Ukuba nekati ngamava amnandi, kokubini ebantwaneni nakubantu abadala, kwaye nakubadala bethu. Izidingo zezi zilwanyana zingaphantsi kunezo zezinja kwezinye iinkalo, kuba zinokuhlala kuphela ngaphakathi endlwini kwaye izinja, kwelinye icala, kufuneka ziye kubethwa ngumoya yonke imihla.
Ukongeza, ukuba nomntu omkhathaleleyo, umntu okunika uthando ngokutshintshela uphahla, amanzi kunye nokutya, yinto ekhuthaza ukuba uqhubeke, nokuba umdala. Kodwa, nangona inokubonakala ngenye indlela, ezi ayizizo zizathu zokuba kucetyiswa kakhulu ukuba umntu osisilwanyana agcine inkampani yabantu abadala. Emva koko siza kukuxelela zithini izibonelelo zeekati kubantu abadala.
Benze bazive bethandwa
Abantu abadala abaninzi bahlala bodwa okanye kwiindawo zokuhlala. Imvakalelo yokuba lilolo abanokuba nayo inamandla kakhulu, kangangokuba ngamanye amaxesha abafuni ukuvuka ekuseni.
Iikati zizilwanyana ezinika uthando oluninzi kunye nenkampani, eya kuthi incede aba bantu bazive bonwabile kwaye baphinde bafumane ulonwabo.
Bakhuthaze ukuba bahambe
Ukukhathalela ikati kufuna ukuhamba, kwaye xa sihamba senza umthambo oluncedo kakhulu kwimpilo yethu. Kwimeko apho umntu enomda othile wokuhamba, ungacela umntu akuncede ukhathalele ikati, okanye ukhethe ukuthenga iitreyi zenkunkuma ezizicocelayo emva kokusetyenziswa nganye yikati.
Ngokubhekisele kwimidlalo, akuyomfuneko ukumthengela iithoyi ezininzi; eneneni, intonga enomtya iya kwanela ukugcina ikati isonwabisa, okanye ibhokisi yekhadibhodi elula enemingxunya enokuthi ingene kwaye iphume kuyo ngokulula.
Bahlala nabo ngalo lonke ixesha
Abantu abadala, ukuhlala ekhaya iiyure ezininzi, banokuziva kakubi. Ukuthintela oku, kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba ufumane ikati, kuba uya kuhlala nabo yonke imihla. Uya kuba, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, oyena mhlobo usenyongweni onokuba naye.
Ngaba uyazazi ezinye izibonelelo iikati ezinazo kubantu abadala 🙂?
Ndinamantshontsho amabini kwaye xa elahlekile andifuni amanye. Ibiyi unfair into yokuba ikati indikhaphe ebudaleni ihlale ingenamsebenzi ishiywe ndingekho. Ndicinga ukuba kukuzingca ukucinga ngolo hlobo. Ndiyazazi ngeziganeko ezininzi zezilwanyana ezikhuliswe zisengabantwana ukuba xa umninizo efile zilahlwe esitratweni. Yintoni ebuhlungu?