Ikati, nokuba siyithanda kancinci kangakanani, izakuphawula indawo yayo ngandlela thile. Ezinye zezi ndlela zinokuphela ziyitshabalalisa ifanitshala, ke kufuneka siyiphephe. Into, enyanisweni, Akunzima njengoko kubonakala. Kwaye hayi, akuyomfuneko ukubhenela kuyo nayiphi na ingcali ukuze isinike imveliso egcina umhlobo wethu ezolile.
Kufuneka siyiqonde nje ukuba kutheni isenza loo nto, kwaye siyazi ukuba kufuneka siyinike ntoni ukuze iphawule loo nto hayi ifanitshala yethu. Kuko konke oku, siza kuchaza indlela yokwenza ikati ingaphawuli. Uya kubona ukuba ngexesha kunye nomonde uya kuba nakho ukubuyisela imvisiswano nekhaya lakho.
Kutheni ikati iphawula?
Ikati sisilwanyana esithanda indawo. Kwimvelo, kwaye nasezitratweni, Uchitha ixesha elininzi ekrwela izikhonkwane zemithi kwaye ephawula ngomchamo amanqaku awujonga njengobuchule ukuze abe phantsi kolawulo.. Kwaye, kwihlabathi apho kukho abantu abaninzi ngakumbi, kufuneka ulawule yonke indawo apho uzingela khona, uphumle, kwaye ekugqibeleni, uchithe iintsuku zakho.
Xa esekhaya, xa esiya kuhlala nabantu, amandla okuphawula awaphulukani nawo, kunokuba kwenzeke into echaseneyo, oko kukuthi, iya isiba namandla ngakumbi. Oku kuhlala kwenzeka xa sizisa isilwanyana esitsha, okanye xa kuzalwa usana. Kwezi meko, ukuba i-feline khange ihlalisane kakuhle ukusukela injana, Unokuziva ungonwabanga kangangokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uphawule ifanitshala, iikona, ngamafutshane, yonke into oyithatha njengeyakho ...
Ewe Ewe. Kwakhona kuthi. Ndiyakuxelela ukuba enye yeekati zam, uKeisha, owazalwa ngo-2009, ukufika kukaSasha, owazalwa ngo-Agasti ka-2016, ngalo lonke ixesha ndisiva ivumba lentombazana encinci ezandleni zam, into awayeyenza hlikihla ubuso bakhe kubo ngenjongo eyodwa yokugubungela elo vumba kwaye "undivumele" yakhe. Kancinci wayengayithandi into yokuba nomhlobo omtsha ongafuni kwanto enuka njengoSasha. Ngethamsanqa, ekuhambeni kwexesha wazola kwaye khange kuthathe xesha lide ukudlala naye, kuphela iinyanga ezi-2.
Kulungile, yinyani. Iinyanga ezimbini lixesha elide, kodwa intombazana encinci yafika kwiintsuku ezindala, ke kwathatha inyanga ngaphambi kokuba ihambe kakuhle kwaye idlale, ke iiveki ezisibhozo zazingelide kangako. 🙂
Iphawula njani ikati?
Kodwa ikaka njani? Isilwanyana sineendlela ezininzi zokumakisha, ezi zilandelayo:
- Ngezinzipho zakho, beshiya amanqaku abo kwiisofa, izitulo, njl.
- Ukuhlikihla ubuso bakhe, Evula umlomo wakhe kancinci, kuyo yonke into ayijonga njengeyakhe.
- Ukupasa amathontsi ambalwa omchamo ezindongeni, kwiiposti, kwizinti zemithi, njl. Njalo kwiindawo eziphakamileyo okanye kwiindonga.
Yenza nje ngezi ndlela zintathu. Ukuba ubona ukuba ikati ichamile emhlabeni, kungenzeka ukuba itreyi yenkunkuma ayicocekanga ngokwaneleyo okanye inesifo ekufuneka sinyangwe ngugqirha wezilwanyana.
Ungakuphepha njani ukucofa?
Ngoku masidlulele kwinto ebalulekileyo: Yintoni esinokuyenza ukuphepha ukujonga into engalunganga? Ewe, zininzi izinto. Nangona into yokuqala kukuba nomonde omninzi. Kufuneka sihlale sikhumbula ukuba ikati ayenzi izinto ezenzayo ukusibeka ityala kuyo nantoni na, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ithuku layo "liyinyanzela" ukuba yenze njalo. Kukwijini yabo, kwaye asinakwenza nto ngokuchasene noko. Ke into esinokuyenza iya kuba yile ilandelayo:
Kunqande ukumakisha umchamo
Ukukhangela ikati
Ikati engafakwanga-engachithwanga- iphawula amanqaku amancinci kunaleyo ipheleleyo, kuba ingenabushushu, ayizukubakho ukumakisha umhlaba wayo, okanye ixelele abanye ukuba ifuna iqabane. Kwakhona, ndingakuqinisekisa oko, Ukuba ikati leyo yokuzala ayizange ivuswe, ayizukufumana manqaku.
Ukucoca iindawo ezichaphazelekayo ngeemveliso ezisusa umchamo
Ikati iyalithanda ivumba elicocekileyo elishiywe ziimveliso esiqhele ukuzisebenzisa ukucoca indlu, ke ukuba sele iqalile ukumakisha ngomchamo, iya kujonga ezi ndawo kanye. Ukuthintela ukuba ingenzeki kwakhona, Iimveliso ezithile kufuneka zisetyenziselwe ukuphelisa intsalela yomchamo kwi-feline, oya kuyifumana iyathengiswa kwiivenkile zezilwanyana.
Ukugcina itreyi yenkunkuma icocekile
Kubalulekile ukuqokelela ilindle nomchamo ubuncinci kanye ngemini, kwaye ucoca ibhokisi yenkunkuma kube kanye ngeveki. Ukongeza, ukuba sinekati engaphezulu kwesinye, nganye nganye kufuneka ibe neyayo, kuba ihlala ingathandi ukwabelana ngayo.
Siza kumbeka kwigumbi elithe cwaka kangangoko kunokwenzeka, apho usapho lunqabile ukuya khona, kude nomondli kunye nebhedi yakhe.
Dibana nogqirha wezilwanyana
Ukuba ikati iphawula ngomchamo, Akubuhlungu ukuya kugqirha wezilwanyanaEwe, unokuba nosulelo.
Kuphephe ukumakisha ngezikhonkwane zakho
Mthengele isinciphisi (okanye ezininzi)
Kuba asinakuthintela iinzipho zakho ekuloleni amatyeli aliqela ngosuku, Singakuthengela into enye okanye ezingaphezulu eziza kuthi zibekwe kwiindawo apho usapho lwenza khona ubomi obungakumbi, njengegumbi lokuhlala. Kukwacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba ubenayo apho ulala khona, kuba emva kokulala enye yezinto zokuqala ezenziwa ziikati kukukhathalela uzipho lwazo.
Kwimeko apho ungathandi ukukrwela okanye ukhetha ukuthenga into enexabiso eliphantsi, Unokukhetha ukuthenga iiragi ezirhawuzelayo, okanye ubeke iishelfu ezininzi eziphakamileyo ezahlukileyo ezisongelwe ngentambo yeraffia.
Sebenzisa iFeliway ukunqanda ukukrwela ifanitshala
I-Feliway yimveliso esebenzayo, ayisiyiyo kuphela ukuba uzolile xa ungaphakathi kwesiphatho okanye xa kukho ilungu elitsha losapho, kodwa iluncedo kakhulu xa ufuna ukuthintela ikati ekukrwemeni oko inganyanzelekanga ukuba ikwenze. ukukrwela. Yenziwe kancinci, kunye ne-voila.
Ngapha koko, kwaye ukuze afunde ngcono ukuba angakrwiphi kuxhomekeke kwinto, ngalo lonke ixesha umbona uzama ukulola iinzipho zakhe, mxelele uQINISEKILE (kodwa ngaphandle kokukhwaza), okanye wenze ingxolo enkulu xa uzifihlile (Kubalulekile ukuba angakuboni, kungenjalo akuyi kuba nzima kuye ukudibanisa ingxolo nawe, kwaye angaphela ephulukana nokuzithemba kwakho).
Siyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso ziluncedo ekuthinteleni ikati yakho ekumakisheni.