Ikati, ukusukela kwiminyaka yeenyanga ezi-4-6, inokukhulelwa ukuya kuthi ga kabini ngonyaka. Emva kweeveki ezimbalwa, inkunkuma yamantshontsho iyazalwa inokuba nkulu kakhulu, ukuya kuthi ga kwi-13 ezinoboya. Ezi ziyathandeka, zintle kakhulu kwaye zimnandi, kangangokuba akunakuphepheka ukuziva uzithanda kakhulu.
Kodwa, Ngaba uyazi ukuba lithini ixesha lokumitha iikati? Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi malunga nokukhulelwa kwezi zilwanyana, ungathandabuzi ukuqhubeka nokufunda.
Xa unayo ikati, ngamanye amaxesha ungacinga ngokuvumela uhlobo lwayo, olunokuba sisigqibo esifanelekileyo ukuba nje ezo katsi zinekhaya elikhuselekileyo phambi kokuba zizalwe.. Ngoba? Kuba akukho lula ukuzibeka, kuba ayinguye wonke umntu othanda iikati. Ukongeza, ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle kubalulekile ukuba ukhethe kakuhle iintsapho, uzihambise kwinkqubo yokhetho ukuqinisekisa ukuba intshontsho lekati liya kuphelela ezandleni ezilungileyo.
Nje ukuba kwenziwe oku, ewe, sinokufumana iqabane lethu kwikati. Ukuba luhlobo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba kufundwe iimpawu zohlobo, umgangatho, imbali yayo, kunye nezifo eziqhelekileyo ezinokuba nazo. Lonke olu lwazi lunokunikwa ngumfuyi.
Ukwazi konke oku, ixesha lokumitha kweekati lihlala phakathi kweentsuku ezingama-62 ukuya kuma-67. Ngamanye amaxesha inokuhlala ukuya kwiintsuku ezingama-70, kodwa ingaze ibe ngaphezulu kwelo nani. Ngazo zonke iiveki, ikati iyakufumana uthotho lotshintsho oluyilungiselela ukuba ngumama, oku kulandelayo:
- Ukudumba kwamabele, eziya kujika zipinki ngakumbi ngombala.
- Utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha: Unokuba nothando ngakumbi okanye ube lilolo ngakumbi.
- Ukwanda kwesidlo ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa, kunye nelahleko yokukhulelwa njengoko umhla wokugqibela usondela.
- Ukuqhaqha, ngakumbi phakathi kweveki yesine neyesihlanu.
- Fumana indawo ekhuselekileyo nekhuselekileyo yokubeleka.
Ubusazi ukuba ikati ithathe ixesha elingakanani?