Ngamanye amaxesha sinokufumana ikati ekubonakala ukuba khange ibe namava amnandi kwaye ayizoli, iyothusa okanye ibe ndlongondlongo. Kufuneka sisebenze njani kwezi meko ukunqanda ukuba singakhukuliseki kunye / okanye ukusiluma?
Ngama-felines kufuneka ube nomonde kakhulu kwaye uhlala ubanika indawo yabo ukuze bazive bekhululekile ukuhamba ukuba baziva bengakhululekanga. Kubalulekile kubo nakusapho, kungenjalo unokuhlaselwa sisilwanyana. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha akukho khetho ngaphandle kokoyisa loo mithambo-luvo kwaye uzame ukuyibamba, ke ndiza kuchaza indlela yokusondela kwikati enovalo.
Wazi njani ukuba ikati yam iyanovalo?
Kukho iimeko ezithile ikati engaqhelekanga ukuzithanda: ukufika kwelungu elitsha ekhayeni, ukuhamba, ukukotywa ixesha elide, ukusiwa kugqirha wezilwanyana kwaye, ngokubanzi, naluphi na utshintsho olwenzeka kwinkqubo yalo yemihla ngemihla. Ngezi zizathu ngamanye amaxesha siyakubona oko iinwele zakhe zime bhunxe, que bonisa amazinyo, okanye nokuba huff o ukugquma kumntu okanye isilwanyana esiphambi kwakhe.
Ukuba icinezelwe ngalo mzuzu, ayizukuthatha umzuzwana ukuba isabele ngendlela enobundlongondlongo okanye enobundlobongela, ukuzama ukukrwela kunye / okanye ukusiluma.
Ungenza njani kuye?
Indawo efanelekileyo ayizukusondela 🙂. Xa ikati inje, eyona nto intle ukuyenza kukuyiyeka iye kwelinye igumbi, ukuze izole. Kuphela xa egula okanye enzakele apho singasondela kuye ukuze simthathe simse kugqirha wezilwanyana. Uyenza njani
Eyona ndlela ikhawulezayo yokumenza azole kancinci yile ehleli ekoneni, kude naye, embonisa impatho iikati. Kungenzeka, ekuqaleni akafuni kutya nantoni na, kodwa emva kwemizuzu embalwa uza kubona indlela ezolile. Iya kuba ngelo xesha ke xa unokuthatha isiqwenga. Emva kokuba eyityile, yongeza enye, kodwa le isondele kancinci kule ndawo ukuyo. Okwangoku, omnye umntu unokutshiza kancinci Kude kude ophetheyo. Le yimveliso eya kukunceda ukuba uhlale uzolile.
Nje ukuba ikati isondele kuwe kwakhona, unga yisongele ngetawuli ngobunono kodwa ngokuqinileyo eshiya intloko yakhe ngokucacileyo ngaphandle. Qhubeka umnika ukuphatha ikati ukuze abone ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo, kwaye umfake kumphathi.
Ngezi ngcebiso ikati yakho, nokuba ingoyikisa kangakanani, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuzola kungekudala.