Ukuba unekati ekhaya, okanye ngaxa lithile ebomini bakho ubukhe wanethuba lokwabelana nenye, ngokuqinisekileyo uzibuzile:yiva ikati ikhuhla kuwe? Ngendlela efanayo, ubunokucinga ukuba isizathu sokuba ikati yakho ikuthambise kungenxa yokuba yindlela yakhe yokubonisa umbuliso okanye uthando kuye, kodwa mandikuxelele ukuba kuninzi okungaphaya kwesi senzo.
Ngokwenyani, into efunwa sisilwanyana sakho esincinci ayikokubulisi okanye ikubonise ukuba ikuthanda kangakanani, kodwa kukwenza ukutshintshwa kwevumba nawe. Kukho iindawo ezithile ezizodwa kunye nevumba elikhethekileyo kwiitempile nakwiimbombo zeboa yezilwanyana zakho. Kukwakho nezinye ezibekwe emazantsi omsila wazo, ke xa ikati yakho iqala ukukurabha, eyona nto iyenzayo kukumakisha umhlaba wayo ngephunga elivela kumadlala ayo.
Ukuba into oyenzayo igobile kwaye uyiphulule, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuqala ukurabha nangakumbi, ezama hlikihla umlomo wakhe esandleni sakho okanye ngokucofa umphezulu wentloko amaxesha ambalwa.Oku kuqhelekile kwaye ivumba linokubonwa sisilwanyana sakho sasekhaya okanye ezinye iikati.
Nje ukuba ugqibile Isiko lokuhlikihla, Uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuhamba ayokucoca uboya bakhe ngokukhotha. Olu hlobo lwentshukumo yokurabha ngokuchasene nawe, yenzelwe kuphela ukuba isilwanyana sizive sikhululeke ngakumbi, kuba sishiya imiqondiso yevumba evumela ukuba yazi ukuba ibikhona, akukho bungozi kwaye iyakulunga. Ke sele uyazi ukuba xa isilwanyana sakho esincinci siza kwicala lakho kwaye siqala ukukurabha, akufuneki usityhalele kude, sivumele nje ukuba sishiye ivumba laso kuwe ukuze kubekho ubudlelwane obungcono phakathi kwenu nobabini.