Kubonakala ngathi izolo xa intshontsho lethu eliyintanda lifikile ekhaya. Kodwa hayi, iinyanga ezintandathu zidlulile kwaye uqala ukubonisa isimilo esahlukileyo. Kancinci kancinci iyayeka ukuba injana. Nangona sibuhlungu kakhulu xa kufuneka "sithi ndlela ntle" kwelona nqanaba lethenda lethu, kwaye enyanisweni sonke siyazi ukuba asisoze sayenza kwaye sizakuqhubeka nokubabona njengeentsana (okanye ndiphosisile? Ikati kufuneka igqithe kwelona nqanaba linzima ebomini bakhe ukuba yiKati yeNkosi.
Ewe ndithetha nge ukufikisa, ezinokuqala kwinyanga ezintandathu, kodwa kwiikati ezinkulu ezinje ngeMaine Coons, ingaqala kamva. Iyakuphela malunga nonyaka ubudala, kwaye okwangoku ekufuneka sikwenzile kukuba nomonde kakhulu, kuba ngeli nqanaba apho siza kubona ukuba, ngokoqobo: iyayenza le nto iyifunayo kwaye ifuna nini.
Amantshontsho ekati kule minyaka azive enomnqweno omkhulu wokufuna ukuphonononga umhlaba wawo. Yiyo loo nto kucetyiswa ukuba uqhelane nayo hamba ngeentambo zokubopha kuba uyinjana. Ukuba awukwazi ukuthatha uhambo, kuyacetyiswa kakhulu lungisa indlu ikati; Oko kukuthi: ukubeka abakrweki kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zendlu, iirampu kunye nezinto zokudlala.
Umntu okwishumi elivisayo idinga ukukhuthazwa kwengqondo yonke imihla, njengoko ikruqula kwangoko. Ngethamsanqa, kukho isisombululo soku: ngeekomityi zeyogathi ezicocekileyo, sinokukufundisa ukufumana ukutya. Siza kuthatha iziqwenga ezili-10 (zisikwe kwiibhloko ezincinci) ze, umzekelo, York ham, sizogqume ngeekomityi zeyogathi. Kuqala siza kuzigquma zonke, kodwa njengoko ikati ifunda ukuba siya kusebenzisa iziqwenga ezincinci nezincinci.
Xa umhlobo wethu esiba nemvukelo, eyona ilungileyo hlala wehlile. Kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, ukuba unezilwanyana ezininzi ekhaya, akufuneki uyeke "ukukhusela" indawo umntu ngamnye anayo. Kuqhelekile ukuba ikati yokufikisa ifune ukuthatha indawo (ibhedi, isitulo, ... nantoni na) yekati endala, kwaye le yokugqibela ichitha imini yonke imxelela ngolwimi lwayo lwekati "cwaka", "sukuyenza ", njl.
Nangona ikati yabantu abadala isisalathiso sencinci, akufuneki sishiye imfundo yomntwana ofikisayo "ezandleni zabo." Sifanele ukuba simfundise ukuba kukho amaxesha okudlala kwaye kukho namaxesha okuzola. Ngomonde nothando iya kufezekiswa, ngokwenene.
Ikati yakho yokufikisa kunye nokuziphatha kwakhe
Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde indlela eziphatha ngayo ikati yakho, kutheni iziphatha ngoluhlobo kwaye unokwenza ntoni ngayo ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle.
Ukuziphatha okutsha
Ingelosi yakho encinci izakuzama itoni yokuziphatha okutsha, kwaye ngekhe ungazithandi zonke. Iikati zolutsha zinokuzithemba ngakumbi kwaye zifuna: zama ukuphuma ngokukhawuleza, ukuvuka nge-4 kusasa, okanye ukunyuka etafileni ukuze wabelane nawe isidlo sangokuhlwa. Okanye banokulumka ngakumbi okanye banganyamezelani: xhathisa ukusikwa kwezikhonkwane okanye ubaleke kumphathi. Konke oku kunxulumene nokukhula kwengqondo yakho kwaye uqale ukubuza ukuba yintoni na ekhuselekileyo, yintoni esebenzayo nengasebenziyo.
Umntwana wekati akasekho
Kuqhelekile ukuba ikati yeshumi elivisayo iziphathe kakubi kunaleyo yayiyikati. Batyhala imida kwaye bazama iindlela ezintsha zokunxibelelana nehlabathi. Yintoni ababeyifundile kwaye oko bakunyamezelayo njengamantshontsho ekati kubhabha ngefestile (okwangoku).
Abahlobo baba ziintshaba
Impixano phakathi kweekati ezihlala zihlala zanda njengoko ikati ifikelela kwinqanaba lokufikisa. Ikati yolutsha izama ukuqonda ukuba bangena phi endlwini njengabantu abadala, kodwa isenokungathathi izigqibo ezilungileyo apha endleleni. Oku kungakhokelela kungquzulwano olutsha ngezixhobo (ezinje ngamabala akhethekileyo okuphumla), ukudlala okungafanelekanga, okanye ukoyikisa okuthe ngqo. Kulungile ukugcina engqondweni ukuba nayiphi na ikati inokuba ngumququzeleli, hayi umntwana ofikisayo.
Amandla, amandla kunye namandla angaphezulu
Ikati yakho yokufikisa igcwele amandla angazi ukuba enze ntoni kwaye ufuna ukufumana indawo yakhe emhlabeni, ngokufanelekileyo ephezulu, ukuvavanya umda kunye nawe kunye nayiphi na enye ikati endlwini. Oko kunokuthetha ukukrwela ifanitshala ukushiya amanqaku evumba achonga into njengeyakho, ifenitshala yokumakisha umchamo okanye ezinye izinto ngesizathu esinye, kwaye ulwe nezinye iikati.
Okona kuncinci, baya kubonisa amandla abo ngokomzimba ngokutsiba kweyona ndawo iphakamileyo kwigumbi kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ngokungqongqo kunkqonkqoza ezinye izinto zokuhombisa. Ikati yakho yokufikisa ikwinqanaba elibalulekileyo ebomini bayo kwaye Kubalulekile ukuba ubancede babone indlela yokuziphatha efanelekileyo kwezi zingafanelekanga, njengoko sele sichazile ngasentla, yinto ekufuneka uyenzile ngomonde nothando.
Tjela amandla akho ngokufanelekileyo
Ukuze wena kunye nekati lakho uphile kwishumi elivisayo, kubalulekile ukuhambisa amandla abo kwiithoyi zekati, uqeqesho lokukhohlisa, kunye namaxesha okudlala emihla ngemihla. Ikati yakho iya kudinga ukuchitha ixesha nawe, funda kuwe kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, Nokuba uziphethe kakubi, uya kufuna uthando lwakho rhoqo.
Ukuba uzama ukusebenzisa amalungu omzimba wakho njengamathoyizi, balumkise ngejethi yamanzi okanye yomoya, okanye ubethele umlozi uhambe, njengabantakwabo abathandanayo banokuthi oku akulunganga. Qinisekisa ukuba baneethoyi ezininzi ezisebenzayo eziza kubandakanyeka kwingqondo yabo kwaye zibanike ithuba lokuzingela, ukubamba, kunye nokuleqa. Ikati ende ekrwitshiweyo iya kubanika indawo yokukhwela kunye nokukrwela.
Ukukhohlisa kunye noqeqesho lomdlalo kufundisa ukuzithiba kwaye kunokukunceda uqondise ezinye zeendlela zokuziphatha ongazithandiyo. Uqeqesho alwenzeli izinja kuphela. Iikati ezininzi ziyakonwabela ukuqeqeshwa kwengqondo kumaqhinga okufunda, kwaye ezinye iikati ziyadlala zilande!
Kuya kufuneka ube nomonde kwaye ugcine uburharha obuhle. Nako oku kuyakudlula, kwaye ngenye imini uyakuvuka uzifumane uhleli nekati yabantu abadala abazolile, abaziphethe kakuhle. Kodwa sukumthethisa, kwaye ungaze umbethe kuba akaziphathi kakuhle. Xa kufuneka ulungise nayiphi na indlela yokuziphatha, soloko uyenza ngentlonipho nangothando, ikati yakho kufuneka ifunde kuwe, ungoyiki.
Lawula isimilo esibi
Ngeentsuku ezithile kunokubonakala ngathi ngumzabalazo, kodwa ikati yakho ayenzi gwenxa yonke! Kuya kufuneka ujonge nayiphi na indlela yokuziphatha oyithandayo kwaye uyivuze. Ikati yakho ifunda ukuba yintoni esebenzayo nengasebenziyo, qiniseka ukuba bafunda izifundo ozifunayo ngokuqinisa into ofuna bayenze. Mmphathe xa efuna ukuphathwa okanye umnike ukuphatha okusasazekileyo kumthi wekati ukuze kufunyanwe. Ukuba ikhawuntari ayinakutya kodwa umthi wekati ngamanye amaxesha uyanyanga, ikati yakho iya kuthatha isigqibo ngokukhawuleza apho ifuna ukuxhoma khona.
Ungalibali malunga nokutshiza okanye ukungathathi hlangothi
Ixesha lokufikisa ikwalixesha apho ikati yakho ifikelela ekuvuthweni ngokwesondo. Kunzima ukucinga, kodwa ikati lakho elincinci linokulungela ukuba neekati ezizezalo okanye banegalelo kwinkqubo yokuzala xa benenyanga ezintlanu okanye ezi-5 kuphela ubudala.
Ukuba intshontsho lakho lekati ngesiquphe liyakhala lize liqengqeleke ngomdlandla, lingene nje kubushushu. Le ntlungu ibuhlungu sisigaba esinye, esihlala ixesha elingangeveki, Ngeli xesha uzakufuna ukumvalela ngokukhuselekileyo ngokungathi ubese-Alcatraz ukuze kungabikho kati eyindoda enokumamela umnxeba wakhe.
Kanye emva koko, ungamenza ukuba abulale inzalo, ukuze kungabikho namnye kuni onamava kwakhona. Ukuphelisa ukubakho kwekati yakho yokungena inzondelelo kunye nokunciphisa isimilo esingafunekiyo, njengokumakisha umchamo (onokwenziwa ngamadoda nabasetyhini), yenza ikati yakho inzalo kamsinya nje ugqirha wezilwanyana uyayincoma, Ndingacebisa ukuba ikati yakho xa inenyanga ezi-4 ubudala.
Ingabonakala kwangoko, kodwa luluqhaqho olulula kule minyaka yobudala emadodeni. Amantshontsho ekati alulama ngokukhawuleza, ngaphezulu kweekati ezindala ezifumana iinkqubo zokutshiza / ukungabinanto. Ikati yakho yabasetyhini ayinakuphinda ifumane ukukhathazeka kobushushu obungafunekiyo, kwaye Ikati lakho elincinci eliyindoda liya kuncipha ekubonakaliseni isimilo sokuziphatha kweekati kwindawo eyoyisayo.
Into ebalulekileyo ngaphezu kwako konke kukuba uyayonwabela le nqanaba lihle, apho ikati yakho ifunda khona, kodwa ikomeleza ubudlelwane kunye nawe.