye imini besingakhathali kwaye sishiye into ekhitshini, kwaye sifumana indoda enoboya eye kuye okanye enenjongo yokwenza njalo, Siza kuthi HAYI ngokuqinileyo (kodwa ngaphandle kokungxola) kwaye siya kumsusa apho.
Kancinci kancinci uza kuqala ukubona utshintsho kwikati yakho 😉.