Ikati, njengayo yonke eminye imingxunya, yeyomnye ophawula indawo yayo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ngezikhonkwane zayo, ukuziphulula kwifenitshala, okanye ukumakisha ngomchamo. Ezinye zezi ndlela zokuziphatha azimnandi, ke Kuya kufuneka sifumane isisombululo esikholisa thina sobabini: zinoboya nabantu.
Asinakho ukutshintsha indlela abaziphethe ngayo, kodwa sinokwenza izinto ezininzi ukwenza ukuhlala kunye wonwabile kuwo wonke umntu, kwaye le yinto ekufuneka siyikhumbule xa sizibuza ukuba singamisa njani ikati yam ekuphawuleni indawo. Sazise ngamanyathelo esinokuwathatha.
Hash phambi kobushushu bokuqala
Nokuba yindoda okanye ibhinqa, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyithatha ukuthenaOko kukuthi, uku susa amadlala akho okuzala. Emva kolu ngenelelo abayi kuba nayo inzondelelo Kananjalo, ngekhe kubekho mfuneko yokumakisha umhlaba. Ukongeza, nayiphi na into enokwenzeka yokuba banenzala iyasuswa; Kwaye ukuba ayonelanga, ukuba baya phesheya ngekhe babe kude nekhaya.
Qiniseka ukuba uhlala onwabile kwaye ezolile
Un Ikati egxininisiweyo ithambekele ekuphawuleni indawo engaphezulu komntu okhululekileyo, ngakumbi xa usapho lukhula. Ukuthintela oku, u-furry kufuneka azi ukuba angaqhubeka nokusithemba, yiyo loo nto eyiyo Kukulungele ukuba ityala elifanayo liqhubeke kwaye linikwe uthando olufanayo njengangaphambiliNgaphandle koko uza kuziva ungalunganga.
Ukubonelela ngesitshisi (okanye ezininzi)
Ukuze ingakhangeli ifanitshala kwaye inyuke, Kuyimfuneko ukubonelela ngeposi yokukrwela (okanye ezininzi) ekufuneka ibekwe kumagumbi apho ikati ichitha ixesha elininzi, njengegumbi lokuhlala umzekelo. Ngokubanzi, uya kufunda ukuba ayisebenzise njani yedwa, kodwa ukuba ukufumanisa kunzima, ungamfundisa ngokulandela iingcebiso esikunika zona Oku kubhaliwe.
Okwangoku yifunde, unokutshiza ifanitshala nge Kude kude, ezakwenza ukuba utshintshe ingqondo yakho ngalo lonke ixesha ufuna ukuzikrwempa.
Ngaba ezi ngcebiso ziluncedo kuwe? Ukuba unabanye, zive ukhululekile ukubatsho 🙂.