Ukuze ubudlelwane bomntu obufanayo bulunge ngokulinganayo kuzo zombini, kufuneka sihloniphane. Oku kuthetha ukuba, ngendlela efanayo nekati esishiya ngayo indawo yethu, kufuneka simenzele okufanayo.
Umsebenzi wethu, njengomkhathaleli wakhe, kunjalo ukumnika ukutya namanzi, kodwa kukwabaluleke kakhulu ukuba senze konke okusemandleni ukumenza onwabe. Ke, Kuyimfuneko ukuba wazi ukuba kukho izinto ezininzi ezingenakwenziwa kwikati, njengale ndiza kukuxelela yona ngoku.
Myeke ixesha elide
Usenokuba ukhe weva kusithiwa ikati sisilwanyana esizimeleyo kwaye sinokuphila iveki kuphela, sifuna ukutya namanzi kuphela. Kulungile. Ubuxoki obu. Ngokwasemzimbeni akukho nto izakwenzeka kuye, kodwa ngokweemvakalelo ukuba uboya abukulungelanga ukuchitha ixesha elide ngaphandle kosapho, kwinto elula yokuba uhlala ehlala naye kwaye ufuna ukuba naye.
Ukumphatha gadalala (ukumngxolisa kunye / okanye ukumbetha)
Nangona icacile, nangoku kukho abantu abacinga ukuba ngokukhwaza ikati, izakuyeka ukwenza into engafanelekanga ukuyenza. Okanye ukuba ungagalela umlambo wamanzi ukuze "aqonde" ... Akukho nto inokuthi igqithe kwinyani. Ekuphela kwento umntu oboya aya kuyiqonda kukuba umntu wakhe, oyena mntu amthanda kakhulu emhlabeni, uyamenza azive embi.
Tsala umsila wakhe
Abazali abaninzi bayabavumela abantwana babo ukuba batsale umsila wekati, kwaye bayothuka xa ikati "ihlasela" abancinci. Oku kuziphatha kunokubonakaliswa sisilwanyana kuyinto eqhelekileyo: uyazikhusela. Ukuba babesibamba ngengalo kwaye bayikhama ngamandla okanye bayolula, nathi sasiza kuzikhusela.
Mnike ukutya okungafanelekanga ngokwendalo
Oku, nangona ikwayi "drawer", ndicinga ukuba kufanelekile ukuyikhumbula. Ikati sisilwanyana esidla inyama, oko kukuthi, kunjalo kufuneka utye inyama kuphela. Ukuba akukho mntu unokucinga ngokunika ingonyama isaladi, masinganiki umhlobo wethu ukutya ukutya okungafuneki ngumzimba wakhe kwaye, enyanisweni, kunokubangela i-aleji, ezinje ngeesiriyeli.
Ungamvumeli ukuba abe yikati
Ikati ineenzipho ezinqabileyo, amazinyo kunye nomzimba wenzelwe ukuzingela ebusuku. Ukususela esemncinci kakhulu, uchitha ixesha elininzi egqibezela ubuchule bakhe bokuzingela ngokudlala. Nangona kunjalo, Abantu ngamanye amaxesha benza izinto esingafanelekanga ukuzenza: unqumle iinzipho zabo ukuze zingakrwibi, ukuzinxibisa, okanye ukungaboneleli ngokukrwela phezulu apho banokunyuka khona kwaye balawule umhlaba wabo.
Xa sithatha isigqibo sokuzisa isilwanyana ekhaya, akufuneki ukuba sisifake nje kuba sicinga ukuba sihle kwaye kunjalo. Oboya bunemfuno kunye nohlobo ekufuneka luhlonitshwe.