Nabani na okhe waphila okanye ohlala nekati uyakuyazi indlela ethe phithi ngayo ezi zilwanyana zixabisekileyo zibonakala zicocekile. Bayazilungisa amatyeli aliqela ngemini: emva kokuphumla qho emva kwesidlo ngasinye, emva kwesidlo ngasinye, emva kokuba sibaphethe…
En Noti Gatos Asifuni kukushiya ngaphandle kwempendulo, ngoko ungalibazisi ukufunda ukuze ufumane. kutheni iikati zizilungisa.
Ziqala nini iikati ukuzilungisa?
Ukuzilungisa, nokuba kubonakala ngathi akunjalo kuthi, kukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo. Kubonakala ngokukhawuleza kakhulu, kwiiveki ezintathu ubudala kwaye kugqitywa imihla ngemihla de uboya obuncinci afunde ukugcina ucocekile njengonina, okanye amaqabane akhe amadala xa enokuba nawo. Ngapha koko, xa ikati ihlala neekati ezininzi, ukuba kukho ubuhlobo obuhle phakathi kwazo zonke, kuqhelekile ukubona ikati endala iyilungisa.
Oku kuziphatha kuyindlela yokuba onke amalungu eqela anevumba elifanayo. Ivumba elingafumanekiyo kuthi, kodwa elibaluleke kakhulu kubo, kuba ngale ndlela banokubonwa ukusuka kwiimitha ezininzi kude, kuba amehlo abo awalunganga (bayalibona ilizwe lifiphele, ngokungathi umntu ulahlekelwe ziiglasi zabo) .
Kutheni iikati zizilungisa kangaka?
Nangona ngoku ikati linethuba lokuhlala ngaphakathi kwekhaya, ngaphambili oku bekungenjalo. Ukuhlala kwindalo, kuneentshaba ezininzi. Abahlaseli abathi, ukuba bayalibona ivumba lomzimba wakho, banokubulala kwimizuzwana embalwa. Enye indlela yokuphepha oku kukulungisa.
Ukuzilungisa kubandakanya ukususa ukungcola kangangoko ezinweleni, kwangaxeshanye iyigcina ingabotshelelwanga ngenxa yolwimi lwayo, kumphezulu wayo "ineehaksi" ezincinci apho kubanjwa khona ukungcola, iinwele ezifileyo kunye nezinye izifunxi-gazi zangaphandle.
Ngokwenza njalo, ihlala icocekile, ke kuthintela umntu ekubeni ayifumane. Ewe, xa ehlala kwindlu okanye eflethini, ngaphezulu kokuzikhusela akwenza oko ukucoceka kuphela. Akakuthandi ukuziva ungcolile konke konke, kwaye enyanisweni, ukuba uyagula kakhulu kwaye uyekile ukuzilungisa, kuya kufuneka sizinyamekele ngokwethu, kungenjalo angabeka ubomi bakhe emngciphekweni.
Ke, ukuba uyabona ukuba ikati iyazilungisa ... ncuma nje 🙂. Ewe xa ubona ukuba uzilungisa kakhulu, nokuba uyaziluma, ungathandabuzi ukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana nanjengoko enokuba enezidleleli okanye isifo esifana nokwaliwa.