Amakati ayakuthanda ukudlala, kwaye, enyanisweni, yinto ekufuneka bayenzile yonke imihla ukuze bazigcine kufanelekile. Kodwa sihlala sicinga ukuba kwanele ukuba sibanike ezinye izinto zokudlala kwaye yiyo loo nto, xa inyani ikukuba ukuba asidlali nabo ... abasayi kufuna ukusebenzisa iithoyi zabo.
Ukwenza ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nomhlobo wethu othandekayo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sinikezele ixesha kuye. Ke ngoko, ukuba usandula ukwamkela enye kwaye uyazibuza kude kangakanani ukudlala nekati, ungathandabuzi ukuqhubeka nokufunda.
Umdlalo uyindlela enomdla kakhulu ukomeleza ubudlelwane bomntu-kati, okoko Ngexesha leseshoni nganye singathatha ithuba lokwazisa ukuba sikuthanda kangakanani, nokuba nge-caresses, ukuphatha okanye ukuthetha amagama amnandi ngelixa simjongile ngamehlo amxinwa kwaye siphulula umqolo wakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuyithanda, kuba siyakudlulisa ukhuseleko noxolo, into eya kusivumela ukuba someleze ubudlelwane kunye nekati yethu.
Ukwazi oku, Kuya kufuneka sidlale nayo ixesha elingakanani? Ewe, ndiyaxolisa ukukuxelela ukuba akukho xesha lincinci okanye liphezulu. Ikati nganye yahlukile, kwaye iya kuba nguye "oya kukuxelela" xa efuna ukudlala naxa efuna ukuyeka. Kodwa, ukuba ufuna ukuba naziphi na izimvo, ubuncinci iiseshoni ezintathu ezinemizuzu elishumi nganye iyacetyiswa, nangona uboya busemncinci okanye busebenza kakhulu, uya kufuna ukudlala amaxesha amaninzi kunye / okanye ixesha elide.
Yintoni oza kudlala ngayo? Ewe, kwiivenkile zezilwanyana siza kufumana iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ze iigwegwe, ezinje ngeentambo okanye iibhola, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ekhaya siya kuba nethambo yezihlangu esingasayisebenzisiyo, iibhokisi ikhadibhodi enkulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba usana lungene, okanye ifoyile yealuminium ukwenza iibhola ezilingana nebhola yegalufa.
Kuphela ngezi zinto zokudlala zenziwe ekhaya, uya kuba nexesha elimnandi. Kwaye nathi senza njalo.